low cost ✨ self date ideas for single shy girls
I used to have a partner back over the summer ,but we broke up due to poor circumstances. And it led me lose myself and have a hard time being on my own. I recently found a new person and have been exploring and that new person is me. Loving myself and growing has become a challenge ,i’m willing to do anything to get to a place of self love.
Here are some things i’ve been doing to get to know myself these past few weeks. And i’ve spent under $30 doing them as well!
☀️ Remember enjoyment doesn’t have to cost anything. Retail therapy is fun, but I struggle with budgeting and depressive hauls. So trying to find cheap alternatives is always a great way for me to learn.
♥️ notes & my story:
how i’m conquering my low-self esteem and bpd
- my story: I discovered I had a mood disorder and personality disorder about a year ago. For years I was misdiagnosed as anxiety being my sole mental state, yet I knew it was more. Eventually with time and much fighting I was diagnosed. Bpd, is a personality disorder. It is hard to treat, and it affects relationships and friendships and self-esteem. People with bpd often struggle with self-worth and base it on how people treat them. I struggle with this immensely and wanted to get out of this mindset.
- how it might feel day to day? : you might feel like things aren’t getting better ,but you aren’t alone.
#embracevulnerability #selflove #selfdating #springreset #depressiontips #anxiety #anxietyrelief #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts #diarypost
Some places to go to do these things:
Embracing self-dates is not just about keeping costs low; it's an empowering journey towards self-discovery and self-love. Here are some thoughtful and affordable self-date activities you can explore. 1. **Nature Walks**: Venture into local parks or nature trails. Nature has a calming effect and can help uplift your mood. 2. **Art and Craft**: Indulging in creative activities like painting or crafting at home can be therapeutic. Use materials you already have or find inexpensive supplies at local stores. 3. **Reading**: Visiting a local library or cozying up at a café with a good book is a perfect way to spend your time alone and engage your mind. 4. **Cooking or Baking**: Experiment with new recipes at home. You can try making international dishes or baked goodies, allowing yourself to learn while enjoying delicious treats. 5. **Photography**: Take your phone or camera and explore your city or neighborhood. Capture moments that reflect your experiences and surroundings, enhancing your appreciation for everyday beauty. 6. **Yoga or Meditation**: Take time to relax and practice mindfulness. There are countless free resources online for guided sessions to help you get started. 7. **Visit Local Cafés or Markets**: Treat yourself to a coffee or snack from a nearby café or explore local farmers' markets for fresh produce. Incorporate activities that resonate with you and keep in mind that self-dating is all about understanding and loving yourself better. Sharing your experiences with others can also create bonds and encourage like-minded individuals to explore self-love.
You are so pretty yourself 😍