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Love yourself is probably the best.

I am a person who does not like me. I love myself. I always take care of the feelings of those around me.

Until sometimes having to ask yourself,

What is self-love? I don't even understand what this means.

# What is self-love

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว ผมเคยเป็นคนที่ใส่ใจและดูแลความรู้สึกของคนอื่นมากกว่าตัวเอง จนบางครั้งลืมถามตัวเองว่าเราต้องการอะไรหรือรู้สึกอย่างไร การเรียนรู้การรักตัวเองจึงเป็นการเปิดโอกาสให้เราได้เข้าใจความรู้สึกภายในและตั้งใจดูแลตัวเองเหมือนที่เราดูแลคนรอบข้าง การรักตัวเองหมายถึงการเคารพและเห็นคุณค่าของตัวเอง โดยไม่ละเลยความต้องการทั้งทางกายและใจ บางครั้งเราอาจเข้าใจผิดว่าการรักตัวเองคือการเห็นแก่ตัว แต่แท้จริงแล้วเป็นการสร้างสมดุลที่ดีระหว่างการดูแลตัวเองและการใส่ใจผู้อื่น ผมเริ่มต้นด้วยการใช้เวลาทบทวนความรู้สึกของตัวเองทุกวัน เช่น การเขียนบันทึก หรือการเช็กสุขภาพจิตใจ รวมถึงพูดคุยกับคนที่ไว้ใจ เพื่อค้นหาว่าอะไรทำให้เรามีความสุขหรือเครียด สิ่งเหล่านี้ช่วยให้ผมเข้าใจว่าการรักตัวเองไม่ใช่เรื่องซับซ้อน แต่คือการให้โอกาสตัวเองได้มีความสุขและเติบโตอย่างแท้จริง นอกจากนั้น การตั้งขอบเขตในความสัมพันธ์ต่างๆ ก็สำคัญ เพราะจะช่วยป้องกันไม่ให้เราถูกเอาเปรียบ และสร้างความสัมพันธ์ที่ดีบนพื้นฐานของความเคารพกันและกัน สุดท้ายแล้ว การรักตัวเองไม่ใช่เรื่องที่เกิดขึ้นภายในวันเดียว แต่มันคือการเดินทางอย่างต่อเนื่องที่ให้เราค้นพบศักยภาพและความสุขในแบบของตัวเอง

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