My 9-5 is killing me

Outside of my little social media bubble, I am a Licensed Insurer with one of the largest companies in the US market, which is still a crazy thing to think about.

I love what I do deep down, I help people everyday. People come see me for advice when they’re growing their family, and others come meet with me when they’ve lost someone they love. It can be a rollercoaster, and while I’m so blessed to have this role, I’m exhausted.

Truly, exhausted. Working the same schedule M-F, spending all day having to be “on” and ready to meet with people. It keeps me so busy that I have to really fight to have a fun outlet. A “third space” like I discussed on here in the past.

But I just want to reiterate. When you get onto instagram and Lemon8 and TikTok, those people are struggling too. They’re only showing the highlights. #embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #unaesthetic #storytime #trending #inspo

2024/3/13 Edited to

... Read moreMany people working traditional 9-5 corporate jobs experience similar pain points like chronic stress, burnout, and a struggle to maintain work-life balance. From my personal experience, constantly being "on" and prepared to support clients emotionally can be draining. It’s important to recognize that these feelings are common, and you’re not alone. One major challenge is the emotional toll that jobs entail, especially roles involving client support during sensitive times, like ours in insurance. Such positions demand mental resilience but can leave you depleted if you don’t build in enough downtime or outlets. I found that cultivating what’s called a "third space"—a personal zone or activity outside work and home where I can recharge—is essential. This might be a hobby, social group, or simply dedicated time outdoors. You have to actively fight to create that balance because the corporate grind often feels relentless. It’s also worth remembering that social media rarely shows the full picture. Many people portray only positive highlights, masking their real struggles with fatigue or dissatisfaction. Embracing vulnerability and sharing your authentic story can help build community and support. If you feel overwhelmed at your 9-5, consider small changes like setting boundaries on your availability, engaging in physical activity to relieve stress, or seeking professional help if burnout starts affecting your mental health. Everyone’s journey is unique, but connecting with others who understand these challenges can make a significant difference.

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