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Know it?: Why does "heart" disappear from the word "love"?

In Chinese, the word "love" (Ai) changed dramatically from the language reform to Simplified Chinese in the 1950s.

1.former: with "heart" ()

Traditional Chinese, the word love is written like this:

If we separate the components, in the middle of the letter is the word xin, which means "heart."

Ideas: Chinese ancestors saw that true love always had a "heart" in the middle, requiring feelings, compassion and openness.

2.Present: without "heart"

When changed to an abbreviation to make it easier to write, the middle xin (heart) was cut away, and replaced with a (Y u) that means "friend" (in some fonts), or just a blank dash remains today:

until the philosophical parody: "," "," "Qn bà jià n, à i wú xen).

It means: "A relative has not found a face (because the abbreviation of the word relative has cut off the" look ") and heartless love."

Even linguistically, it's a simplification for convenience, but in terms of "relationships," we can take down the lesson:

Love without Heart:

In today's rushed world, we sometimes "love" in name, or love because it is a function (like an easy-to-write abbreviation), we care about physical comfort, but forget the feelings inside, so that we become "heartbroken" love.

Changing "heart" to "friendship":

In a positive light, some of the abbreviations are linked to the word "friend," teaching that the most enduring love is love based on "companionship," understanding, forgiveness, and being side by side on a day when the overtones of "heart" diminish.

Filling the "mind" back to itself:

Language may force us to write without heart, but in real life we have the right to add "Xin" back to every action, no matter how much the letter on the paper changes, but Mindfulness is what we have to create.

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... Read moreจากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การที่ตัวอักษร "ใจ" หายไปในคำว่า "รัก" นั้น สะท้อนถึงแนวคิดในชีวิตจริงอย่างชัดเจน โดยเฉพาะในยุคสมัยที่คนเร่งรีบและความสัมพันธ์ดูเหมือนจะเปลี่ยนแปลงไป ผมเคยสังเกตว่า คนจำนวนไม่น้อยมักแสดงความรักแบบผิวเผิน หรือแค่รักษาหน้าตา เพื่อให้สอดคล้องกับบทบาทหน้าที่ เช่น ครอบครัว เพื่อน หรือคู่รัก แต่ในใจจริงกลับขาดความเอาใจใส่และความรู้สึกที่แท้จริงเหมือนในอดีต ซึ่งคำอักษรจีนแบบเต็มที่มีหัวใจอยู่ตรงกลางนั้น เป็นสัญลักษณ์ของความรักที่ลึกซึ้งและอบอุ่น อย่างไรก็ตาม การที่ตัวย่อเปลี่ยนจากหัวใจไปเป็น "เพื่อน" กลับเป็นสิ่งที่น่าคิด เพราะมันชี้ให้เห็นว่า ความรักที่ยั่งยืนไม่ได้เกิดจากแค่ความหวือหวาของหัวใจเท่านั้น แต่เกิดจากมิตรภาพ ความเข้าใจ และการอยู่เคียงข้างกันในทุกสถานการณ์ ผมจึงเห็นว่า เราควรเติม "ใจ" กลับเข้าไปในความสัมพันธ์ของเราทุกวัน เพราะถึงตัวอักษรจะเปลี่ยนไปยังไง แต่ความใส่ใจจริงใจที่ลงไปในความรักจะเป็นสิ่งที่ทำให้ความรักนั้นแข็งแรงและมีความหมายมากขึ้น ในชีวิตประจำวัน ผมพยายามฝึก mindfulness หรือการมีสติอยู่กับความรู้สึกและความสัมพันธ์รอบตัว เพื่อไม่ให้ความรักกลายเป็นแค่หน้าที่หรือคำพูดสวย ๆ แต่เป็นความรักที่เต็มเปี่ยมไปด้วยหัวใจจริง ๆ ที่แสดงออกในทุกการกระทำ นี่คือบทเรียนที่เราอาจจะได้รับจากการสังเกตความเปลี่ยนแปลงของตัวอักษรคำว่า "รัก" ในภาษาจีน ที่สะท้อนความจริงในชีวิตมนุษย์ทุกยุคสมัย

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