My hair after embracing my natural waves& bends…

My whole life I have struggled to love my hair…

In middle school I had strawberry blonde hair that was wavy and constantly in tangles. It’s always been very fine and thin and quite literally impossible to run a brush through, especially when wet. I always wondered if my hair had some wave to it aka why it’s so hard to comb and brush. I tried wavy hair products before and ended up a crunchy mess.

I started dying my hair in high school because I was desperate to do anything to slightly like my hair. Since my hair is so fine and thin, damage was inevitable. I even got extensions for years. The before picture is right after my extensions were taken out and my hair blown out. Not a ton of damage… but just not great.

After trying this routine, I’ve started to love my hair for once in my life. It has so much volume, so soft, less split ends, and feels so much better. Curly hair police pls don’t come for me this is the first time I’ve liked my hair ever 🥲 also, there’s nothing wrong with fine straight hair. I will still wear it also! I think straight is just as beautiful.

If this sounds like you, do yourself a favor and try a wavy hair routine, get yourself a diffuser, and do some hair care 🩷🫶🏼

2024/4/6 Edited to

... Read moreSo many of us with what we thought was 'frizzy' or 'unmanageable' hair are actually hiding beautiful natural waves! My own journey taught me that with the right products and techniques, you can unlock incredible volume and texture you never knew you had. If you're ready to ditch the struggle and embrace your natural beauty, here's a deeper dive into a routine that can help transform your wavy hair, just like it did mine. Building Your Wavy Hair Routine: Step-by-Step Gentle Cleansing & Conditioning: Start with a sulfate-free shampoo to avoid stripping your hair of its natural oils. Focus on cleansing your scalp. When conditioning, be generous! This is where you gently detangle your hair, ideally with a wide-tooth comb, while the conditioner is still in. Rinse mostly, but leaving a tiny bit of conditioner can help with moisture and frizz control, especially for fine hair. Product Application on Wet Hair: This is crucial! Products work best when applied to soaking wet hair. This helps to form curl clumps and distribute the product evenly. Leave-In Treatment: A good leave-in conditioner is a game-changer for moisture and protection. I found 'THE BEST LEAVE IN' (as my image says!) really preps the hair, adds a layer of hydration, and can even offer heat protection if you're diffusing. Curl Enhancers: Next, reach for a curl crème for softness and definition. The 'THE MOISTURE' curl crème mentioned in my regimen is fantastic for this. Follow up with a curl gel for 'GOOD HOLD'. Scrunch these products into your hair, working from the ends up to the roots. Don't be afraid to add a little more water to help the products emulsify. Volume Boosters: For that glorious 'SO MUCH VOLUME!!!', an activating curl mousse is your best friend. Apply it at the roots and scrunch it into the mid-lengths. This creates lift and body without weighing down fine waves. Drying with a Diffuser: The diffuser is non-negotiable for achieving volume and reducing frizz while drying. Use low heat and low speed. Gently cup sections of your hair with the diffuser bowl, bringing it up towards your scalp. Hold for a few seconds, then move to the next section. Avoid excessive touching while drying, as this can lead to frizz. Breaking the Gel Cast & Refreshing: Once your hair is 100% dry, you might feel a slight 'crunch' from the gel. This is a good thing – it means your waves are set! To eliminate this, gently 'scrunch out the crunch!' with a few drops of a bonding oil. This adds shine and softness without disturbing your curl pattern. For refresh days, when your waves need a little pick-me-up, a 'FOR REFRESHING' texturizing sea salt spray can reactivate your waves and add texture. Tips for My Fellow Fine/Thin Wavy Hair Folks: Less is More: With fine hair, it's easy to overdo products. Start with a small amount and add more if needed. Heavy products can weigh down your delicate waves. Root Clipping: While diffusing, use small clips at your roots to lift them away from your scalp. This provides extra volume as your hair dries. Lightweight Formulas: Opt for lightweight gels, mousses, and leave-ins specifically designed for fine hair. Embracing your natural waves is a journey of discovery and patience. It took me time to find what worked, but the results were so worth it. Don't be discouraged by initial struggles; keep experimenting, understanding your hair's needs, and most importantly, enjoy the process of loving your beautiful, natural texture!

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