My hair after embracing my natural waves& bends…

My whole life I have struggled to love my hair…

In middle school I had strawberry blonde hair that was wavy and constantly in tangles. It’s always been very fine and thin and quite literally impossible to run a brush through, especially when wet. I always wondered if my hair had some wave to it aka why it’s so hard to comb and brush. I tried wavy hair products before and ended up a crunchy mess.

I started dying my hair in high school because I was desperate to do anything to slightly like my hair. Since my hair is so fine and thin, damage was inevitable. I even got extensions for years. The before picture is right after my extensions were taken out and my hair blown out. Not a ton of damage… but just not great.

After trying this routine, I’ve started to love my hair for once in my life. It has so much volume, so soft, less split ends, and feels so much better. Curly hair police pls don’t come for me this is the first time I’ve liked my hair ever 🥲 also, there’s nothing wrong with fine straight hair. I will still wear it also! I think straight is just as beautiful.

If this sounds like you, do yourself a favor and try a wavy hair routine, get yourself a diffuser, and do some hair care 🩷🫶🏼

2024/4/6 Edited to

... Read moreSo many of us with what we thought was 'frizzy' or 'unmanageable' hair are actually hiding beautiful natural waves! My own journey taught me that with the right products and techniques, you can unlock incredible volume and texture you never knew you had. If you're ready to ditch the struggle and embrace your natural beauty, here's a deeper dive into a routine that can help transform your wavy hair, just like it did mine. Building Your Wavy Hair Routine: Step-by-Step Gentle Cleansing & Conditioning: Start with a sulfate-free shampoo to avoid stripping your hair of its natural oils. Focus on cleansing your scalp. When conditioning, be generous! This is where you gently detangle your hair, ideally with a wide-tooth comb, while the conditioner is still in. Rinse mostly, but leaving a tiny bit of conditioner can help with moisture and frizz control, especially for fine hair. Product Application on Wet Hair: This is crucial! Products work best when applied to soaking wet hair. This helps to form curl clumps and distribute the product evenly. Leave-In Treatment: A good leave-in conditioner is a game-changer for moisture and protection. I found 'THE BEST LEAVE IN' (as my image says!) really preps the hair, adds a layer of hydration, and can even offer heat protection if you're diffusing. Curl Enhancers: Next, reach for a curl crème for softness and definition. The 'THE MOISTURE' curl crème mentioned in my regimen is fantastic for this. Follow up with a curl gel for 'GOOD HOLD'. Scrunch these products into your hair, working from the ends up to the roots. Don't be afraid to add a little more water to help the products emulsify. Volume Boosters: For that glorious 'SO MUCH VOLUME!!!', an activating curl mousse is your best friend. Apply it at the roots and scrunch it into the mid-lengths. This creates lift and body without weighing down fine waves. Drying with a Diffuser: The diffuser is non-negotiable for achieving volume and reducing frizz while drying. Use low heat and low speed. Gently cup sections of your hair with the diffuser bowl, bringing it up towards your scalp. Hold for a few seconds, then move to the next section. Avoid excessive touching while drying, as this can lead to frizz. Breaking the Gel Cast & Refreshing: Once your hair is 100% dry, you might feel a slight 'crunch' from the gel. This is a good thing – it means your waves are set! To eliminate this, gently 'scrunch out the crunch!' with a few drops of a bonding oil. This adds shine and softness without disturbing your curl pattern. For refresh days, when your waves need a little pick-me-up, a 'FOR REFRESHING' texturizing sea salt spray can reactivate your waves and add texture. Tips for My Fellow Fine/Thin Wavy Hair Folks: Less is More: With fine hair, it's easy to overdo products. Start with a small amount and add more if needed. Heavy products can weigh down your delicate waves. Root Clipping: While diffusing, use small clips at your roots to lift them away from your scalp. This provides extra volume as your hair dries. Lightweight Formulas: Opt for lightweight gels, mousses, and leave-ins specifically designed for fine hair. Embracing your natural waves is a journey of discovery and patience. It took me time to find what worked, but the results were so worth it. Don't be discouraged by initial struggles; keep experimenting, understanding your hair's needs, and most importantly, enjoy the process of loving your beautiful, natural texture!

11 comments

Captain Lemon8's images
Captain Lemon8

Welcome! Can’t wait to see more from you in the future💛

Related posts

Embracing your sensuality 💋
• Be Present in Your Body Slow down and engage your senses. Feel the texture of your clothes, savor your food, and notice how your body moves. Sensuality comes from fully experiencing the moment. • Move With Intention Walk with purpose, take your time, and carry yourself with confid
TheIconicDiaries

TheIconicDiaries

3066 likes

A woman in grey athletic wear stands with her back to the camera, showcasing her physique. Overlay text reads "That Girl Hobbies," "HIGH ENERGY LOW ENERGY," and "Becoming a Better You."
A person with a backpack and hiking poles is seen from behind on a trail. A white box lists "HIGH ENERGY HOBBIES" including running, CrossFit, cycling, and martial arts.
A blue sky with white clouds forms the background for a white box listing "LOW ENERGY HOBBIES" such as yoga, meditation, gardening, and reading.
50 Hobbies To Become Healthier & More Feminine ✨🌸🍋
✨Allocate 20% of Your Time for Hobbies✨ It's crucial to dedicate a portion of your day to engaging in interesting hobbies. It's good for your personal growth and happiness. ✨Tips for Choosing Hobbies✨ Just start doing something: Its importance to take action and experiment with var
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

2345 likes

Embracing The Bond Series
#booksoflemon8 #fatedmates #paranormalromance #romancereader #paranormalromancebooks
Author T. D. Edwards

Author T. D. Edwards

688 likes

A person's forearm displays self-harm scars and an arrow tattoo, with text overlay "embracing my scars" and "lemon8 @carolinerooks", symbolizing strength and recovery.
A motivational quote on a white background reads: "AN ARROW CAN ONLY BE SHOT BY PULLING IT BACKWARDS. SO WHEN LIFE IS DRAGGING YOU BACK WITH DIFFICULTIES, IT MEANS THAT IT'S GOING TO LAUNCH YOU INTO SOMETHING GREAT. SO JUST FOCUS, AND KEEP AIMING."
A social media post shows a close-up of an arm with an arrow tattoo. The caption, from "yocaroline", quotes: "An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means it's going to launch you into something great. So just focus, and keep aiming."
TW: EMBRACING MY SCARS 💕 | BODY POSITIVITY
"An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means it's going to launch you into something great. So just focus, and keep aiming." - this was the meaning behind my tattoo. TW: I struggled with self-harm as a teenager and I’v
Caroline 🫶🏼

Caroline 🫶🏼

609 likes

A person takes a mirror selfie, sitting on the floor. The image features the title "9 SHADOW QUESTIONS TO ACCEPT YOURSELF" in bold white and red text, with the Lemon8 logo and username at the bottom.
A top-down view of feet in white sneakers and blue striped shorts on a concrete surface. The image displays shadow questions 1 and 2 in white and red text.
A top-down view of feet in black loafers, holding a bouquet of white tulips. The image presents shadow questions 3 and 4 in white and red text.
Embracing our shadows: true growth ✨
Hello friends! 🍋 Embracing who you are isn’t always easy, especially when it means facing the parts of yourself you find difficult. I’m been there… This is where shadow questions come in. The questions that can help us to explore our fears, insecurities, and areas you usually avoid, but norm
Thamires Cottone | REALTOR

Thamires Cottone | REALTOR

59 likes

Embracing Peace
Think of your life as a story. Every part of it - your past, where you are now, and where you're headed - is important. Loving yourself means accepting every bit of that story. It means understanding that your past experiences have made you who you are, being okay with where you are at this mom
J

J

229 likes

🧸🪽 Embracing the quiet, living in pink. (❁´◡`❁)*✲゚
Lately, it's all about the simple, pink, quiet life. 🪽🫧🧸 Finding so much joy in slow mornings, soft colors, and peaceful moments to myself. This is my kind of happiness. . · #pink #shoujo #aesthetic #fyp #peaceful
NINi

NINi

1112 likes

Embracing The Bond Series
#booksoflemon8 #fatedmates #paranormalromance #romancereader #paranormalromancebooks
Author T. D. Edwards

Author T. D. Edwards

186 likes

Embracing Natural Beauty 🪷 The Journey of my Locs
Every strand tells a story, and my locs are a testament to my journey of self-love and natural beauty. From the early days of twisting to the growth and care they require, it’s been an incredible experience. Embrace your natural hair and let it be a reflection of your inner strength and beauty 💯✨
Sei🌛

Sei🌛

68 likes

START EMBRACING YOURSELF 🌸
Embrace your power, your quirks, your journey—because the most beautiful thing you can be is unapologetically YOU. 💫 #embraceessence #embraceserenity #embraceyouruniqueness #embraceyourworth💋 #embraceyourglow
ranarowan

ranarowan

1086 likes

embracing my natural waves ✨
for so long i was trying to make my hair do something it just didn’t want to do — too much heat, layering products that didn’t work, and constant frizz. once i started embracing my natural waves instead of fighting them, everything changed. i’ve been using the pantene 10-in-1 spray and it enhanc
Sarina Agarwal

Sarina Agarwal

5 likes

Embracing Change and Letting Go 🔥
I wanted to share something important with you all. When I say “standing up for myself, burn bridges, pass me the matches,” it means I’m prioritizing my well-being and self-respect. Sometimes, standing up for yourself might mean letting go of toxic relationships or situations that don’t serve y
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

175 likes

Embracing my #Type4Hair! ✨
From coils to kinks, my natural curls are a beautiful reflection of who I am. It’s not just about texture; it’s about celebrating my roots, my journey, and all the uniqueness that comes with it. 🖤 #NaturalHair #CurlyAndProud #BlackHairMagic #CrownOfCurls #hairgoals
Ashley 1_n_only

Ashley 1_n_only

91 likes

-Embracing your vulnerability ❤️🥹
It's okay to Cry the Sky does it too. 📸: @MaySavedByGrace #bodytransformation #Lemon8PhotoStudio #Lemon8 #Lemon8Diary #selfcare #selflove #jesusfollower #jesuslovesyou #embracevulnerability #LoveYourself
ItzzzMay

ItzzzMay

26 likes

A person takes a mirror selfie, with text overlays about a "NO SEX JOURNEY" and "waiting because it's worth it," highlighting ways to stay abstinent.
A person sits on a stool, holding a microphone and smiling, with a text overlay stating "Knowing your purpose."
A person wearing headphones operates a video camera outdoors, with a text overlay indicating "Serving in church."
Embracing my single girl era✨
A little bit about me— after I gave my life to God at 12 years old, I’ve been dedicated to singleness and abstinence. I don’t intend to live my full life as the nuns do. God has made it quite clear to me that marriage will be a part of my story. But what I learned is I don’t have to chase after a p
ModistyAmethyst

ModistyAmethyst

455 likes

“🌿 Embracing my natural journey”
🌿 Since my big chop, finding the right products for my 4C hair felt like searching for a needle in a haystack – until now. Swipe to see the trio that has transformed my hair care routine: 1️⃣ **Dabur Amla Hair Oil**: A staple in my routine, this oil has been a miracle worker for my scalp and hai
sandra n

sandra n

87 likes

A person holds papers displaying a trading chart, with text overlay stating, "The market moves in trends—learn how to profit from them!" A car is visible in the background.
A green candlestick chart illustrates an uptrend with higher highs and higher lows. Text explains how to trade uptrends, including buying dips, using moving averages and RSI, and placing stop losses.
A red candlestick chart illustrates a downtrend with lower highs and lower lows. Text explains how to trade downtrends, including selling rallies, using MACD and trendlines, and placing stop losses.
🔥Trend Trading:How to Ride the Waves for Profit
Want to stop guessing and start trading with confidence? Mastering trends is the key! Markets move in three directions: 📈 Uptrend – Higher highs & higher lows → Look for buying opportunities. (The trend is your friend—until it bends!) 📉 Downtrend – Lower highs & lower lows → Short the
glo.jellyyy

glo.jellyyy

15 likes

My Girlhood (embracing my natural hair).
Sooo this is where my natural hair is right now. It has taken some time but i’m actually starting to embrace it. I also had to learn it’s more to it than dry looking slick backs (no shade, just how my hair was looking). So yeah I am still learning to love my natural hair! BUT glory to God for the g
Madison <3

Madison <3

28 likes

A table is set with various appetizers, including a charcuterie board with meats, cheeses, grapes, and crackers, alongside spinach and salami rolls, and strawberry cream cheese wraps. The image features text about embracing femininity.
A person in a pink floral dress lies on a blanket in the grass, holding a bouquet of pink flowers over their face. A basket of berries is nearby, with text about dressing modestly.
A baking sheet is filled with freshly baked, powdered sugar-dusted cookies with dark centers. The image includes text about baking and cooking as a way to embrace femininity.
EMBRACING MY FEMININITY💕
Swipe for more… #women #feminineenergy #naturalbeauty #femininity #womenofgod
BeyondGrace💕

BeyondGrace💕

45 likes

Two crocheted squares featuring Lumpy Space Princess and Jake the Dog from Adventure Time. The LSP square is purple with a lighter purple character, and the Jake square is magenta with yellow and brown. They are displayed on a wooden board, with crafting tools in the background.
A close-up of a crocheted square depicting Lumpy Space Princess. The square is purple with a lighter purple LSP, a yellow star, and brown eyes. A laptop and a pink crochet hook are visible in the background.
A crocheted square in progress, featuring Jake the Dog. The square is magenta with a yellow and brown Jake character, with a crochet hook still attached. A ball of magenta yarn and a laptop are in the background.
Embracing My Inner Lumpy Space Princess and Jake
Hey everyone! 🌟 If you’re a fan of *Adventure Time* (like me!!), you know how awesome Lumpy Space Princess (LSP) and Jake the Dog are. These two characters bring so much joy and laughter into our lives, and I find myself relating to them more and more each day. 💖🐶 Lumpy Space Princess: The Quee
Chi

Chi

22 likes

Embracing my natural beauty 🤎
Glowy skin & freckles out is what I’ll be embracing #glowyskin #freckles #naturalbeauty
Marlene

Marlene

402 likes

Embracing Change:My Journey
As an architect,my guiding philosophy has always been:"Accept what is,let go of what was,and have faith in what will be" This mantra drives my passion for both architectural design and tattoo artistry. My work reflects the beauty of growth and transformation,blending precision with creativi
steezyink tattoo artist

steezyink tattoo artist

86 likes

Embracing the Power of ‘I Am’ 🫶
1. I am resilient. 2. I am worthy of love and respect. 3. I am capable of achieving my dreams. 4. I am deserving of happiness and fulfillment. 5. I am enough just as I am. 6. I am confident in my abilities. 7. I am beautiful inside and out. 8. I am worthy of self-care and self-compassion. 9
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

266 likes

Embracing My day 🤗
I go sit outside every day, no matter the weather—rain, sleet, or snow—and say this out loud. The birds singing are so amazing to me. ⬇️ 🌅Every step I take today, no matter how small, is a victory. I must Embrace this journey, for it's in the little triumphs that greatness is built. #gro
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

96 likes

A woman with voluminous, dark curly hair and bangs takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom, wearing a patterned robe. The image includes the text "I'm over the natural hair movement!" and represents her natural hair journey.
I’m over the natural hair movement!
Ladies, it’s time to talk about a change that’s been a long time coming. After years of being a proud natural hair girly, I’ve made the decision to switch to wearing my hair straight. The truth is, as much as I’ve loved embracing my natural curls, it’s become harder and harder to manage. Between
Trinity

Trinity

1956 likes

A close-up selfie of a person with light brown, wavy hair and glasses, sitting in a car. The text overlay reads "Embracing my natural wavy hair," reflecting the article's theme of accepting natural hair.
Embracing my natural wavy hair
Almost 30 years later i decided to learn how to care for my wavy hair. I have never felt more beautiful 😍 #naturalwavyhair #embracenaturalhair #wavygirl
Miranda

Miranda

10 likes

“Embracing New Horizons”
As the sun rises, it brings with it the promise of a new beginning. The flight of birds reminds us to soar freely toward our dreams, leaving behind the past and embracing the endless possibilities of today. Let this image inspire you to move forward with hope and determination. #NewBeginnings
The Quotes Page

The Quotes Page

266 likes

🌿 **Embracing Growth and Wisdom** 🌿
This journey is all about growth, wisdom, self-reflection, and deep healing. 🌟✨ Every day is an opportunity to evolve, learn, and heal. Let’s embrace the process and become the best versions of ourselves. 💖 #GrowthJourney #Wisdom #SelfReflection #DeepHealing #Evolve
RichGirls

RichGirls

129 likes

Embracing Stress-Free Living: Why It’s Okay
Random Thoughts 💭What's on my mind: Stop trying to please everyone Current Mood: Stressfree The pressure to please everyone can feel overwhelming. We find ourselves constantly striving to meet the expectations of others, often at the expense of our own well-being. But what if I told yo
Chris Cash

Chris Cash

116 likes

Embracing Natural Beauty & Self Care ✨
Taking a moment to appreciate the journey of self-love and natural beauty. Feeling grateful for the growth, both inside and out. In this post, I’m celebrating the beauty of natural hair and the importance of self-care. Embracing my natural locs have been a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
Sei🌛

Sei🌛

35 likes

Embracing my hair as a black girl
#embracevulnerability Vulnerability 🤍 My Story: growing up my mom always made me get relaxers , I always had straight hair. I felt like if my hair wasn’t relaxed or I didn’t have a protective style like I was ugly. I hated the way my natural hair looked. As I got older, I started dying and ble
kaitlyns.jpg

kaitlyns.jpg

5 likes

Embracing Mistakes Fuels Growth and Courage
Taking chances everyday will get closer than where you need to be in life. #TakeChances #MakeMistakes #GrowthMindset #CourageousHeart #EmbracePain #BraveSouls #FailForward #StrengthThroughStruggle
JarodFitnesslifestyle

JarodFitnesslifestyle

83 likes

EMBRACING MY 4C HAIR
Growing up, I struggled with insecurities around my 4C hair. The media made it seem like my texture wasn’t "good enough," and I grew up getting perms and waking up at 5 am to have my hair hotcombed before church—only for it to turn back into an afro after three hours. 🙄 But here’s the tr
shaylagabrielle

shaylagabrielle

20 likes

A pink graphic titled 'SELFLOVE: Embracing Self-Love: A Journey of Self-Love' outlines five key practices: Practice Gratitude, Nurture Your Body, Prioritize Mental Health, Set Boundaries, and Invest in Personal Growth. It features heart and star motifs and is attributed to @AnxietyDiary.
Embracing Self-Love A Journey of Self-love 💖
Embracing Self-Love A Journey of Self-love 💖 In a world that constantly demands our attention, it’s easy to forget the importance of self-love and self-care. Today, let’s take a moment to prioritize ourselves and celebrate the journey of embracing self-love. 🌟 🌸 Practice Gratitude: Take a mom
Anxiety Diary

Anxiety Diary

207 likes

The waves are WAVING 😍 #wavyhair #wavyhairtips #wavyhairstyle #naturalhair #naturalhairstyles #30sclub
BaileyB ✨

BaileyB ✨

7 likes

See more