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The true self "is not the end," but "the beginning.

Going through Deep Transformation is like "shelling," or removing the pantomime that society, parents, or fear wear on you. When these shells come off, what lies in front of them is The Authentic Self, or the True Self.

But the "true self" on this stage is not something you have to go after from afar, it is to "remember" Remembering who you really are when there is no expectation of the world.

These 4 things are what you will find in the next step when you begin to remember the true self.

1. Meeting with the "internal compass" Internal Authority

Before, you might have decided by asking how people would look or whether it would look successful, but when you find the real self, you ask, does this align with my Values?

You will permanently stop comparing yourself to others because you know that your treadmill is unique and that you do not compete with anyone.

2. Work according to the "call" Alignment with Purpose

Not everyone has to resign to the foundation, but it is

No matter what career you do, you will do it with a clear "will."

You'll find that you're particularly good at anything by nature, Gift, and how can you use that to benefit the world without being tired?

3. The courage to "not perfect" The Power of Vulnerability.

The true self does not mean to be the best, but the one who dares to reveal his vulnerability and true identity.

You will stop wearing "good man" or "good man" masks all the time. You dare to say "I don't know" or "I was wrong."

4. "Integrity" living, conformity

Your words, thoughts and actions will become one flesh.

What you say in public and what you think of yourself alone will match. Inner Conflict disappears, giving you a very high vitality.

👉 read Stage 1 Deep Transformation at the previous post Profile page.

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... Read moreการค้นพบตัวตนที่แท้จริงไม่ได้เป็นแค่เพียงเป้าหมายเดียวของชีวิต แต่เป็นกระบวนการที่ช่วยให้เราเข้าใจและยอมรับตัวเองในแต่ละวันมากขึ้น จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว พบว่าการผ่าน Deep Transformation หรือการเปลี่ยนแปลงอย่างลึกซึ้ง ช่วยให้เราลอกเปลือกของความคาดหวังต่างๆ ที่สังคมหรือครอบครัวสร้างขึ้นได้อย่างแท้จริง สิ่งที่น่าสนใจมาก คือการได้รู้จักเข็มทิศภายใน หรือ Internal Authority ซึ่งเป็นการตัดสินใจจากคุณค่าและความรู้สึกที่แท้จริงของตัวเอง ไม่ใช่จากสายตาของคนรอบข้าง การเลิกเปรียบเทียบตัวเองกับคนอื่น ช่วยปลดปล่อยความเครียด และทำให้เราเดินตามเส้นทางที่เหมาะกับตัวเองได้อย่างมั่นคง อีกสิ่งที่สำคัญคือการทำงานตาม "เสียงเรียก" หรือ Purpose ของเรา ไม่จำเป็นต้องเป็นงานที่ยิ่งใหญ่ มีชื่อเสียง แต่อยู่ที่ว่าเราทำอะไรด้วยเจตจำนงที่ชัดเจนและรู้สึกว่ามันสอดคล้องกับตัวเอง วันหนึ่งจะพบว่าของขวัญหรือทักษะพิเศษ (Gift) ที่ติดตัวมานั้นช่วยให้ชีวิตมีความหมายและสามารถสร้างประโยชน์ให้โลกอย่างไม่ต้องเหน็ดเหนื่อยเกินไป ความกล้าสารภาพและเปิดเผยความไม่สมบูรณ์แบบ หรือ The Power of Vulnerability กลายเป็นพลังที่ยิ่งใหญ่ในการทำให้เราเป็นตัวเราเองโดยไม่มีหน้ากาก สังคมจะเห็นความเป็นมนุษย์ที่แท้จริงของเรา และเราก็จะมีความสุขมากขึ้นจากการอนุญาตให้ตัวเอง "ไม่รู้" หรือ "ผิดพลาด" ได้อย่างเต็มใจ สุดท้าย การใช้ชีวิตแบบ "Integrity" คือการรักษาความสอดคล้องระหว่างความคิด คำพูด และการกระทำ ทำให้เกิดความสงบในใจและพลังชีวิตที่แท้จริง ความขัดแย้งภายในลดลงนั้นช่วยเพิ่มความชัดเจนและประสิทธิภาพในการดำเนินชีวิต ถ้าได้เริ่มต้นเรียนรู้และปฏิบัติตาม 4 ขั้นตอนนี้ จะช่วยให้การค้นพบตัวตนที่แท้จริงไม่ใช่แค่จุดจบของความสงสัย แต่เป็นจุดเริ่มต้นของชีวิตที่เต็มไปด้วยความหมายและความสุขอย่างแท้จริง

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