To the Parents just getting their kids started in sports,
If you’re wondering if it’s worth it…
It is.
It will require a lot of you, and it will require a lot of your athlete too.
There will be early morning drives sipping last minute Starbucks, willing yourself awake.
There will be late night drives in traffic jams and hideously long lines at In & Out and Canes.
There will be forgotten jerseys and forgotten cleats and rushing to the nearest sports store to get a new mouth guard.
There will be bonus kids crammed in your car with road trip shenanigans.
There will be bad smells…so many bad smells. There will be pads and jerseys and socks and gloves and girdles. And you will hug them anyway when they’re covered in sweat and stench.
There will be emails. So many emails, and texts, and sign ups.
There will be coaches that will shape them.
There will be sports friends that become sports family.
There will be wins that are so hard fought, it will be better than any professional game you’ve ever seen.
There will be losses. Losses that gut them (and you), and those losses will raise them right.
There will be losses off the field too. They will grapple with unforeseen challenges and obstacles. They may mourn tragedies. They may face grief.
But if they lean on each other, they will make it through, and you will be more proud than you ever thought possible.
You will get tired sometimes.
But you will never want it to end.
And one day it will.
As much as you try to stop it.
It will.
And I can tell you now, you will know it was the most precious gift. You will know that you would give up every weekday evening, Saturday morning, and Friday night all over again just for one more game…
With those kids, those coaches, on that field…and with those parents.
To watch them do what they love, with their brothers or sisters by their side.
Because they left their blood sweat and tears here, and you did too.
Because life will go on, but what happened on the field and the bleachers will stay forever.
Love
A Sports Mom
The morning after the last Friday Night Lights.
Written by Jess Johnston
Starting your child in youth sports is truly a transformative experience that shapes both the athlete and the parent. It’s much more than just games and practices; it’s about commitment, growth, and community. Parents often find themselves juggling hectic schedules, driving through early mornings and late nights, learning to cherish every chaotic moment despite the exhaustion. The forgotten jerseys, extra mouthguards, and unplanned stops at sports stores become badges of dedication rather than inconveniences. These experiences foster resilience and adaptability not just in kids but in parents, too. The shared rides with teammates, often filled with laughter and the occasional road trip shenanigans, create a sense of camaraderie that extends beyond the field. These bonds often blossom into deep friendships and a supportive sports family that uplifts every member during highs and lows. Winning games after hard-fought battles instills pride and joy, rivaling any professional sporting event. But it’s in the losses—those gut-wrenching, character-building moments—where true growth happens. Children learn to cope with disappointment, adversity, and sometimes even grief, with the support of their team and coaches. Coaches play a vital role in molding character, teaching discipline, teamwork, and perseverance. Their influence extends past the scoreboards, impacting life lessons that last forever. Through all the physical messiness—sweaty uniforms, stinky gear, and endless laundry—parents learn unconditional love and acceptance. Despite the chaotic schedules, texts, emails, and endless commitments, the joy of watching their children pursue their passions alongside siblings and friends becomes an irreplaceable treasure. Eventually, the seasons end, and children grow up, but the memories and lessons from the field linger forever. This journey leaves an enduring imprint not only on the athletes but on the parents who cheered them on with unwavering support and love. Engaging in youth sports is undoubtedly demanding but ultimately rewarding. For those new to this path, embracing each moment—the sacrifices, the celebrations, and the struggles—creates a profound and lasting bond that transcends sports, enriching family life in countless ways.



























































































keep your head up losses come with great wins 🥰