To the Parents just getting their kids started in sports,

If you’re wondering if it’s worth it…

It is.

It will require a lot of you, and it will require a lot of your athlete too.

There will be early morning drives sipping last minute Starbucks, willing yourself awake.

There will be late night drives in traffic jams and hideously long lines at In & Out and Canes.

There will be forgotten jerseys and forgotten cleats and rushing to the nearest sports store to get a new mouth guard.

There will be bonus kids crammed in your car with road trip shenanigans.

There will be bad smells…so many bad smells. There will be pads and jerseys and socks and gloves and girdles. And you will hug them anyway when they’re covered in sweat and stench.

There will be emails. So many emails, and texts, and sign ups.

There will be coaches that will shape them.

There will be sports friends that become sports family.

There will be wins that are so hard fought, it will be better than any professional game you’ve ever seen.

There will be losses. Losses that gut them (and you), and those losses will raise them right.

There will be losses off the field too. They will grapple with unforeseen challenges and obstacles. They may mourn tragedies. They may face grief.

But if they lean on each other, they will make it through, and you will be more proud than you ever thought possible.

You will get tired sometimes.

But you will never want it to end.

And one day it will.

As much as you try to stop it.

It will.

And I can tell you now, you will know it was the most precious gift. You will know that you would give up every weekday evening, Saturday morning, and Friday night all over again just for one more game…

With those kids, those coaches, on that field…and with those parents.

To watch them do what they love, with their brothers or sisters by their side.

Because they left their blood sweat and tears here, and you did too.

Because life will go on, but what happened on the field and the bleachers will stay forever.

Love

A Sports Mom

The morning after the last Friday Night Lights.

Written by Jess Johnston

2025/11/15 Edited to

... Read moreStarting your child in youth sports is truly a transformative experience that shapes both the athlete and the parent. It’s much more than just games and practices; it’s about commitment, growth, and community. Parents often find themselves juggling hectic schedules, driving through early mornings and late nights, learning to cherish every chaotic moment despite the exhaustion. The forgotten jerseys, extra mouthguards, and unplanned stops at sports stores become badges of dedication rather than inconveniences. These experiences foster resilience and adaptability not just in kids but in parents, too. The shared rides with teammates, often filled with laughter and the occasional road trip shenanigans, create a sense of camaraderie that extends beyond the field. These bonds often blossom into deep friendships and a supportive sports family that uplifts every member during highs and lows. Winning games after hard-fought battles instills pride and joy, rivaling any professional sporting event. But it’s in the losses—those gut-wrenching, character-building moments—where true growth happens. Children learn to cope with disappointment, adversity, and sometimes even grief, with the support of their team and coaches. Coaches play a vital role in molding character, teaching discipline, teamwork, and perseverance. Their influence extends past the scoreboards, impacting life lessons that last forever. Through all the physical messiness—sweaty uniforms, stinky gear, and endless laundry—parents learn unconditional love and acceptance. Despite the chaotic schedules, texts, emails, and endless commitments, the joy of watching their children pursue their passions alongside siblings and friends becomes an irreplaceable treasure. Eventually, the seasons end, and children grow up, but the memories and lessons from the field linger forever. This journey leaves an enduring imprint not only on the athletes but on the parents who cheered them on with unwavering support and love. Engaging in youth sports is undoubtedly demanding but ultimately rewarding. For those new to this path, embracing each moment—the sacrifices, the celebrations, and the struggles—creates a profound and lasting bond that transcends sports, enriching family life in countless ways.

1 comment

HeatherJ777's images
HeatherJ777

keep your head up losses come with great wins 🥰

Related posts

A pregnant woman is hugged from behind by a man, with text overlay 'ways to ANNOUNCE A PREGNANCY to your parents'. The image promotes ideas for sharing pregnancy news.
A pregnant woman and man with text overlays detailing pregnancy announcement ideas: 'Family Photo Shoot', 'Bun in The Oven', and 'Special Delivery' with descriptions.
A pregnant woman and man with text overlays detailing more pregnancy announcement ideas: 'National Grandparents Day', 'Bake A Cake', and 'Family Pet' with descriptions.
announcing pregnancy to your parents 🫶
hello ◡̈ I'm obsessed with baby and pregnancy announcements! Sharing the exciting news with the baby's soon to be grandparents (your parents and your partner's) is the best part! There are so many adorable ideas out there but here are a few that I just love! Who knows, maybe I'll
mom | sierra ◡̈

mom | sierra ◡̈

818 likes

A daughter's text messages to her parents, expressing heartbreak over their struggles, inability to plan her wedding, and concern for their well-being and their younger daughters. She mentions her mom not working and her dad drinking, urging them to get help.
A father's aggressive text messages demanding his daughter come over to discuss things in person, threatening her. The daughter replies she won't come and asks when her parents last called her just to talk.
A father's sarcastic texts about his daughter's education and lack of calls. The daughter expresses feeling unloved. The mother intervenes, telling the father to leave their daughter alone, while the father brings up child support and 'the Cartel'.
messages between my parents
UPDATE: as of october 16, 2024. my father is currently sober, he lost his job and his apartment and hit rock bottom. but i think it’s just what he needed. he’s been calling and texting everyday to update how he’s doing. he just got a new apartment that’s a lot cheaper. he’s doing doordash and is a
Autumn

Autumn

1570 likes

A wooden shelf unit with baskets, a plant, and a diffuser in a home entryway, with the text 'Declutter Hacks For Busy Parents' overlaid, introducing decluttering tips.
A wooden shelf unit with baskets, a plant, and a diffuser, with the text 'Set a Timer' overlaid, illustrating the first decluttering hack for busy parents.
A close-up of a woven basket filled with various toy animals on a shelf, with the text 'Use the "One In, One Out" Rule' overlaid, demonstrating a decluttering strategy.
Decluttering Hacks For Busy Parents
As a busy parent, finding time to declutter and organize your home can feel like an impossible task. However, with the right strategies, you can organize and declutter your home quickly and effortlessly. Here are some practical decluttering tips that will fit seamlessly into your busy schedule
KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

587 likes

When Parents Just Want To Move On
By Promise Israel aka @millennial_influencer_ on Instagram
Rickey Smiley

Rickey Smiley

4361 likes

I may be ready to send her back to her parents 🤨
#lashes #rude #beautiful #comedy #funny #funnyvideos #funnyvideo #funnytiktoks #silly #beauty
NikkiiD

NikkiiD

408 likes

A woman in a dark green dress and white head covering holds a light green frosted cake, smiling. Text overlay indicates she is "ranking the best makeup removers."
A pink and orange circular container of cleansing balm is shown. The product is described as formulated with nourishing oils. Text overlay rates it as "3. Pretty good."
A clear bottle of micellar cleansing water is displayed. The label highlights its all-in-one properties for face, lips, and eyes. Text overlay states it is "2. My most used."
Because how do I just forget my parents?
💔💔💔
Lovina

Lovina

1227 likes

9 Indoor Plants for Pet Owners & Parents to Avoid🪴
Some of your indoor plants just aren’t safe if you have pets or small children. While beautiful to behold, many popular genera of houseplants are toxic, whether mildly or severely. Worse, still others can cause skin irritation with too much handling! Here are 9 poisonous houseplants that, thoug
mkatzc

mkatzc

113 likes

Strict parents? No problem!
Literally I use these all the time!! #strictparents #adviceforteens #yourewelcome #dw #helpfultips #helpful #ParentsNeverKnow
Ineedhelplease

Ineedhelplease

104 likes

Parents, is this you? Read how to fix it 👇🏼
I thought it was common for primary parents to feel miserable and tired all the time and while I would 100% agree with you that it’s common - I want to remind you that just because it’s common doesn’t mean you have to accept that. These are all possible signs that your stress hormone system is stuc
RyanneP

RyanneP

2 likes

Vanessa & Cole are officially Parents of Two!! 🥹🥰
So I decided to go on instagram just to scroll and etc and the first thing I see is Vanessa. Vanessa has welcomed her second child!! She had posted on Instagram that she had her second baby in the cutest delivery picture. I’m so incredibly happy for her and Cole on their growing and beautif
Iyonna

Iyonna

1700 likes

a prayer for the parents 🫶🏽
let me tell you — i’ve prayed this prayer numerous times today. being a parent is an amazing gift but also a very, VERY challenging one and today is one of those challenging days. i have a 3 year old and an 11 year old and i, myself, am trying to be better at being understanding when i’m dysr
R Y E S I A

R Y E S I A

137 likes

Newfound Respect for My Parents 💔❤️
I was so angry when I came to the States. It felt like something was ripped out of me my home, my comfort, my life. For years, I was mad at my parents. But now I get it. They weren’t trying to hurt me… they were trying to give me something better. It just took me growing up to see the sacrific
Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

20 likes

Parents Guide to Autism Support & Natural Remedies
Are You Looking for Practical Ways to Support Your Child with Autism? Parenting a child with autism is a journey filled with love, challenges, and endless learning. You’re constantly searching for answers, therapies, and tools to help your child thrive—but it can feel overwhelming. That’s why
Nae Jay

Nae Jay

8 likes

A vintage-style photo shows a couple with obscured faces, standing on rocks with a baby in a carrier, against a mountainous backdrop. The text overlay reads "50 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARENTS," with the Lemon8 logo and username @itsrebekahjoy in the corner.
A white background displays a numbered list of questions from 1 to 25, including prompts like "Do you feel like you've 'made it' in life?" and "What was your dream job as a child?". The Lemon8 logo and username @itsrebekahjoy are visible at the bottom left.
A white background displays a numbered list of questions from 26 to 50, including prompts like "What is your biggest fear?" and "What are you proud of me for?". The Lemon8 logo and username @itsrebekahjoy are visible at the bottom left.
Questions to ask your parents 🫶🏼
As we grow up, our relationship changes a LOT with our parents. We’re no longer their child that needs to do as they say. We are all adults. Navigating that relationship can be tough. Here are a list of questions that you can ask your parents next time you see them to get to know them just a little
Rebekah Joy

Rebekah Joy

141 likes

A child's hand operates a green toy sink with a yellow faucet, creating bubbles. Pink and blue toy dishes are nearby. Text highlights it's a toddler play sink for $1.25 that actually works.
A child holds a blue toy cup with a green leaf, demonstrating practical life skills. Another child observes nearby, with a green toy sink and pink and blue dishes in a sensory bin.
Two children play with green and orange toy sinks in a wooden sensory table. The sinks, available in different colors, were purchased from Dollar Tree for $1.25 and kept them entertained.
Toddler parents… RUN TO DOLLAR TREE!😮
This is your sign to run to Dollar tree and get this little magic sink for your toddlers that are ONLY $1.25!! I was skeptical because I didn’t think they would work properly or be worth it, but to my surprise, they work & my toddlers love them🙌🏼 Just add some water into the sink, push do
Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

Dania Toddler Mom & UGC

94 likes

TODAY’S KIDS AS PARENTS (part 2)
Not the stanley cup😂 #stanley #stanleycup #stanleytumbler #waterbottle #parenting #relatable #funnyvideos #pov #makeup #healthylifestyle
meili_zzz

meili_zzz

328 likes

Two 'tell me your life story' guided journals, one pink for Mom and one grey for Dad, are displayed on a fluffy white surface. The image highlights them as a best gift idea for family to get to know parents better.
An open 'tell me your life story, MOM' journal shows questions about motherhood, next to a closed 'tell me your life story, DAD' book on a wooden table. A hand points to the open pages, illustrating the guided memory books.
A close-up of an open guided memory journal reveals sections for 'my siblings' and personal details like birth date, eye color, and occupation. The text explains the journal helps learn parents' histories with over 200 questions.
I FOUND THE PERFECT GIFT FOR MY PARENTS!! 💗🎁
Does anyone else always struggle with what to get their parents!? I always feel like they already have what they want and need. While I was browsing Amazon the other day, I stumbled upon these AMAZING guided memory books!! 📝 I swear they were in cart and checked out within 2 minutes. The rea
Sarah Jolie 🌸

Sarah Jolie 🌸

88 likes

can i just live with my parents forever?
#college #collegegirl #senioryear #collegestudentproblems
MACKENZIE💗💐🦋

MACKENZIE💗💐🦋

20 likes

Parents, is this you?
This was me just a few months ago. I thought that these signs were “common” in moms or primary parents especially and while I would 100% agree with you - I want to remind you that just because it’s common doesn’t mean you have to accept that. These are all possible signs that your stress hormone sy
RyanneP

RyanneP

3 likes

A white rectangular card hangs from a clip against a textured wall, displaying the handwritten text: "WHEN YOU'RE A KID, YOU DON'T REALIZE YOU'RE ALSO WATCHING YOUR PARENTS GROW UP." The bottom left corner shows a Lemon8 logo and username.
The Hidden Journey: Observing Parents Grow Up🔑ℹ️⬇️
As kids, we often get so caught up in our own world that we forget we’re part of a bigger picture. The truth is, while we’re busy growing up, we’re also witnessing our parents navigate their own personal journeys. This realization can hit us hard when we’re older, reflecting on how our parents were
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

17 likes

Parents’ Bedroom Scavenger Hunt!!!
Just don’t go in there!!! 😜🤣🤣 #uploadsoffun #comedyvideo #funny #awkward
Uploads of Fun

Uploads of Fun

506 likes

A desktop setup features a monitor displaying a plant-themed background. An app store pop-up for 'Plant Identifier, Care: Planty' is overlaid, promoting it as 'THE BEST APP FOR PLANT PARENTS.' The scene includes a pink keyboard, mouse, and a potted plant.
A phone screen displays detailed care information for a Monstera plant, including watering frequency, care level, and sun exposure. The accompanying text highlights the app's ability to provide easy and detailed care guides for various plants, helping users become plant experts.
A phone screen shows the app's reminder feature, displaying the current time and upcoming watering schedules for plants like 'Jane' and 'Aloe Vera.' The text emphasizes setting reminders to ensure users never forget to water their plants again.
the best app for plant parents
With the weather getting warmer of course I’ve been getting back into gardening and keeping more plants. I recently found this app and let me tell you, it is a life saver!! It’s called Planty and it’s free on the app store. This app gives you detailed care guides for basically every plant! There
josie 𓇢𓆸

josie 𓇢𓆸

122 likes

My parents: “you’re worrying us”
*gesticulates at book shelves 😨 You know that look your parents get when they see your overflowing bookshelves? The one that says, "What are you filling your head with now?" 🤨 Yeah, mine do that too. It's like a silent battle between their concern and my insatiable curiosity. Eve
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

35 likes

Top 5 signs of autism parents often miss early🧩
Early signs of autism can look different in every child, but some common things parents may notice are toe walking, limited eye contact, not responding to their name, covering ears even without loud noises, and not wanting to smile for photos. Other early signs can include speech delays, lining
Autism_Glow

Autism_Glow

247 likes

I just miss living with my parents and I got a birthday coming up in July 23 and
Jericho Wimbrough

Jericho Wimbrough

8 likes

Two young women, one with a sun emoji covering her face, walk outdoors on a sunny day. The woman in the foreground wears a light blue sports bra and a Nike cap, holding a drink. Her friend, with blonde hair and a dark cap, walks beside her. Text overlays indicate 'Besties squad' and 'No makeup on'.
Weird to cuddle with your parents as an adult?
I was talking to my friend about this and she was like "yeah I barely ever hug my mom and dad." Meanwhile, I absolutely adore cuddling and hugging and having childish chatter with my parents I guess. Maybe this is an only child thing or maybe it's normal or maybe it's not normal. I
Zoe💌

Zoe💌

10 likes

Should I let my parents move in with me?🥲
Well apparently they have no money and no plan and they knew for the last 4 months they had to leave🙁they keep sending me lots of messages saying their about to be homeless and they don’t know what their gonna do… you had 8 years!!! And now you wanna come to my house for another 8? 😗Plus I just tur
🫶🏻

🫶🏻

1755 likes

A baby with light hair wears a grey triangular hat, held by an adult hand. Text overlay asks, 'Why Parents Are Shaving Baby's Head SWIPE,' introducing a common parenting topic.
The same baby is shown, with text overlay stating, 'To get baby's hair to grow back thicker and Faster! but...' This presents a common reason for shaving a baby's head.
The baby is featured again, with text overlay declaring, 'This is a complete myth! more info below,' debunking the idea that shaving a baby's head promotes thicker hair growth.
why parents are shaving baby’s head!
hello ◡̈ Shaving a baby's head to boost hair growth is actually a MYTH! Here's the facts: hair growth depends on genetics, hormones and overall health, not on shaving. Shaving doesn't affect the rate or thickness since hair grows from the follicle, not the surface. Plus, shaving can h
mom | sierra ◡̈

mom | sierra ◡̈

229 likes

Life as parents
When we first started trying, we both just prayed for God to bless us and he delivered. Tayelynne is the most wonderful and beautiful blessing we could ever have asked for. It’s just so crazy to think how much time has passed and yet she continues to amaze us everyday. To our little princess, mommy
❤️Andy & Logan❤️

❤️Andy & Logan❤️

27 likes

A flat lay of various bralettes and camisoles in different colors, including peach, pink, white, striped, light blue, olive green, grey, and beige, arranged on a dark grey fabric. The image has a text overlay that reads, "I really don't like wearing bras."
Is it ok to wear no bras at home/live with parents
So I kind of have a dilemma, I don’t like wearing bras at all. Of course I’ll wear them when I need to, like when I go in to the public. However when I’m at home, I don’t wear bras. I live with my parents. However my mom wants we to wear a bra when I’m at home too. Except during the night time. She
Amanda🪽

Amanda🪽

377 likes

My siblings and I PRANKED MY PARENTS
My siblings and I got inspo form a TikTok video and we decided as a sibling group that we should totally do this while our parents were away on vacation last week!!!! We hid over 221 little ducks everywhere!!! Boy was the reaction so funny at first they were annoyed but now I think they are just
Dani ✨

Dani ✨

1861 likes

Parents/ is this you?
This was me just a few months ago. I thought that these signs were “common” in moms or primary parents especially and while I would 100% agree with you - I want to remind you that just because it’s common doesn’t mean you have to accept that. These are all possible signs that your stress hormone sy
RyanneP

RyanneP

3 likes

Top 3 Podcasts For Parents Of Toddlers
Navigating the world of parenting, especially with toddlers, can sometimes feel like embarking on a rollercoaster ride filled with twists and turns. Thankfully, there's a wealth of knowledge and support available through podcasts, making the journey a bit smoother. Here are 3 of the best pa
KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

580 likes

Message to parents!!
Parents stop blaming your older or middle child for the younger child’s decisions. Stop making them take the role of a parent that YOU should have. Speaking as a middle child myself, I grew up raising my younger sister. I always get blamed for anything & everything for what my younger sister do
ruby rose

ruby rose

47 likes

A distressed woman with her hand on her forehead, with a blurred boy in the background. The image features sunflowers and text: "Why cycle breaker parents struggle to let their kids face consequences."
A light-toned background with a sunflower in the bottom left corner. The text reads: "It's not because they don't believe in growth."
A small teddy bear sitting with its back to the viewer on a light, soft background. The text states: "It's because they remember what it felt like to be left alone in it."
Why Cycle Breaker Parents Struggle
🌻 Caption (calm, spaced, Amanda Frances–inspired tone) For a long time I thought helping my kids meant stepping in early explaining more fixing faster softening every hard moment because I knew what it felt like to sit in something hard without support but over time I started to see som
Catalyst Life Coaching

Catalyst Life Coaching

21 likes

A family photo featuring two young adults and two older adults, with a text overlay that reads 'Why I cut my parents off,' set against a winter-themed backdrop with Christmas trees.
A family photo with five individuals, including the user, her two brothers, mother, and father, labeled with their respective relationships, standing in front of decorated Christmas trees.
A selfie taken on a boat in Seattle, showing the user smiling in the foreground, with an older man waving and an older woman next to her, and other passengers in the background.
Why I cut my parents off
My mom asked me if I’m pregnant. Normally when my mom says hurtful things to me I brush it off and ignore it. But this time I couldn’t stop crying. I had my first miscarriage in 2022 and another one in 2023. I was super scared to tell my parents I was pregnant because they are Christian and not rea
Tanya💛

Tanya💛

147 likes

Parents teach those kids how to cook❣️WHY⁉️⤵️
Parents teach those kids how to cook❣️WHY⁉️⤵️ . . Teaching your kids to cook is more than just a life skill — it’s a gift that keeps on giving. 💛 ⭐️Here’s why it matters: 🍽 Confidence & Independence Kids feel proud when they create something on their own. Cooking builds real-life
Reecreatees Life

Reecreatees Life

2 likes

A bottle of True Clear purified water and three orange pills in a small cup rest on denim. Overlay text asks, 'Do you always catch what your students bring in?' reflecting the teacher's illness.
When will parents understand?
One of my students walked in super sick. I asked if he was okay, and he said he threw up the night before. One hour later, he got sick right in class. We sent him home and called his parents, they was like: “Only once last night! Probably just bad food.” Last thursday, two more kids complained o
Olivia❤️

Olivia❤️

220 likes

parents need to stop doing this
1. Mocking your children. If they are trying to say something to you seriously, the last thing they need is for you to act like a child and mock them. Hear them out, it only makes us more mad when you mock us 2. Accusing them of lying. Not everything that comes out of our mouths is a lie. If you
Fiorella

Fiorella

35 likes

Parents- is this you?
This was me just a short time ago. I hear from a lot of people that these signs are “common” and I would 100% agree with you but just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s normal or healthy or you have to live with it. These are all possible signs that your stress hormone system is stuck in fight
RyanneP

RyanneP

1 like

my parents put me out
my parents put me out with no explanation 3 weeks ago.. i was in a toxic household i was always walking on eggshells and i’ve been getting put out once a year since i was 15 but im 21 now and this time i have a job and friends and people who care about me so im not struggling too bad to where i hav
Isabelita

Isabelita

199 likes

Parents,throw away the zipper onesie
Try a Ready Set Romper instead! No snaps or zippers, just easy diaper changes every time #diaperchangehack #diaperhack #toddlerproof #babymusthaves #babyoutfitideas
Ashley - Baby Must Haves

Ashley - Baby Must Haves

2 likes

A collage of Disney baby characters like Mickey, Minnie, Pluto, Stitch, Piglet, Donald, Daisy, Goofy, Tigger, and Winnie the Pooh, with text overlaying window blinds that reads 'Disney baby Finds' and 'SWIPE Prices and where to find is in the caption!!'.
A Mickey Mouse plush toy, highlighted with a yellow outline, is shown wrapped in a light blue blanket featuring Pluto designs. The plush has large ears and a friendly expression.
A Winnie the Pooh plush toy, highlighted with a yellow outline, is seated and wearing a red shirt with 'Pooh' written on it. It has colorful toy attachments on its sides.
🩵For The Disney Parents 💛
Most of the items I either thrifted or got it on the facebook market but I did extended research for the people🙌🏼 *Mickey Plush w/ swaddle * JCPenney $22 Walmart $62.23 (which is crazzzyyy) Poshmark $10 (shipping $7.97) Mercari $10 (shipping $4.99) just the plush tho *Pooh car seat toy*
Big nance

Big nance

183 likes

A purple Nugget play couch arranged as a sofa, with text highlighting it as the "OG" of play couches and asking why kids and parents love it.
A purple Nugget play couch with a wooden balance board, accompanied by text defining the Nugget as a versatile play couch with four foam pieces.
A playroom scene featuring a purple Nugget play couch, a toy kitchen, and a window, with text emphasizing its endless play possibilities and removable, washable covers.
Why Kids & Parents Love the Nugget 🧡
The Nugget play couch is one of my absolute FAVORITE playroom pieces in our home, and my kids LOVE it too! If you’re thinking about purchasing the Nugget play couch here is all you need to know! **What is it?** The Nugget is a versatile play couch with four foam pieces that can be rearranged
KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

KRISTEN | Simplifying Mom Life

141 likes

See more