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EP.6 - Anxious. How to keep it?

Seriously, I think the name of ep is still confused. 😂

But asking if the factors we can control are really just us, what we think, feel or decide to do, just us (who choose to do things that are appropriate for the times / situations)

Special thanks to the 'Waits Faster' meme from @ nobodysausage 😂👌🏻

It perfectly visualises what anxiety feels like - and reminds us to separate what's in our control from what's not.

# Mindfulness # Challenge to speak in front of the camera for 30 days

# SpeakingChallenge

# GrowthMindset

2025/11/21 Edited to

... Read moreความวิตกกังวลเป็นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้นได้กับทุกคน โดยเฉพาะเมื่อเผชิญกับสถานการณ์ที่ไม่แน่นอน เช่น การพูดหน้ากล้อง หรือการทำสิ่งใหม่ ๆ การเรียนรู้ที่จะรับรู้และเข้าใจว่าปัจจัยที่เราควบคุมได้จริง ๆ คือสิ่งที่เราคิด รู้สึก และตัดสินใจทำ ซึ่งเป็นวิธีที่ช่วยลดความเครียดและความวิตกกังวลได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ ใน EP.6 นี้ ได้นำเสนอแนวคิดที่ชัดเจนว่าการแยกแยะระหว่างสิ่งที่ควบคุมได้และไม่ได้สำคัญอย่างไร โดยมีแรงบันดาลใจจากมีม "Waits Faster" ที่แสดงความรู้สึกของความวิตกกังวลได้อย่างชัดเจนและสร้างความเข้าใจในตัวเองมากขึ้น นอกจากนี้ การฝึกฝน mindfulness หรือการมีสติอยู่กับปัจจุบันพร้อมกับยอมรับความรู้สึกด้านลบเป็นอีกหนึ่งวิธีที่แนะนำ เพื่อให้เราสามารถตอบสนองต่อสถานการณ์ได้อย่างเหมาะสม เพื่อเตรียมความพร้อมสำหรับความท้าทายในการสร้างเสริมทักษะใหม่ ๆ เช่น การพูดหน้ากล้องในกิจกรรม #challengeพูดหน้ากล้อง30วัน ที่เน้นการพัฒนาตนเองอย่างต่อเนื่อง สุดท้าย การมี Growth Mindset หรือทัศนคติที่พร้อมเติบโตและเรียนรู้จากความล้มเหลว ช่วยให้เราเปิดรับประสบการณ์และปรับปรุงตนเองได้ตลอดเวลา ซึ่งจะช่วยลดความวิตกกังวลและทำให้เราก้าวผ่านความกลัวหรือความไม่มั่นใจได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพมากยิ่งขึ้น

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