Hi friends! It's about time, and I just might be shaving bald this week. It took me a while to embrace that I’ll be turning 30 bald, with a patchy eyebrow, but I finally have the capacity to do it. Lots of emotions, but today, we are using humour! And when the time comes this week, I will also allo

Dear friends, it’s been a while. I’m sorry I haven’t been posting as actively. Even typing this feels difficult, especially in a world that’s constantly in a state of uncertainty. With everything happening around us, I’m very aware of how small my struggles may seem in comparison. But at the same t

"We even trained for my IPPT together." And that’s how my brother and I became closer. Growing up, we didn’t have the best relationship. But as we got older, we slowly learned to appreciate each other. And I never would have imagined that it was through serving our country that brought us closer to

Highlight of last month🌻 It’s been a long while since I last volunteered to spend time with elders, and not only did it remind me of my school days, it reminded me of my late grandparents too. From asking about my marital status to urging me to finish my soy bean curd before it turns cold, it was a

What should we do when things go dark and digital connectivity stops? Not ideal if you're in the office toilet 😅 But as a simulation, I tested my Ready Bag in a space without lights or Internet. It was also my first time tuning an FM radio in a long while, and it reminded me why staying prepared ma

I’m dedicating my very first post of the year to a very brave girl out there. 🫡 I recently spoke to a mum whose daughter is going through alopecia. Hearing her say, "She’s trying to be brave and positive about it." Her words stayed with me longer than I expected, and in a way, it gave me the courag

I really wanted to post this video before Christmas, because I know how tough the holiday blues can be, even more so when the words we offer ourselves aren’t as forgiving as the ones we give to others. Honestly, as the year comes to an end, I’m still trying to digest November, and it feels like

Good goodbye ft. 夫人和状元 💃🕺 I had the privilege of performing alongside 老赛桃源 Teochew Opera Troupe and Nick for a shoot! I got to play a warrior (武生, a male role), and also experience what it’s like to dress up as a 夫人 ✨️ We wrapped the shoot with a dance to good goodbye and we even did the shoes part

Dear friends, it's been a while since I last posted, and I hope life has been gentle on you. I am feeling better, and I dare say that I have fully recovered from Influenza A (including the post-viral fatigue). This week, I got my energy back! And amidst the signs of an alopecia relapse happening ag

For you're growing old, and my ambition is to be less of a burden to you." This is a line I often revisit in my journal, and for the longest time, I thought it only applied to children like me. But as our parents age, they too worry about being a burden to us. Hence, it's important to communicate a

Alopecia update: Today, I finally understood why I’ve kept quiet about my Alopecia regrowth. What started off as a simple fit check accidentally turned into a moment of realisation. I finally understood why I haven’t visited my barber, and why I’m afraid of celebrating my current regrowth. My re

As a creature of comfort that eats the same thing over and over again, the Fiery Rotisserie Chicken from Subway’s Signature Series was an interesting and fresh experience for my taste buds! Happiest 60th anniversary Subway! We still have a few Wednesdays left, and honestly I am quite intrigued to t

Here's to celebrating SG60 with @dbssg exclusive SG60 year-round deals! Last week, I brought my intern out to town for a half day break while we visited some of my favourite spots with DBS Card deals! From $60 off at Best Denki to Weekend deals at Cold Storage, DBS has plenty more deals happening!

Even though my lil mohawk didn't last/stand throughout the parade, I will always stand up for you, Singapore. 🫡 It's truly a privilege to be at the Padang with my ma on National Day! It was especially meaningful for my mum, as we just celebrated her 60th birthday two weeks ago! ❤️🇸🇬 What an experie

Hi friends, it’s been a while! I hope you’ve been gentle with yourselves. 🌻 Aside from being misgendered, people also tend to assume my sexuality based on how I look or dress. It’s something I’ve had to explain quite a bit too. I’m not offended, I understand the curiosity. I’ve even had this co

Two weeks ago, I returned to ITE College East, the place I once called home. While so much still looks the same, it’s heartening to see how things have progressed over the years. 🥹 The introduction of the ITE Progression Award (IPA) is one of such change! It's a meaningful step to support IT

As someone who often talks about how important mental wellbeing is, I also wanted to see how I can play my part at work as my company places a strong emphasis on mental wellbeing too. So, I recently spent two days taking on a para-counselling (basic) course using my SkillsFuture Credit, and gues

Last week, I attended the Young Leaders Programme (YLP), where I had the privilege of connecting with fellow young leaders from all over the world. I also reconnected with familiar faces from past conferences too!! From breakout sessions to reflections and ideation pitches, it was clear we all shar

As I grapple with how fragile life is, I am also deeply ridden with guilt for feeling this way on my birthday. Two years ago, I shared how I always dreaded my birthday because I didn’t see a reason to celebrate my existence. But at 27, I finally saw it as an achievement. Yet today, I am learning th

Can’t believe it’s been almost 10 years since I first stepped into Maju Camp as a "shy" 18-year-old. In a blink of an eye, I’m turning 29 this year (not 30… not yet 😅). This video was a really special one to film, and what made it even more meaningful was having Ma’am Sandra by my side.