Why do women like playing struggle Olympics? 😭

Every time I post about the things my man does for me, it’s always some miserable women in the comments trying to come for me. Like why? 😭

A lot of y’all think you’re “girls’ girls” but have no idea what that actually means.

If I saw a married woman post about her man cooking for her or paying her bills, I’d be like “go off queen 👑” — not “I could never.”

And that’s the problem right there. Too many of y’all want to play the Struggle Olympics.

“I could never let a man pay my bills.”

“I always cook for my man.”

Okay… that’s you. ( I HATE that for you btw) but also I don’t want to compete for whose life is harder. I promise you will win against me every time 😂😂

My man loves providing for our home, and I love taking care of him and pouring into our space. That’s balance.

And before the weird assumptions start — I’ve lived on my own before, I’m fully capable. We both have degrees, cars, and a home. We’re grown, stable, and happy.

So before you hop in another woman’s comments to shame her for being loved and taken care of, maybe ask yourself why you feel triggered by it.

Ask why your man isn’t pouring into you — or why you think being overworked and underloved is the standard????

Half of y’all’s men won’t even give you a compliment unprovoked 😭 and the rest are single, bitter, and hating from outside a club you could never be in🙊

Go touch grass and let women be happy. 💅

#woman #relationship #marriage #AskLemon8

#girltalk

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just live your life people will hate

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Ew I hate that kind, block em and keep showing out with ya man period 🥰 I love love

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