Automatically translated.View original post

Why the conflict never ends

🎶 new song "The War Never Ends" 🎶

Why doesn't the fight end? 🤔

Each "correctness" collides,

I want to love you, but we pass each other 💔

Beyond the "cage of perspective" that humanity has overlooked,

When I regain the world of my heart

Everything resonates with one

Now here is one beautiful harmony 🎶

# nTech # recognition technology # BESTBEING # NohJesu # fun# myself # excitement

2025/10/8 Edited to

... Read more争いの原因を知るうえで、私が特に共感したのは「観点の檻」の考え方です。私たちはそれぞれ異なる視点や価値観を持っていて、それが互いにぶつかることで摩擦が生まれるのだと気づきました。 例えば、友人や家族とのちょっとした意見の違いでも、相手の立場に立ってみることが難しい場合があります。これは無意識に自分の“正しさ”を優先しようとする心理が働いているからです。実際に私も過去に、自分の意見を譲れず、関係がぎくしゃくした経験があります。 しかし、その壁を越えられたとき、お互いの違いを尊重しながら、心から理解し合える瞬間が訪れました。それはまさに「beautiful harmony(美しい調和)」が奏でられる感覚でした。 また、現代社会では権力や財力による争いの形が変わっても、根底にある観点の違いの争いは続いています。これを変えていくためには、自分の心の内側を見つめ直し、多様な価値観を受け入れる柔軟性を持つことが大切だと感じます。 個人的には、心の世界を広げる方法として瞑想や自己探求の時間を持つことをおすすめします。自分の内側を知ることで他者への理解が深まるからです。 争いが終わらない世界を変えるカギは、まずは私たち一人ひとりが自分の観点の檻から解放され、心で響き合うことだと思います。あなたもぜひ、自分自身の観点を見直し、周囲と優しい調和を生み出すきっかけにしてみてください。

Related posts

A bathtub with water and lit candles, featuring a zipper-mouth emoji and a diamond ring, illustrating the title "How I Stopped Shutting Down During Arguments in My Marriage."
An aerial view of a tropical beach with turquoise water and white sand, accompanied by text about stopping the belief that silence equals peace in arguments.
An aerial view of a tropical beach with clear water, featuring text about learning to name feelings aloud during conflict, such as "I feel overwhelmed."
My Tips for Handling Conflict Without Going Silent
I used to shut down during arguments—not because I didn’t care, but because I cared too much and didn’t know how to process it. These 7 things helped me stay present, calm, and connected in my marriage—even when we don’t agree. Because going silent used to feel safer—but it didn’t solve anyth
CozyGirlMama🩷

CozyGirlMama🩷

5534 likes

A dark image with a lit candle and an open book, featuring the text 'SHADOW WORK SATURDAY Shadow Prompt THE SHADOW OF AVOIDANCE' and a quote about growth. It asks, 'What am I avoiding that my life keeps bringing back?'
A dark image with a lit candle and an open book, displaying the title 'WHEN AVOIDANCE IS RUNNING THE SHOW'. The text describes avoidance as waiting, preparing, or delaying, listing examples like procrastination and overthinking, and states it's protection, not laziness.
A dark image with a lit candle and an open book, titled 'STEPPING OUT OF AVOIDANCE'. It advises taking small steps, naming fears, and allowing discomfort to overcome avoidance, noting that courage often follows action.
The Shadow of Avoidance
“What am I avoiding that my life keeps bringing back?” Avoidance is one of the most invisible shadows because it rarely looks destructive. It looks like waiting. Preparing. Thinking things through. Getting ready. You tell yourself you’ll handle it later. When you feel stronger. When the
The Dark Moon Darling

The Dark Moon Darling

14 likes

Resolving conflict at work: tips and advice
Resolving conflict at work effectively requires a mix of communication skills, empathy, and problem-solving abilities. Here’s a step-by-step approach to handling conflicts professionally! #lemon8partner #careeradvice
thewerklife

thewerklife

27 likes

A dark blue and purple image features a silhouette of a person with a crescent moon over their chest. The text reads: "how each moon sign handles emotional conflict @COSMOSLIFEADVICEAPP". The bottom left corner has "lemon8 @nataliecruuz".
This image, set against a dark blue background with a moon silhouette, details how Moon in Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn handle emotional conflict. It describes their reactions like stubbornness, overthinking, and emotional guarding. The title is "how each moon sign handles emotional conflict @COSMOSLIFEADVICEAPP".
Against a dark blue background with a moon silhouette, this image explains how Moon in Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius handle emotional conflict. It covers their tendencies to over-talk, seek harmony, or detach logically. The title is "how each moon sign handles emotional conflict @COSMOSLIFEADVICEAPP".
how each zodiac handles emotional conflict 🌙🌟✨🔮💓👉
download cosmos-life advice from the app store to see what the stars have written for you💓💓 #astrology #zodiacsigns #moonsign #zodiac #astrologygirl
natalie

natalie

90 likes

Trauma Response — Fear of Conflict
Getting anxious when someone is upset is often a trauma response. Sometimes your body learned that anger, tension, or conflict meant something painful was coming next. #traumaresponse #healingjourney #nervoussystem #emotionalhealing #traumahealing
Elena Grace

Elena Grace

86 likes

A close-up of a man's hand holding a woman's hand, both wearing watches, with the text overlay "Relationship advice HOW TO FIGHT In a healthy way." The image sets the theme for discussing healthy conflict resolution in relationships.
A couple embracing by a lake with cherry blossoms, featuring a list of "DO's" for healthy conflict, including using "I feel" statements, listening, and taking space. This image illustrates positive communication strategies in relationships.
A person's hands on a car steering wheel, with a list of "DONT's" for unhealthy conflict, such as yelling, personal attacks, and leaving during an argument. This image highlights behaviors to avoid during disagreements.
Setting Healthy Boundaries in Conflict
Fighting is not only unavoidable, but it’s natural in relationships. If done well, fighting can bring a couple closer together. Being able to handle tough situations with self control and grace builds trust and security. However, if done poorly, fighting can destroy a relationship from the inside o
Delaney

Delaney

801 likes

A messy kitchen counter with a blue spray can, keys, and a plastic bag, featuring the title overlay "Why I Stayed In an Apartment I Hated" against a backdrop of white cabinets and stainless steel appliances.
A clean, modern kitchen with white cabinets and stainless steel appliances, featuring a text box listing reasons for hating the apartment: no natural light, noisy neighbors, constant mess, high bills, and no peaceful space.
A kitchen sink overflowing with dirty dishes, pots, and pans, illustrating the roommate's messiness. A text box explains the situation: "It was just me and my ex best friend...and I stayed because I was stuck in the lease."
Why I Stayed In an Apartment I Hated
I didn’t stay because the apartment experience was good, I stayed because I kept convincing myself it would get better. My internal dialogue was loud: “I’ll move next year.” “It’s not that bad.” “It’s only messy sometimes.” “Once money gets better, I’ll leave.” “She’s my best friend… we’ll
Cianah Monaa

Cianah Monaa

500 likes

Conflict Resolution at Work: Tips you need to know
Conflict in the workplace is a normal thing that you're bound to run into at one point or another. It's important not to avoid addressing conflict - whether that's with your co-workers or boss. Instead, you want to address the issue, and handle it calmly, progressively and with maturity
thewerklife

thewerklife

24 likes

Step back in silence—protect your peace and release conflict with ease
The Hermit x Five of Swords Interpretation: Withdrawal brings clarity as conflict, tension, or miscommunication arises. Choosing solitude allows you to see the truth without emotional distortion. Guidance: Step back, reflect, and choose peace over proving a point—protect your energy. What t
The Vanguard Alchemist Donna

The Vanguard Alchemist Donna

16 likes

3 tips to dealing with conflict at work
Handling conflict at work requires you stay cool, calm, and collected. Here are three ways to deal with conflict in the workplace. #lemon8partner #careeradvice
thewerklife

thewerklife

177 likes

A person wearing large sunglasses with the title text "Uncomfortable Questions when facing interpersonal conflict." The image includes decorative stars, a butterfly, and a flower, along with the Lemon8 logo and username @lizzyreaux at the bottom.
A white background displays a numbered list of 11 self-reflection questions for navigating interpersonal conflict, covering topics like communicating feelings, past issues, and acceptance. Small heart and flower icons decorate the page, with the Lemon8 logo and username @lizzyreaux at the bottom.
Bold pink text on a black, silky background reads "IF YOU NEED MORE ENCOURAGEMENT AND ADVICE, JOIN MY NEW DISCORD SERVER," followed by a Discord link. A pink fluffy arrow and a heart icon are present, along with the Lemon8 logo and username @lizzyreaux.
Uncomfortable Q’s for Interpersonal Conflict
Sometimes, the waters of our relationships get choppy, and we find ourselves in the midst of interpersonal conflict. It’s in these moments that diving deep with uncomfortable questions can illuminate the path to understanding and resolution. Here are some thought-provoking queries to help steer you
Lizzy Reaux

Lizzy Reaux

905 likes

A co-parenting spreadsheet displaying a May 2026 calendar, summaries for visits and phone calls with pie charts, and a detailed log for tracking visit status, duration, notes, and expenses. It includes columns for evidence and shared amounts.
A detailed view of a co-parenting spreadsheet showing a May 2026 calendar, summaries for visits and phone calls, and a log for tracking visit/call status, start/end times, duration, and notes/evidence. It highlights the tracking features.
A spreadsheet section for co-parenting shared expenses, featuring a summary of total monthly expenses, amount to be shared, amount paid by the other parent, and outstanding balance. It includes a detailed expense log and a payment status overview pie chart.
High conflict co-parenting. Excel & Google Sheets
Designed for high conflict co-parenting. Every visit, every call, every late pickup, every missed expense — one spreadsheet to document it all. Dropdown menus, auto-updating calendars, monthly summaries, and evidence notes. No formulas needed. Works in Excel & Google Sheets. Link in bio. Tra
Loving.Templates

Loving.Templates

3 likes

How to Resolve Conflict with Co-Workers
Conflicts at work happen, but it’s all about how you handle them. Stay cool, listen to each other, and focus on finding solutions, not just winning the argument. A little patience and respect can turn a tense moment into a chance to strengthen your team and get things back on track. Here are some t
thewerklife

thewerklife

30 likes

An upside-down view of a person in bed looking at a phone, with text 'WAYS TO SAY "you hurt me" (that don't point fingers)'. The image introduces the topic of using 'I' statements for conflict resolution.
A person lies on their stomach in bed, looking at a phone. Overlay text explains that 'I' statements lead to less accusatory and more constructive conversations about hurt feelings.
A person lies in bed, covered by a blanket, looking at a phone. The image displays examples of 'I' statements for expressing feelings, such as 'I felt hurt' or 'I feel frustrated'.
use these “I” statements to better handle conflict
imagine someone walking up to you and saying “you keep adding extra stress to my plate because you keep leaving your dirty dishes in the sink” now imagine the same person coming up and saying “i’m having a really stressful time at work right now and having extra dishes in the sink makes me feel
staci york 💛🍋

staci york 💛🍋

1795 likes

A dark blue slide with white text reading "Phrases Therapists Teach Couples in Conflict." The Lemon8 logo and username @thesilentmom are at the bottom left, with a right arrow at the bottom right.
A light blue slide with dark text: "I feel [emotion] when [behavior], and I need [need]." It explains this phrase shifts blame to vulnerability and promotes clarity. An example is provided. Lemon8 logo and username @thesilentmom are at the bottom left, with a right arrow at the bottom right.
A dark blue slide with white text: "Can we take a break and come back to this when we're both calm?" It explains this phrase teaches productive conversations require regulation. Lemon8 logo and username @thesilentmom are at the bottom left, with a right arrow at the bottom right.
Therapist-Approved Phrases for Conflict
Words can either build bridges or burn them. 🔥➡️🌉 Therapists often teach couples simple yet powerful phrases to calm tension, promote understanding, and reconnect during tough moments. These aren’t magic words—but they can change the tone of your conversations. 🗣️💞 👇 Save this post as a remi
The Silent Mom

The Silent Mom

372 likes

How to handle conflict ❤️‍🩹
#friendadvice #girladvice #relationshipadivce #conflictresolution #confidentcommunication
Kailey Anna

Kailey Anna

596 likes

People vs Conflict 🤔
Watch how we handle conflict & others too Its very telling 🕵🏾‍♀️ #conflict #adviceforwomen #adviceformen #blowthisup #tayyourbae
Tay

Tay

11 likes

A graphic titled 'MARRIAGE BIBLE STUDY RESOLVING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE' features a cartoon couple in a heated discussion, with the text in pink and yellow against a white background.
A page from a book outlines the first step to resolving conflict in marriage: 'Confront in a Loving and Positive Manner,' quoting Proverbs 15:1 about soft answers turning away wrath.
A book page details the second step to resolving conflict: 'Complain and Don't Criticize,' explaining that complaining focuses on oneself while criticizing focuses on the spouse.
RESOLVING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE- PART 12‼️
Do you know the tips in resolving conflict in marriage? Knowing this before getting to marriage is important! Conflict is a major issue in destroying a marriage, you can’t avoid conflict but dealing with them is a key to a successful marriage. It took me to get into marriage to learn this and
Shalom

Shalom

63 likes

Flash cards I made for conflict poetry
These poems are for Conflict poetry edexcel The poems shown - What were they like, Denise Levertov - War photographer, Carole Satyamurti - The class game, Mary Casey - Poppies, Jane Weir #freshlemon8 #London #poems #lemon8creator #gcse
Amelia

Amelia

80 likes

#the coming conflict
LAST MESSAGE of Gods extended mercy of love, GOING OUT INTO ALL THE WORLD COME OUT OF HER MY PEOPLE! The mark of the beast is a prominent religious system and about worship, and God is calling his faithful ones out of (her = church false religious system) in Bible prophecy which is
100Xdirect

100Xdirect

0 likes

What Does The Constitution Say About A Government That No Longer Serves The Peop
Most people have never finished reading the Declaration of Independence. They know the opening lines. They’ve heard the quotations. But the document contains something that rarely gets taught in classrooms or discussed in mainstream spaces — a direct instruction to the people about what to do when
BoundlessHuman

BoundlessHuman

1 like

When Someone Turns the Conflict Back on You
You reacted to the behavior. They reacted to losing control. That’s the difference. Sometimes when you confront behavior, the focus suddenly shifts to your reaction instead. That shift can make you question yourself, even when the original issue was real. #gaslighting #blameshift
Elena Grace

Elena Grace

31 likes

Conflict tests love, God’s grace makes it last. 💍✨
#relationshipgodly #Lemon8Diary #marriageandgod #christian #viral
Lylicious

Lylicious

19 likes

A red stress ball with an angry face sits in green grass, illustrating the challenge of staying calm. White text overlays the image, stating: "Try your best to respond calmly and keep your cool with conflict-seeking people."
Responding to conflict-seeking people
When you're in an argument with someone who refuses to budge, taking a time-out can be helpful. Whether it's a matter of minutes, hours, or days, giving yourself a breather can be an effective way to gain clarity about what might otherwise be an unresolvable and exhausting situation. When s
megomylego

megomylego

4 likes

💔 Why Love Fails (And How to Fix It)
📖 What’s Inside (Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐☆) Love Is Never Enough by Aaron T. Beck unpacks why relationships fall apart despite good intentions. Based on cognitive therapy, this book shifts the way we understand love, conflict, and emotional needs. 🔑 Key Takeaways 1️⃣ Love isn’t mind-reading – Assuming you
EllaReadsThings

EllaReadsThings

6 likes

✨Day 6: Calm In Conflict✨
✝️✝️Words have power—especially in the hard moments. 🤍 Proverbs 15:1 reminds us that a gentle answer can change everything. When emotions rise, grace can still lead. Pause. Breathe. Choose words that build, not break. Your tone can bring peace into your home. 🌿✝️✝️ ✝️🙏🏾Prayer:🙏🏾 Lord, Help
Amber S

Amber S

13 likes

Identity conflict. Part of you wants more, part of you wants familiar.
Part of you wants more. And part of you wants to stay where it feels familiar. That doesn’t mean you’re indecisive. It means your nervous system is trying to keep you safe in what it knows. Growth isn’t just about doing new things… It’s about becoming someone your body hasn’t fully c
Bonnie | Midlife Unstuck Guide

Bonnie | Midlife Unstuck Guide

0 likes

A person in jeans and white sneakers stands on concrete. Overlay text reads "How To DEAL WITH CONFLICT" in yellow, introducing tips for handling disagreements in friendships.
A person holds white roses. Overlay text provides two tips for conflict resolution: "Address it early" and "Use 'I' statements" to share feelings without blame.
A person holds a camouflage backpack. Overlay text presents three conflict resolution tips: "Try to understand," "Apologize sincerely," and "Forgive fully" to move forward peacefully.
5 Ways to Deal with Conflict in Friendships
Conflict is a normal (+ unavoidable) part of life. But learning how to handle it well is something that takes time and intentionality! Here are simple 5 tips to help you deal with conflict when it arises in your friendships! Follow me for more relationship tips 💗 #lemon8partner #chr
mandiee.marie

mandiee.marie

6 likes

How to handle conflict effectively
Handling conflicts effectively can really strengthen a relationship! Here are some tips: 1. Stay Calm: Take a deep breath and try to keep your emotions in check before discussing the issue. 2. Listen Actively: Make sure to listen to your partner's perspective without interrupting. It shows
🦋Aqua Moon✨

🦋Aqua Moon✨

22 likes

Silence is not conflict resolution 🙏
If they refuse to talk about the problem, do you know why?
DailyInspirationDose

DailyInspirationDose

68 likes

💍💕👩‍❤️‍👨Manage Relationship Conflict and Last Forever
Conflict and fights are two different things. It’s possible to never fight, but impossible to never experience conflict. Conflict is part of all relationships, both personal and professional. It’s important to know how to manage them since they will happen. The number one key to managing conflic
Jau 🤎

Jau 🤎

36 likes

Healthy Ways to Handle Conflict in Relationships
Tips that have helped me navigate disagreements with my boyfriend: 1️⃣ Stay calm and focused. Take a breath and avoid letting emotions escalate the argument. 2️⃣ Use ‘I’ statements. Saying, ‘I feel hurt when…’ helps express your feelings without placing blame. 3️⃣ Actively listen. Truly he
Lindsay Goeler

Lindsay Goeler

19 likes

A man on a boat wears a cap with an American flag and black-framed sunglasses. The sunglasses reflect the open ocean and horizon under a clear sky, emphasizing clear vision during offshore fishing. He looks out at the water.
Out here where the horizon never ends
The best views in Florida are the ones you earn offshore. 🌊🎣 Nothing but open water, a boat under your feet, and the horizon ahead. Moments like this are why I love being out here. And when the sun is bouncing off the water all day, good sunglasses aren’t optional. That’s why I run Bomber Eyewea
Florida

Florida

18 likes

How to Handle Conflict Like a Team ❤️
Conflict doesn’t destroy relationships. Disconnection does. It’s not about who’s right. It’s about protecting the bond while you figure it out. The strongest couples aren’t perfect — they repair. 💬 Comment “TEAM” if you’re choosing us over ego. 🔖 Save this for the next hard conversation
The Silent Mom

The Silent Mom

20 likes

Why your partner shuts down during conflict
When your partner goes silent in an argument, it’s usually not rejection — it’s overwhelm. Understanding why they shut down can transform conflict into connection. ✨ Learn the real reasons behind emotional shutdowns and what you can do to help both of you feel safer during tough conversations.
The Silent Mom

The Silent Mom

56 likes

A silhouette of a man and woman in a tense conversation, with text overlay "7 Ways to have lower Conflict Conversations with your partner" and Lemon8 branding.
A close-up of dark, velvety rose petals with text overlay advising couples to make a 'Communication Pledge' and set ground rules for check-ins.
A single rose with blue flame-like smoke and butterflies, featuring text about discussing money history and family beliefs to foster understanding.
7 Ways to have lower Conflict Conversations👩‍❤️‍👨
💬👩‍❤️‍👨 Lower Conflict, Stronger Bonds! 👩‍❤️‍👨💬 Struggling with communication in your relationship? 😔 Don't worry, we've got you covered! Here are 7️⃣ ways to have lower conflict conversations with your partner and strengthen your bond💞 #couplegoals #GirlTalk #coupleadvice #coupl
Virely💖

Virely💖

17 likes

Natural Conflict Styles
When D and S styles clash, it’s not personal, it’s pattern. D pushes for quick, direct resolution while S slows down to maintain stability and avoid tension. That gap is where communication breaks down. Close it by having D soften the approach (ask to clarify, don’t tell) and S step into say wh
Burnout Guide

Burnout Guide

1 like

A notebook drawing of Subaru from Brothers Conflict, depicted as a chibi character in a teal sheep costume. The drawing is labeled with his name in Japanese and English, alongside teal pencils and crystals.
Reverse Harem Anime: BROTHERS CONFLICT
Favorite Anime Shows 📺Name: Brothers Conflict What's the show about: It is a reverse harem anime about a girl getting 13 steps-brothers and while she is happy that she is getting a big family, the brothers are all falling in love with her and want to be closer to her than just family. Overall
Mel

Mel

1 like

Students struggling with conflict resolution?
Teaching social emotional learning skills doesn’t have to be hard!!! It can simply be a conversation with your students about some strategies to try. I love introducing new topics with posters or anchor charts!! #socialemotionallearning #specialeducationteacher #teachersoflemon8
Ally | M.S. Special Education

Ally | M.S. Special Education

8 likes

Julia Roberts smiles joyfully in a bubble bath, illustrating the text overlay about pain and conflict making for interesting performances, but hinting at more.
Julie Andrews and Anne Hathaway embrace and laugh, illustrating the point that audiences enjoy seeing characters who find joy in their lives.
A young girl hugs an adult woman on a street, both smiling, representing the importance for actors to cultivate their full emotional spectrum, including moments of "high highs."
acting isn’t ALL about showing pain and conflict… it’s about JOY too!! ☀️
what’s your favorite joyful moment in film or TV? comment down below!! 👇 also follow me on Instagram @yates_method #actors #fyp #casting #audition #learnontiktok
Kimberly Yates

Kimberly Yates

3 likes

“Global Tensions Explode: Trump-Iran Conflict Raises Alarming Questions”
“Global Tensions Explode: Trump-Iran Conflict Raises Alarming Questions” ⸻ Tensions are rising fast in the Middle East. One decision… could change everything. Is this escalation justified — or the start of something bigger? 👀 The world is watching. #GlobalTensions #ViralNews #P
King media Roof Llc

King media Roof Llc

4 likes

An illustration titled 'THE TREE OF CHEATING' on a pink background. The tree's branches list visible acts like deception, betrayal, manipulation, lying, hiding, guilt, dishonesty, and self-justification. Its roots represent underlying causes such as insecurity, resentment, entitlement, lack of intimacy, loneliness, childhood trauma, sexual addiction, and lack of accountability.
Why Do People Cheat In Relationships? Find Out Why
Cheating doesn’t begin with the act—it begins in the roots. Betrayal is rarely about just one moment; it’s the result of unattended wounds, unmet needs, and misguided choices. This powerful visual breaks down the anatomy of infidelity, not to excuse it, but to understand it—so healing can begin fro
Kylie SAHM

Kylie SAHM

2351 likes

The back of a person's head with dreadlocks tied back, wearing a blue and white striped shirt, against a blurred green background. Red text overlay reads: 'Never let emotions dictate your professional decisions.' Logos for Lemon8 and Rastafari Movement are visible.
Never Let Emotions Dictate Your Decisions 🔑ℹ️⬇️
In the professional world, letting your emotions steer your decisions can lead to poor outcomes and unnecessary conflicts. It’s essential to approach decisions with a clear, rational mindset to ensure success and maintain professionalism. Here’s why keeping your emotions in check can make all the d
RoadToRiches

RoadToRiches

2 likes

Calendar Conflict Move
Some people don’t avoid conflict by yelling. They avoid it by “forgetting” to reply. By booking every open space on their calendar. By staying busy enough that no hard conversation can catch them. On the surface it looks productive. Underneath, it’s usually discomfort avoidance behavior pattern.
Burnout Guide

Burnout Guide

0 likes

1 Strategy To Resolve Relationship Conflict
Navigating conflicts in your relationship can be challenging, but with the right approach, you can turn disagreements into opportunities for growth. Here’s a personal strategy to help you and your partner resolve issues more effectively: S.I.T. D.O.W.N. Together • S: Set the Scene – Cr
Shawn McBride Speaks

Shawn McBride Speaks

230 likes

See more