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Checklist red flag relationship

1. Do not keep words once

2. No compassion

3. We are always anxious or paranoid.

4. Whenever you talk, you feel like you're always wrong.

5. Never listen, but will expect us to understand only

6. Always hurt our body and mind

7. Make us change ourselves all the time

8. When there is a problem, it will not solve the problem.

9. Always talking Toxic at us.

10. Reduce our value

11. Looks like there are a lot of secrets. Talking makes us feel like he's lying.

12. We have to try a lot on one side.

13. He likes to compare us to others.

14. Stay and feel more exhausted than motivated.

15. Not honoring us.

16. Always try to master our lives.

17. Violate our privacy, such as cell phone sneaking, GPS sneaking.

18. If we do something wrong, even if a little, he will step on us.

Blame us.

# Relationship issues # Love, relationships # redflag

2025/9/24 Edited to

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