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Practicing self love ✨

My thoughts on this is how can you hate yourself and things about yourself and love everything about someone else.

I think when it comes to you and giving yourself to someone, you have to make sure you giving yourself the best you before giving yourself to someone else. I can you give someone your love when you are fighting past traumas or battling with insecurities. Not saying it’s impossible to love someone while getting yourself together.

What if you find the one and you have a lot going on? Not only will you make it harder to love but you will then be possibly damaging someone who could be good for you after you get yourself where you want to be.

I’m saying all this to say before loving someone make sure you are okay and 100. So, when you do have that person you are available to give them the best version of yourself and you won’t lose someone who could potentially be your soulmate.

What do y’all think about this?

#letschat #selfcare #lemon8wellness #relationships #AskLemon8 #lemon8challenge #journaling #selflove #relationships #mentalhealth

2024/8/6 Edited to

Self-love is the foundation for healthy relationships. It involves recognizing your worth and being comfortable with who you are before seeking validation from others. By prioritizing self-care and addressing personal insecurities, you prepare yourself to engage in more fulfilling relationships. Taking the time to heal from past traumas and focusing on personal growth allows you to bring your best self into romantic connections. This not only enhances your ability to love others but also safeguards you from potential emotional distress in the future. Practicing self-love entails various strategies, including mindfulness, journaling, and self-reflection. Mindfulness helps you stay present and aware of your feelings, encouraging compassionate self-talk. Journaling provides an outlet for expressing emotions, clarifying your thoughts, and tracking your progress. By incorporating these practices into your daily routine, you can develop a stronger sense of self-worth and emotional resilience. Moreover, sharing experiences with supportive friends or a community can further enhance your journey toward self-love. Remember, loving yourself is not a destination but a continuous process that enriches your life and prepares you for deeper connections with others.

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Love this 👏🏽👏🏽❤️ I was once the person who didn’t really care for myself while loving someone else. The person would always say how beautiful and how much they loved me. I kinda pushed it away. 😭 but I changed ❤️thankfully love yourself first so u can love someone the right way.

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