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Always think of others first

Treat yourself first before taking care of others.

Maybe we keep worrying about other people's feelings.

Until forgetting that our hearts also need care

We want to make everyone comfortable. Want to be loved.

But if we're too forced, we're finally tired.

When we are more kind to ourselves

We will have strength, power and love.

For others painlessly.

So... keep your heart well.

Don't forget that we are also worthy of love.

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2025/10/25 Edited to

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