When did you have your first baby?

I got pregnant at 34 with our first baby thanks to a successful round of IVF & FET. I always thought I would be a “young mom”, but I also thought I would be a girl mom somehow god always knows what you need & when you need it 😅💕 when did you have your first baby?? #first time mom #letschat #lemon8challenge #momlife #lemon8contest

2025/2/2 Edited to

... Read moreMany women today are becoming mothers later in life, often due to personal or medical reasons. IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) has become a key option for those looking to conceive at an older age. Factors such as career focus, financial stability, and the choice to wait until later in life are commonly cited reasons for delayed motherhood. Statistics show that conceiving after 30 is increasingly common, with many first-time moms sharing their experiences of jumping into motherhood later than previous generations. It's important to celebrate the diverse paths to parenthood, including those that involve IVF and FET (Frozen Embryo Transfer), which provide hope and joy to many families. If you're in a similar boat, share your thoughts and connect with others who have similar experiences! There’s a supportive community ready to hear your story.

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23 when I got pregnant, 24 when I had him, now I'm 25 and if this one sticks I'll be 26 when I have him or her

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I got pregnant at 22 and had my son at my 40 weeks and 3 days at 23 and Im trying for another one after 9 years lol

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