HAVING A BABY GAVE ME A GLOW UP?!?! 🫡🫨🌟
🌟being a mother brings a different type of GLOW to you rather you see it or not 🌱💕
🌱 Before being a mother, I heard more bad than good about being a mom honestly. It made my whole perspective on being a mother not as exciting as I NOW know it is ✨❤️ Growing up Ive always heard that when you become a mother, you don't have time to take care of yourself or that you just won't have the motivation to keep up with yourself as you normally would before you had kids. I remember when I was pregnant I would selfishly think of how my good looks was going to soon go away and how I won't have as good of body anymore. I used to prayyyy that I won't have any stretch marks or won't have the motivation to work out to keep my body. Looking back at it, I sooo regret all the negative thoughts I had about the new person I was becoming, I wish I didn't fill my head with all of those judgments I've had towards myself. out of all people, why would I judge the one person that knows me best, which is "Myself"?
🌱 The birth of my son changed every part of me mentally, emotionally, and physically. The maternal instinct kicked in, but not only towards my son, but towards myself as well. I started to Feel for the younger version of me, I started to have the urge to just nurture the part of me that needed a motherly figure since I do not have one. I understood that in order for me to take care and nuture my son in the best way possible...I need to take care of myself and nuture myself as well, in the best way possible. * I will go into dept about it in another post.*
🌱 the first thing I knew I needed to do was to get a sense of style because if you can see in the before pictures, I definitely did not have it 😂
🌱 now I make sure I get my eyebrows done and when I reallyyy want to show out, I go to target and buy lash extensions! If youre like me and very into a natural look, I can give you many suggestions. just let me know!
🌱 my hair is something I still struggle with and trying to find a signature hairstyle. my hair changed completely After having my son, I experienced postpartum hair loss and my hair has fully grown now, my hair still just feels so thin and brittle so I'm trying to bring it back to life. One thing I cant say is that the amazing thing about hairstyles is that you can change them or get a new one as often as you feel! 😂 Don't be scared to try new hairstyles and don't be scared to try to DO new hairstyles on yourself. Changing your hairstyle can get a bit pricey so if it makes you feel better ,I am a huge advocate DIYs! I enjoy saving money and looking good 😂💖
🌱 also kiss press on nails are chef's kiss 😚🤌🏽 and they can last up to two weeks if you put them on correctly !!
🌟 remember to be kind to yourself 🙂↕️ remember to love yourself and KNOW that you are That Girl ✨💕 in order to see that you got to believe it, girl 💗 You are smart, you are beautiful, And you deserve everything you want and need ✔️#glowup #lemon8challenge #momglowup #embracingmotherhood #embracevulnerability #unfiltered #storytime #lemon8diarychallenge#lemon8wellness #glowuptransformation
Becoming a mom often comes with this unspoken pressure to put everyone else first, and for a while, I truly believed that my personal style and self-care would inevitably take a backseat. But what I discovered on my own journey was something truly transformative: motherhood didn't diminish me; it ignited a powerful 'mom glow up' from within, inspiring me to reclaim and redefine who I am. Like many new moms, I faced the common challenge of postpartum hair loss. It felt like another piece of my pre-baby identity was slipping away. To combat this, I started a gentle hair care routine focusing on nourishing my scalp and strands. Incorporating a mild, sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner, along with monthly deep conditioning treatments, made a noticeable difference. I also leaned into protective hairstyles, like elegant braids or soft buns, to minimize breakage while my hair recovered and grew back stronger. It's not just about what you put on your hair, though; a balanced diet rich in vitamins and minerals, and staying hydrated, are equally crucial for healthy hair growth. Beyond the physical, the mental shift was profound. I realized that nurturing myself wasn't selfish; it was a necessity to be the best mom I could be. This meant finding small pockets of time for activities that brought me joy, whether it was a 15-minute meditation session, journaling my thoughts, or simply enjoying a cup of tea in quiet. Creating a self-care ritual, even a mini one, helped me reconnect with my inner self and manage the daily stressors of new parenthood. This inner strength and clarity then naturally began to reflect outwards. Rediscovering my personal style was another exciting part of my glow up. After spending months in comfortable, practical clothes, I craved outfits that made me feel confident and chic, even on busy days. I started by decluttering my wardrobe and investing in a few versatile pieces that could be mixed and matched. Think comfortable yet stylish jeans, flowy tops, and a few well-fitting dresses that could be dressed up or down. Accessories became my secret weapon: a statement necklace, a stylish handbag, or a pair of cute earrings could instantly elevate a simple outfit. I also experimented with new looks, drawing inspiration from different styles. The before and after photos of my own style transformation, from everyday wear to a more polished look, truly motivate me to keep exploring. And let's not forget those quick beauty boosts! For busy moms, efficiency is key. While I love the idea of a full spa day, reality often calls for quicker solutions. Embrace things like high-quality press-on nails, which can give you a salon-fresh manicure that lasts for weeks without the time commitment. Learning a quick 5-minute makeup routine, focusing on essentials like concealer, mascara, and a touch of blush, can make a huge difference in how you feel. Remember, a mom glow up isn't about perfection; it's about embracing your journey, celebrating your strength, and finding joy in nurturing both yourself and your family.
You can definitely tell a difference when you have a baby, it’s like a “little girl” just disappeared and a New Woman, a Mother came to life 🥹❤️