Anyone else grow up poor and is now bad with money

Anyone else grow up poor and is now bad with money because you can buy almost anything you want? Small things not big things. Like your telling me I can buy as many YOGURTS as I want!? If theres any kind of food, I can buy it. I can get clothes I see and want not just at back to school shopping day? Fast food as much as I want. And just be able to buy stuff but end up spending too much. It feels like I might be compensating for my past circumstances.

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2024/5/25 Edited to

... Read moreMany individuals raised in low-income households develop a unique relationship with money as adults. Growing up with limited resources often leads to an overwhelming sense of freedom when financial status improves, causing some to overspend as a way to compensate for their past. This phenomenon is commonly referred to as ‘retail therapy’ or ‘compensatory spending.’ Understanding the psychological effects of poverty can help illuminate why some individuals struggle with managing money effectively later in life. It's crucial to realize that financial literacy plays a pivotal role in breaking this cycle. Many find themselves in a position where, despite having the means, they lack the skills to budget wisely. Establishing a budget, tracking expenses, and prioritizing savings are fundamental steps that can redirect one's relationship with money. Engaging in personal finance education through workshops and online resources can also empower individuals to make informed financial decisions. Additionally, practicing mindfulness in spending—taking time before making unnecessary purchases—can help curb impulsive behavior. Ultimately, acknowledging past experiences while striving for financial stability can lead to a healthier understanding of money management.

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Yep! Both my Husband and I are grew up with little money. Our biggest issue is we are neurodivergent and both are bad with impulse purchases 😂

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