💔 Face broken because of a Toxic relationship

First of all, let's see if this is Toxic.

1. Feel guilty for being yourself

Be careful of words. Be careful of the other person's emotions all the time. Be afraid not to like him.

Enough to live with and never be yourself again

2. Tired of trying to "maintain" a unilateral relationship.

We're the only ones who apologize, adapt, give up everything that's wrong, not us.

3. The other party repeatedly uses words to hurt the mind.

Maybe not cursing directly, but irony, comparing, pressing, or making us feel inferior.

4. No space to grow

He doesn't support our dreams, but he's so sarcastic or jealous that there's nothing we can do.

5. Physical health is getting worse and worse.

Can't sleep, can't eat, acne up, headaches, tinnitus, or tires all the time.

Let's hear about Ae. 💬

This is why I believe that Toxic relationships really break people. 🥀

In the past, I used to date a man who initially looked very good, looked responsible, worked well, looked very confident in himself.

But when they were together for a long time, they realized that they were super perfect.

Everything must be "nice and exact." If it's not perfect, ✨ he'll be depressed, stressed, and upset about everything. 😞

Have to be careful of your own words, everything you say, afraid that something will make him angry or angry?

💬 He's a very late sleeper, 3 to 5 a.m. every day.

💬 heavy drinking, parties, pubs, music.

💬 Speak badly to the family... Once, er, hear him speak to his mother in a voice that looks like a scolding henchman.

And I thought, "If his mother still says this, will we have left?"

And it's true...

When he's angry, he speaks loudly to the room, no matter who hears it. 😢

Some words are insulting to others, such as talking about people who are fatter or people who look bad enough.

Although some people are even friends of Ae

At that time, "We are living with people who make us not love ourselves."

Until one day the quarrel was very heavy

I was so stressed that I heard the sound of "Bib!" ⚡ in my head, and the ears were gone.........

I was so scared. 😰 Do you think you're anything heavy?

It was later learned that the symptoms were caused by accumulated stress until the muscles around the head and neck contracted.

Poor blood flow, causing the "ear system" to have temporary problems. 👂🏻🩸

And then there's acne in the T zone in the form. ‼️

The body would be yelling, "That's enough!" 😞

So I decided to come out...

And let me tell you, it was the cheapest decision in my life. 🌿

Anyone who is in this relationship wants you to ask yourself:

"Did he make us better, or did he make us go back to being who we didn't want to be?"

If your friends meet like this... will they "stay" or "choose out" like you? 💬

I really want to hear my friends' opinions. 🫶🏻

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