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5 Check list of male habits that should not be taken to make a husband

Please speak in case you want a "partner" relationship.

Another kind of relationship, like FWB ONS, we won't talk about.

To have a partner is like a lottery. Choosing correctly = winning the 1st prize.

Have you ever heard that we can't choose to be born, can't choose parents, but can choose someone who can stay with us for the rest of our lives?

And here's a list of men we see as if they have one, don't even think about moving in or marrying him.

1. No responsibility

We put this number one because we are personally people with high responsibility. We should not be the future bearer when dating may be enough, but if you have enough children, building a family requires a lot of responsibility.

2. No financial discipline

Clearly, many families quarrel because of money. There are a lot of sample cases to see. Not about rich or poor. No money can be created if there is enough discipline. But if not spending, do not know to save / invest. There are problems in the future marriage.

3. Bad mood. Violent.

Toxic relationship. Whoever finds it, run away quickly. Do not quote with the word love. We are worth more than that. We always believe that if we are good enough, we will be loved by people who value us. Love him but love ourselves first. We are the only one on earth.

4. Flirting habits

Personally, I think this seems difficult. I have to watch it for a long time, but if you see it, it will reduce long-term relationship problems.

5. Selfish, strong-willed

This story, even if not a girlfriend but a friend, we stop dating because people have to be kind, compassionate, dependent (unparalleled). If they are together exploitative or flexible, can't forgive each other, causing the other person to feel squeezed, uncomfortable all the time, can say goodbye to the relationship.

# Love story # Love experience # Trick love # redflag # Relationship narrative

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