Tell Me Below 👇 Your Experiences
let’s chat about your experience or even experiences with your baby/ milestones.
💕anytime you see the little hearts there’s a question you can answer. 💕
i feel like the first 3 months have honestly gone by so quick but also feel like the longest days in my life.
1️⃣i personally had an emergency c section so my first month was a rough one. i felt like i couldn’t do anything for myself. i needed help to do a lot of things, more than i needed with my big baby inside (almost 10 pounder). real talk, the sneezing and coughing?!?!!?! i have never felt such sharp pains in my life before. 💕was there any low points you experienced? or still going through?💕
2️⃣my second month was significantly better, but obviously still had some rough times with recovery.
💕 i feel like the day my baby turned 2 months he finally revealed a whole bunch of secret things he could do, did anyone else experience that? 💕
he started smiling this month too, in his sleep 😴 or whenever he was offered a bottle 😂 or just plain old smiling at him (made me cry a few times from the cuteness).
3️⃣the third month… oh boy, i feel wayyyy better, swelling has gone down significantly for sure 👍🏼.
i tried on some jeans 👖 that were maybe 2 sizes bigger than my size before the baby and they didn’t zip 💀. BUT THEY BUTTONED SO I MEAN ALMOST THERE, RIGHT?! i try to keep a positive mind and outlook because my body made a whole baby 👶🏻 so of course it’s not gonna look the same and that’s ok! i started going on walks this month with the baby in one of those kangaroo carriers. Let’s just say it was easier at the beginning of the month even with me getting so tired 🥱 😓 because now i get tired cause he’s so heavy.
💕how are y’all getting up and moving around ? any tips ?🏃🏻♀️💕
Navigating the first few months of parenthood can be overwhelming yet incredibly rewarding. Many parents experience a multitude of emotions as their babies reach significant milestones. The first month may be filled with recovery challenges, especially after a C-section, as many moms learn to adapt to their new bodies and routines. In the second month, babies often surprise their parents with new skills, such as smiling or reacting to cues, which can be a heartwarming experience. By the third month, many mothers begin to feel more like themselves again, gradually returning to physical activities like walking with their baby. It's essential to focus on self-care during this time as the body heals and strength is regained. Parents can support each other by sharing tips and experiences—what worked for them during tough days? Engaging in discussions on platforms like Lemon8 can help new parents feel less isolated and more supported. For those finding it challenging to adjust, remember that each baby and parent's journey is unique. Celebrating the small victories, such as being able to wear pre-pregnancy jeans again, can boost confidence. Don’t hesitate to reach out for advice, share your stories, and connect with fellow parents. After all, every shared experience can contribute to a supportive community that celebrates the joys and challenges of parenting together.
My first two weeks were a blur as i was in so much pain. I had stitches and any time i moved the wrong way it felt like i was being ripped open. It was horrible. After two weeks it started to be a little better but a wasn’t healed from that until another 7 weeks or so.