2026 Intentions
Instead if setting unrealistic goals or resolutions for 2026 I’m creating a list of intentions. This way anything I don’t get to or that doesn’t take, doesn’t feel like a failure come the end of the year. Just something that gets to roll effortlessly into the next without gilt or anxiety.
So these are my intentions for 2026:
🪡Re-learn how to sew & start doing some fun projects that I’ve had in my brain for years
🧵Learn to needlepoint
👩🍳Actually learn to cook. It’s not something I enjoy so I never tried. But at 33 it’s starting to feel embarrassing and I have this big new kitchen with excellent appliances so it feels like I should. Also (and I get that this is kind of nuts) I feel like there are a few meals I have to know how to cook before becoming a parent like “my” homemade spaghetti sauce & things like that
🍼Begin to seriously prepare for the adoption process. We are planning to start the adoption process in 2027. We started saving years ago and we finally feel like it’s time for us. So this year is about intenentionally preparing and planning & choosing the path we want to take.
🏡Get settled in our new home in our own time. We moved into our new home the week of Thanksgiving after purchasing in July. There were unforeseen but necessary renovations which ment we were living out of boxes for 4 months. We want to take our time getting settled & doing projects after that stress
👯♀️Make some friends in our new state and start to build a small community
⚖️Work towards finding a balance between work and life. The past few years have been nothing but stress and 12-15 hour days. Finding ways to balance work & life is a huge priority this year before we have kids to think about
👟Get back in shape. Becuase we were “in the process of moving” for 5 months this year and living out of boxes without a plan…just planning to get to the new house fast as soon as we could. We haven’t been as healthy as we typically are. Lots of takeout, pizza, & fast food and lots of skipping the gym because the stress of that and general life was really draining. Now WeMre really feeling (and seeing) those bad habits
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Setting intentions for the year can be a powerful way to guide personal growth without the stress of rigid resolutions. This approach allows room for flexibility and growth without self-judgment, much like choosing to re-learn sewing or needlepoint—creative skills that stimulate the mind and nurture patience. Learning to cook, especially in a newly equipped kitchen, can transform from a chore into an enjoyable and rewarding experience. Cooking not only supports healthier eating habits but can also become a cherished way to connect with family and friends, especially as one prepares to start a family. Preparing for the adoption process a year in advance reflects thoughtful planning and emotional readiness, crucial steps in creating a welcoming environment for a child. Financial preparation and mental readiness both contribute to smoother adoption experiences. Transitioning into a new home after months of living in boxes requires patience and intentionality. Taking time to settle without pressure helps to create a comforting and personalized space that truly feels like home. Building a small community of friends in a new state supports emotional well-being and fosters a sense of belonging, essential for a balanced life. Combining this with efforts to find work-life balance, especially after years of long workdays, highlights a commitment to mental and physical health prior to parenthood. The inspirational quote, “There are years that ask questions, and years that answer,” by Zora Neale Hurston beautifully encapsulates the essence of this journey—a year of setting intentions aimed at self-discovery, learning, connection, and balance. By embracing these intentions instead of fixed goals, the author exemplifies a soft life energy mindset focused on gradual progress and compassion towards oneself.
I would focus on one at a time or you will get overwhelmed choose one to focus on each month and turn them into smart goals!