Being good is often vulnerable.

"I believe you're a good man...But being nice is often vulnerable. "

Being good in this day and age, there are often loopholes for some people to take advantage of or to gain from us easily, because they see the kind as being considerate and rejecting the unkind.

And these are 5 ways to observe that...Anyone who is coming into your life just because of benefits.

1. Only when there is a problem: This group of people who are normal days when they are fine, they will never think of you. They never appear, social media never say hello, but when they are in trouble for money, work or need emergency help, your name will be the first name they think of.

2. Exaggerated compliments from the very first day: Be careful of people who arrive and bless you with a large set, that you are good, that you are good, that you are gracious, that you have recently known. Exaggerated blasphemy is often followed by a certain need. It is a compliment to bind your hand to punch you.

3. Like to thank you for small things but forget the big things we used to help: When he helps us a little, he digs to talk repeatedly like we owe his life. But when we give him a big help or get tired instead of him, he thinks it's normal for a good person like you to make him anyway.

4. Speak well only when you want something: notice the tone and the gesture. When he wants you to do something for you, the tone will be humble and sweet. But when you clear the problem for him immediately, he will change to be aloof or uncomfortable.

5. When we say "no," they will change to a different person: This is the most obvious thing: When you try black, you deny that no, the person who comes for the benefit will not accept it. He will start to draw your face or put you behind your back. In the past, you have always helped him.

Being good is proud, but do not let our kindness become a doormat for anyone to trample on, sharing kindness with those who value it, and those who benefit...Cut, cut, save your heart the best. "

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