My warrior

Having a baby arrive prematurely and then face heart surgery can be one of the most challenging experiences a parent can endure. From personal experience, it's important to understand the complexity and emotional rollercoaster that comes with having a little one in the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit). Being a ‘Velcro baby’ — a term lovingly given to infants who need constant closeness — means that the baby often wants to be held and comforted to feel safe. This can be exhausting but vital for both bonding and the baby's development. During those first few months, it can be tempting to listen to advice like "put her down sometimes" or "let her cry a little." However, in my experience, responding promptly to your baby's needs and providing as much skin-to-skin contact as possible can promote healing and emotional security. Doctors often support this approach, as it stabilizes vital signs and fosters growth. Navigating heart surgery at just seven weeks old adds another layer of complexity. The medical care team plays a crucial role, but as a parent, preparing mentally and emotionally is essential. Learning about the surgery procedures and recovery expectations can empower you. Also, joining support groups for NICU and heart surgery families can provide comfort and practical advice. I found that holding my breath during critical moments — waiting for test results or surgery updates — is common, but leaning on a support network helps tremendously. Remember to take care of yourself physically and mentally so you can be the strong pillar your child needs. Each day, celebrating small victories like weight gain, stable vitals, or a calm day without complications can help maintain hope and motivation. Ultimately, your love and dedication become the foundation of your little warrior’s resilience and recovery.