Survived because of this rule!! 😅

💝 Beam said he survived because this rule is true!!

At one point Beam almost walked out of the relationship.

Not because he was bad, but because Beam counted his "disadvantages" one by one until he forgot to look at the only "advantages" that were very important.

👩‍❤️‍👨 The 10: 1 rule is not for us to endure everything.

But is to ask yourself...

"One of these advantages...

Is it important enough to make us want to stay? "

💌 for Beam, Beam feels that long-standing love is not because we meet the perfect person, but because we choose to look at the "yes" rather than the "interrupt."

Like...

❌ He doesn't talk sweet.

❌ He answered the chat slowly.

❌ Not good at talking feelings.

❌ lot of work

❌ Not quite paired pictures

❌. High personal world.

❌ Not romantic in the series.

❌. Not exactly a certain specification.

But he has...

✅ He never left us the day we cried.

✅, he's honest. There's never been a woman's concern.

✅ He's on the side when we need it.

✅ He tried his way.

✅ He makes us feel safe.

🔥 Maybe love is broken... not because there are no advantages.

But because we took the magnifying glass to look at the disadvantages

We look at everything he doesn't. Doesn't do it.

Until forgetting to look at everything he's trying to be or trying to do

🤍 Beam wants his friends to ask themselves today...

1️⃣ 1 What are his advantages that make us still love?

2️⃣ 10 disadvantages we complain about... it's bigger than that, right?

3️⃣ Are we looking at him with heart or expectation?

👉 Ask yourself and share it with Beam ~

# Q & A love problem # Love story # Trick love # Love long distance # Self-improvement