I agree.✨

In my experience, emotional distress in relationships often signals underlying problems that shouldn't be ignored. The quote asking if you're dating a human or an onion humorously but pointedly highlights how some partners can cause repeated emotional pain, much like peeling layers that make you cry. This metaphor resonated with me because it underscores the importance of self-awareness and boundaries in relationships. I once found myself constantly upset in a relationship, similar to what the NEVER AGAIN Program on notsalmon.com emphasizes. It became clear that the pattern of tears wasn’t about occasional misunderstandings but a sign that my emotional needs were not being respected. Repeatedly feeling hurt made me question whether the relationship was healthy or if I was just accepting emotional harm. The key takeaway is to stop and reflect if your relationship causes frequent sadness. Are you continuously forgiving behaviors that hurt you, or are you choosing relationships that nurture your growth? Programs like NEVER AGAIN offer tools for recognizing toxic patterns and encourage you to prioritize your well-being. Choosing yourself means setting boundaries, recognizing your worth, and walking away from situations that drain your happiness. Emotional pain is a signal, not a normal state. If crying becomes your relationship norm, it’s time to assess if the person you’re with truly supports a healthy partnership or if it’s time to say "never again" to this pattern and choose yourself instead.