THE SLOWER YOU GO,…

The feminine is aroused by love not lust

Remember lust is fast, love is slow

Thus the slower you go, the more aroused the feminine becomes

The masculine’s arousal system is fast, external and visual thus he’s ready to go at the drop of a dime

Yet he must excercise patience in order to synchronize with the woman’s slower internal emotional arousal system

Thus a man that loves you will take his time with you, he prioritizes your pleasure which takes longer than his

He delays his orgasm/ejaculation for as long as possible to allow to you reach your peak multiple times first

He wants you completely satisfied, he’s not having sex with you to dump his traumas and stresses into you ,he’s not trying to simply satisfy his ego and use your body for his own gratification

He wants to truly awaken the kundalini shakti energy within you which is aroused by love mixed with sexual energy

His sex is actually healing and awakening the Divine Feminine within you with every stoke and touch

He prepares you for him by engaging in extensive foreplay, he doesn’t give you himself until your whole body is literally begging for it

He massages you slowly , kisses your entire body , gives you loving affirmations , and makes divine love to your Yoni with his tongue

He makes sure you are in your most relaxed state , free from all the worries and stresses of life before he slowly inserts his programming rod into your creation portal

The slower you go the more you feel, so he takes his time giving Divine slow strokes of orgasmic bliss so that you feel every inch of his love stick

He encourages you to breathe the sexual energy up your spine so that the orgasmic energy can travel to your crown chakra and connect you to The Most High

His only goal is to give you as much pleasure as possible so that you merge and become one with the cosmos itself

You can feel his selfless energy in every touch, kiss and stroke that he gives you

You can feel his complete presence penetrating you and the absense of any impatient intention

Your body will let go and surrender on all new levels which will take you to the void of pure Divine Love which fully charges your energetic chakra system completely

If a man doesn’t have time to make Divine Love to his woman , he doesn’t deserve to have her at that moment in his life

We take our time to really enjoy and appreciate the things we cherish

There’s nothing wrong with your yoni , it’s just full of traumas and stresses instead of love energy

Thus in order to heal your yoni you must give it the Divine Love it deserves and only engage in sexual activity with a man who actual loves you with his actions instead of just his words

YOU DESERVE TO BE FILLED UP WITH DIVINE LOVE!!!

🎼🦋❤️‍🔥💋

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... Read moreFrom my personal experience, embracing slow love transformed my intimate relationships in profound ways. Initially, I believed passion had to be quick and intense, but over time I realized that genuine feminine arousal is actually nurtured by heartfelt love and patience rather than rushing into lustful encounters. The idea that 'the slower you go, the more aroused the feminine becomes' resonates deeply with the way I now approach connection and intimacy. Taking time to create a calm, loving atmosphere helps dissolve stress and old traumas stored in the yoni, allowing the energy of love and pleasure to flow freely. This process is not just physical but deeply emotional and spiritual. When my partner learned to synchronize his fast, visual arousal with my slower body and heart rhythms, our experience elevated to another level of healing and bliss. He committed to prolonged foreplay, gentle touch, and loving affirmation before advancing, which made me feel truly cherished and safe. Engaging in practices like mindful breathing and consciously moving sexual energy up the spine connected me to a powerful sense of unity with myself and the cosmos. This awakening of kundalini energy – the primal life force – through love-infused sensuality also revitalized my chakra energy system, leaving me feeling grounded yet expansively joyful. True divine love in intimacy means more than physical satisfaction; it’s a sacred exchange where both partners nurture and uplift each other’s spirits. Men who exhibit patience and prioritize their partner’s pleasure create a foundation for lasting connection and fulfillment. Their selfless presence, free from ego or haste, invites surrender and opens the way to transcendent experiences beyond ordinary desire. This slow and mindful approach to making love reaffirmed my worth and healed emotional wounds I didn’t even fully recognize before. It reminded me that our yonis – our creative and energetic centers – deserve to be filled not with anxiety or pressure but with sincere, loving energy. Choosing to engage in sexual intimacy only with someone who shows love through deliberate actions, not just words, makes all the difference. Ultimately, slowing down in love is a gift to yourself and your partner. It fosters deeper connection, healing, and an awakening of the divine feminine that honors your whole being. You truly deserve to be filled with divine love – physically, emotionally, and spiritually – and allowing yourself that gift can transform your life.

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