Am I Just Tired or Is This a Sign Of Depression?

I keep canceling plans even when I really want to go. I get ready, tell myself I’ll push through and then something inside just shuts down.

It’s exhausting and confusing. Sometimes it feels like I’m just being antisocial. Other times, I wonder if it’s a deeper sign like depression creeping in.

I hate feeling this way, and I hate disappointing people. But I also know I’m not alone.

Have you ever felt like this? Do you push through, or cancel too?

#lemon8challenge #girlpov #wellness #fightingdepression #overcomingdepression

2025/9/22 Edited to

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Chyara Maccourt

I hate this culture we’ve created where we feel guilty for choosing our own mental health. Sometimes we just have to change plans and if someone is a true friend, then they should understand that.

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