Stop apologizing
Therapist to therapist: stop apologizing for wanting to be compensated fairly. 💛
So many of us were trained to put everyone else first, to “prove” our worth, or to stay grateful for whatever rate was handed to us. But undercharging doesn’t make you more dedicated, more ethical, or more compassionate—just more exhausted.
Your rate is not a reflection of greed. It’s a reflection of your time, your training, your emotional labor, your boundaries, and the very real cost of sustaining this work. You’re not just paid for the hour… you’re paid for the years it took to hold space the way you do.
You don’t need to justify asking for more. You don’t need to shrink your fees to be deserving. And you definitely don’t need to apologize for wanting a financially stable, sustainable career.
Raise your rate if you need to. Adjust your caseload if you need to. Choose YOU without guilt. Your work is valuable—and so are you.
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What’s one story you’ve told yourself about why you “can’t” charge more? And is it actually true? Let’s unpack it together.