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my husband and i opted for traditional vows are our wedding, but as i mentioned in recent post, i wish we had written our own vows. but still, even after three years of marriage, the thought of writing my own vows feels really intimidating. the point of personalized vows is to let your personal

Ok so this is going to be a series because I have a real bone to pick with y’all. I’m constantly seeing sooooo many black women admit that they feel like their hair is hard to maintain, that their hair won’t grow, that there are no products for 4c hair, the list goes on. I used to think when blac

Next time you’re traveling to New York , check out these incredible spots that don’t even feel real! American Museum of Natural History The natural history museum is one of the best museums in NYC hands down, the newest wing, Gilder Center for Science, Education, and Innovation feels out

Hello Queens 👑 You ever wonder why he won’t take you serious or want to be with you? You’ve come to the right place. We as women need to start being honest with ourselves; if you can’t take ACCOUNTABILITY you shouldn’t even be looking for a relationship. Point. Blank. Period. ‼️ GRAB your pen

I can never express enough the importance of proper mobility. I took it for granted until it was too late! Now, it’s a priority after ACL recovery. We need to prioritize our little muscles way more than we do! So, these are almost so easy, they are silly, but trust me, they are my savors! LEG EX

Here are the 8 signs that you are totally burnt out from school! It's good to recognize what these signs are so that you can hopefully get back on track to feeling better and less burnt out! Constant fatigue: Persistent exhaustion despite adequate rest, often feeling drained and unable to r

I was shocked by how much jet-lag I had in when I first arrived in Japan. I really thought because I arrived at night I could just go to sleep and would wake up at 7:00 am like normal but for the first 4 days were up before sunrise. At first we were like okay well we will get dressed, head to break

here are just some apps that are essentials to me recently as I learn to manage things. the one I’ve used the longest is libby ever since highschool. love especially borrowing audiobooks. my friends and I even trade library cards to access different library databases. timetree has to be my

Whether you’re editing your photos in Lemon8, Canva, Lightroom, CapCut or even just your photos app on your phone, they all have pretty much the same adjustment levels that you can tweak manually. In order to make my photos cute and vibrant and colorful with a hint of purple, I use the same adjustm

🦋I'll be honest, I never feel like studying! Ok sometimes I do feel inspired to study if I just watched Gilmore Girls or a study youtuber, but other than that, it's very hard to get myself to study. That's why I find it so important to have these things that I tell myself, kind of li

These are exercises I would keep in your workout program if you want to build or even shape your Glutes! The build part would mostly come with a good nutrition plan and progressive overload so increasing your overall calories is a great way to start if you’re also looking to build SIZE. #1

When visiting New York, plan a road trip to see these natural wonders that don’t even feel real! Ausable Chasm This scenic canyon in the Adirondack Mountains offers a dramatic walk along the Ausable River where you’ll see dramatic cliff walls and chasms on the Inner Sanctum Trail! We w

✨ Skincare & Haircare Lovers, You NEED to check your local Walmart right now! I stumbled upon some amazing deals in the clearance aisle, and I just had to share. 🛒 Tips for Scoring Deals: 1️⃣ Check the beauty clearance endcaps and lower shelves—they’re usually hidden! 2️⃣ Use the Walmart a

PART TWO | Things I’ve Experienced And Learned From Renting My First Apartment 😥 The struggle is getting real! I’m well into the ninth month of my first apartment lease, and I’m constantly learning from my mistakes.🫠 If you are looking to split the cost of an apartment, whether it be a long-t

I usually read multiple books at once so this is one I’m just skimming through vs reading straight through. It gives good points & helps with an outlook on dating. Take aways so far ⬇️ 💚: you can’t make someone love you by giving them more of what they already don’t appreciate ! 💚 : Don’t

I didn’t know not all houses come with these things! You don’t even think about it, they are just there and you don’t notice until it’s missing haha +blinds - we bought for every window and it was pricey 😞 +door stoppers - or you’ll end up with holes on the wall from the knobs 😒 +fire alarms

Is there anything more annoying then listening to the professor for hours reading of the slides without understanding a thing and then stupidly memorizing the slides word for word and even the slide numbers to repeat them exactly on the final exam but not remembering a thing about it a week later?

~ Hi, I have helped out my older sister who struggles with anxiety. I myself don’t have anxiety as much as she does so luckily I’m able to help her not freak out myself. ~ I have helped her with panic attacks in public and even small ones at home or near home. Here is what I like to keep in

There have been SOO many days in the past that I’ve just considered “over” at 3pm. Maybe it’s because I was hungover and didn’t get out of bed until 12pm. Or because I just woke up and started doomscrolling for too long… I always just think I wasted the day so I’m going to continue to feel bad/guil

💙 If you don't know what form studies are, check my last post. 💙 But are you also too lazy to set up some fruit and shapes on a table to draw a still life? I found that drawing 3d models from sketchfab is just as good, and much easier ☺️ On sketchfab you can preview 3d models of thousa

Chicago’s Chinatown is a must on your list when visiting the city. There are so many good restaurants and cute shops - I come here all the time even as a local. If you’re short on time, here’s a couple that I will suggest you prioritize 🍜  Ken Kee Restaurant Hong Kong - this entire place is

Let’s talk BOUNDARIES. I know the whole “mama bear” thing usually has like a jokey connotation, but people genuinely don’t know how real it is. You WILL see that side of me if you play around when it comes to my daughter. It doesn’t matter how close we are, what family member, heck even myself and

Hello friends! 🍋 If you have a long term relationship or you already live with your partner, it’s normal to struggle with date nights. We run out of ideas or sometimes we don’t even notice, but our relationship is too comfortable already and not fun anymore. When I started dating my now

How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big" by Scott Adams shares personal strategies for success, emphasizing the importance of systems over goals and the cultivation of a diverse skill set Through humorous anecdotes and practical advice, Adams advocates for embracing failure as a n