Walk away from the Kitchen
Sometimes, you just have to let things go. I’m talking in terms of daily chores and responsibilities (that aren’t crucial).
A couple days ago, my husband had the day off from work. We decided to swoop up our little butterfly and “release” her into a park with ‘rolly slides’ (as our little girl calls them) and needed Vitamin D nature.
Housework will always be waiting for you, but “time waits for no one”, so leave the house and make timely memories.
As my wise Mom tells me, “Leave the messes and go.”
Leave behind the dish cloth swipes and swipe the day with a clear view of family.
Leave behind the dishes and create sudsy memory bubbles that will later pop into minds.
Leave behind the laundry and wrap yourselves in sunny warmth and four-year-old laughter cascading from a bucket swing.
Leave behind every little house task and latch the door. Hold your husband’s and daughter’s hand (or son’s) and walk past the minute to spend important minutes together.
Sometimes, as moms. we have to be a Mary instead of a Martha - sit down, be still, and look to God and listen. Also, in His presence, beyond the sink full of dishes, absorb His blessings like a dish sponge. Those blessings being - your family.
So, today, walk away from the kitchen and absorb your family.
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©️Brandy Baudoin/ Mama Mare
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In today's fast-paced world, it’s easy for daily chores and responsibilities to take center stage in our lives, especially for busy parents and caregivers. This reflective piece reminds us that sometimes, it’s more valuable to step away from the kitchen and daily housework, even if just for a moment, to embrace the irreplaceable joys of family time. Taking time to ‘leave the messes and go,’ as the wise advice suggests, encourages us to create meaningful memories with our loved ones instead of being consumed by endless tasks. Whether it’s a spontaneous visit to the park, listening to the laughter of your children, or simply holding hands and appreciating each other’s presence, these moments nourish the heart far more than a spotless kitchen ever could. The metaphor of absorbing God’s blessings like a dish sponge while staying present with your family highlights the spiritual and emotional richness found beyond daily chores. By being still and attentive, you allow yourself to receive the true blessings of life — your family and the joyful moments you share. Vitamin D from outdoor adventures, such as playing on ‘rolly slides’ or swinging, brings physical and mental health benefits for both parents and children. These experiences promote wellness and strengthen family bonds, enhancing overall quality of life. This mindset shift — from being a Martha who focuses on work to being a Mary who embraces stillness and presence — offers a valuable lesson for many moms and caregivers. It’s a reminder that household tasks will always await, but time spent creating memories with family provides lasting happiness and fulfillment. In essence, walking away from the kitchen is not about neglecting responsibilities but about choosing priorities that genuinely uplift and bless your family life. It’s an invitation to pause, appreciate, and fully experience the gift of family today.
