Date your spouse
I’m not talking about physical benefits (even though chicken wings are beneficial protein), but I’m talking about relational benefits.
About once a month, my husband and I date in our living room. We make a “reservation” at our couch and order wings (from Rotolo’s in Thibodaux). After we tuck in our daughter at night, we boost the immunity of our relationship over traditional barbecue or chipotle wings.
Some of the relational health benefits of “wing night/ nightly reconnection includes nuances of important intimacy, relational recharge, medicinal affection, and if needed, holistic healing (forgiveness, improvements, compromises).
The benefits ultimately convene and construct a strong Christ-centered evening/ days. Each conversation is spoken in the language of love: spiritual needs, adaptive needs, and physical needs.
On our “date”, we commune intimately about anything and everything over ranch or blue cheese dips. We “Seek ye first the Kingdom of Heaven,” then seek each other’s souls and search their beauty. By seeking God first over wings (in your marriage), strong immunity will be “added unto” your relationship.
If you and your spouse don’t at least allot a few “nightly reservations” at your couch, cold companionship will ensue. Communication will only consist of your children - everything else besides the “heart health” of yourselves - your marriage. Your relationship will become cold and numb like leftover wings.
So, make it a priority to have “wing nights”. Make your spouse a priority and make a “reservation” at your couch. Sit together nightly (if possible) and gain ultimate immunity against hypothermia in your relationship.
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©️ Brandy Baudoin/ MamaMareBrandy
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In my experience, carving out dedicated time for just my spouse and me—like the described ‘wing night’—has been transformative for our relationship. It’s astonishing how a simple routine, such as sitting together on the couch with some favorite wings from a local spot, can rekindle meaningful conversations and deepen our bond. These moments away from daily distractions create a safe space where we openly share not only our challenges but also our joys and spiritual reflections. By focusing on each other’s emotional, physical, and spiritual needs, our connection feels refreshed and stronger. The idea of making a “reservation” at the couch adds a playful yet intentional dimension that makes these evenings special and anticipated. It encourages viewing relationship time as an essential appointment rather than an afterthought, which is crucial for sustaining intimacy in busy lives. Additionally, integrating faith into these interactions—as in seeking God’s guidance first—provides a shared foundation that enriches our communication and nurtures forgiveness and growth. It’s like building an immunity for the relationship, protecting against the coldness and numbness that can arise if emotional intimacy is neglected. I also found that the ritual of sharing wings—from choosing the flavors to dipping in ranch or blue cheese—adds a sensory dimension that makes the experience enjoyable and relaxing. It’s not only about nourishment but also about celebrating togetherness and small joys. For couples struggling to find time to connect, starting with something as simple as a nightly or monthly wing night can be a gentle yet effective way to rebuild warmth and attention in the relationship. It’s a reminder that love thrives when nurtured with intentionality and shared moments. Ultimately, these small efforts have helped us maintain warmth in our marriage, enhanced communication, and fostered a Christ-centered partnership that withstands life’s challenges. I highly recommend making such dates a priority to gain lasting relational health and joy.
