When accidentally yelling at the baby😞

Just now... the child flinched when we called his name.

"No one said we'd become the ones you're afraid of without knowing."

It's just a normal call.

But the child turned with the same eyes

Not just shocked.

But it's like... he's careful of us

We are still

Before.

He used to run.

Hold us tight without recurring.

But lately,

He began to quiet down.

Play more alone.

And look at our faces less.

We think he's grown up.

Thought he was starting to be himself.

But actually...

Or he just "doesn't dare."

Don't dare to make a mistake.

Dare not speak

Dare not come near

Because he's not sure

Will mom be in a good mood... or will it scold again?

No one said that.

Our fatigue.

Could gradually turn us into this.

From the person you ran towards.

Become the one you need to be careful with.

It didn't happen one day.

But it gradually accumulates.

From a short speech

From the tone that we didn't think

From the day we "couldn't" and accidentally landed with you.

And the day we realized...

It really hurts.

But it's not too late.

Today we can still choose

To call the baby in a softer voice.

To sit down next to him.

Instead of shouting from afar

To hug him...

To more often than scolding

Because you never wanted the perfect mother.

He just needs a mother.

He "dared to hug."

If we knew today...

We can always start over. 🤍

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