Meeting my older Self

A young woman winks at the camera, wearing a gray baseball cap, with a checklist overlaid listing categories for self-love activities: inner child, body, growth, social life, relaxation, and productivity.

A collage of images including a woman on a mountain, a child, a fort, and two people playing, with a checklist for 'for your inner child' activities like dance class and pottery.

(REAL) self love activities 💞

gentle reminder that self love is soooo much more than self care days, bubble baths, and affirmations. this is what REAL self love looks like! ⤵️ for your growth 🌱 let go of things you can’t control but that you’re still clinging to 🌱 ask yourself if you have any self-sabotaging behaviors -

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Things I Stopped Tolerating As I Got Older ✨

The older I get, the more I realize peace is actually one of the most valuable things you can protect 🤍 Healing isn’t always dramatic or glamorous like social media makes it seem. Sometimes it’s just: • setting boundaries • outgrowing certain people • protecting your energy • choosing sof

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Two women in white dresses and cowboy hats spin in a grassy field, with the title 'tips from your older sister' overlaid.

A person wearing a sheet mask and holding a drink, illustrating the advice to 'TAKE CARE OF YOUR SKIN' by removing makeup and drinking water.

A group of friends hugging by a lake at sunset, accompanying the advice to 'SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD PEOPLE' and choose friends wisely.

advice from an older sister 🫶

as an older sister, here is some advice i’ve gotten from others or learned over the years!! i know i have a lot of younger followers so i wanted to share ❤️ younger girls - ask questions in the comments & older girls - share your wisdom!! let’s help each other out!! #sisteradvice #adviceforg

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Reclaiming Your True Self

💫 Reclaiming Your True Self You are not your past. You are not your programming. You are not your pain. You are something much older… wilder… and wiser. And it’s safe now to return to you. Drop a 💫 if you’re choosing your soul over your survival patterns. #SelfReclamation #InnerChildH

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Meeting my older self

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POV: talking to my older self

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Three self-help books by Chelsey Armfield are displayed on a floral blanket outdoors. The books are titled 'Heal to Glow,' 'The Real Glow Up,' and 'You Deserve Your Own Love Too,' promoting healing and self-love. Text overlay reads 'Three books that will help you heal and cultivate self-love.'

Three book for healing & self-love 📖🌸

If you are on a healing or self-love journey these books will help gently guide you home to yourself. You shouldn’t have to do this all on your own—and these books make you feel like you have a friend or older sister in your healing journey to support you through it all. 🥹💕 (B00k’s all 🔗’d i

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The ULTIMATE List of Self Care Ideas

The ultimate list of summer self care ideas science Of essentials, Wellness, hygge, Mental health #summerselfcare #summercare #selfcareidealist #wellness #mentalhealthawareness

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3 books for your healing/ self-love journey!

If you are on a healing or self-love journey these books will help gently guide you home to yourself. You shouldn’t have to do this all on your own—and these books make you feel like you have a friend or older sister in your healing journey to support you through it all. 🥹💕 (B00k’s 🔗’d in bi

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🧩 self-care isn’t one-size-fits-all

Real talk, self-care isn’t always pretty or peaceful. Sometimes it’s setting boundaries. Sometimes it’s remembering to drink water. Sometimes it’s crying it out or saying “no” when everything in you wants to people-please. There’s more than one way to care for yourself. Here are six I keep comin

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The older I get… the less I care about being liked 🤎

Somewhere in my 30s, I stopped shrinking to make other people comfortable. I stopped explaining my boundaries. I stopped chasing people who felt inconsistent. And I stopped confusing being liked… with being aligned. Protecting my peace changed everything 🫶🏼 What’s something you’ve outgro

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5 Ways to Build Self-Discipline & Stay Consistent

1️⃣ Start Small & Be Realistic → Don’t try to change everything overnight. Pick 1-2 habits to focus on (e.g., drink more water, walk 10k steps daily). 2️⃣ Schedule Workouts Like Appointments → Treat gym time like a non-negotiable meeting. Block it in your calendar and show up no matter wha

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A hand holds a tall stack of self-help books, including "Atomic Habits," "The Alchemist," and "The Psychology of Money." The image is titled "Please Read! Self-Help Books," suggesting recommendations for personal growth and well-being.

Self-Help Books for 2026 — 📚

2026 is not about becoming someone new—it’s about returning to who you truly are. It’s the year of intentional growth, gentle healing, and courageous self-reflection. Self-help books in 2026 are less about quick fixes and more about sustainable transformation—meeting yourself with honesty, compassi

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A book page displays the phrase "Growing older is" followed by an ellipsis, set against a light background. The bottom left corner shows "Lemon8" and the username "@chelseyarmfield."

A book page features the title "You Deserve Your Own Love Too" and text about aging and self-love. It includes the page number "156" and author "CHELSEY ARMFIELD," with "Lemon8" and "@chelseyarmfield" at the bottom.

The cover of the book "YOU DESERVE YOUR OWN LOVE TOO" by CHELSEY ARMFIELD is shown. The title and author are in red text on a light-colored background, and the book rests on a white textured surface. "Lemon8" and "@chelseyarmfield" are at the bottom.

Growing older is…

In a world full of societal pressures to preserve our youth for as long as we can manage, I want to encourage you to see the magic & wisdom in aging. There is a healing power in knowing yourself a little deeper, year after year. Growing older is a gift. Don’t let them fool you. 🤍 B00K: You D

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The Path to Becoming Your Best Self

❤️‍🩹 Healing Healing isn’t linear, it’s a journey. It’s embracing the moments of vulnerability and recognizing that each step, no matter how small, brings you closer to peace. You owe yourself the love you so freely give to others. 🦋 Maturing Maturity is more than growing older—it’s growing wi

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5 Things I’m Teaching My Daughter As She Gets Older

Generations have gotten lazy as time goes on, so these are the five musts I do and want my daughter to do that will help her be a lady. When you look good you feel good. Tell me what yours are. 1. “You can always tell a lady by her hands” clean, moisturized, well kept, and polished hands make a

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A black and white image titled 'Shadow Work' explains how we project our shadow onto others by reacting intensely to traits we dislike in them, to avoid seeing those qualities within ourselves. It features a silhouette of a person casting a long shadow.

Meeting the Shadow

Excerpt from… 📚Book name: Meeting the Shadow Edited by Connie Zweig + Jeremiah Abrams #shadowwork #shadowworkhealing #shareyourthoughts #selflove #selfhelp #shadowworkprompts

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A person in a pink t-shirt and khaki shorts stands on a sidewalk next to a road, with buildings and trees in the background. The image includes the text "Things I would tell my 18 year old self:".

A person in an orange shirt stands in a rocky stream surrounded by lush greenery, with a body of water in the distance. The image features the text "Travel ANYWHERE. Take every opportunity to travel. Even if it's for a weekend and somewhere close by".

A person with glasses smiles while holding a green apple, surrounded by green leaves and branches. The image includes the text "Allow yourself the space to feel your emotions in a healthy way".

Things I would tell my 18 year old self:

Now that I’m 25 years old, I have had so many experiences now then I did when I was 18 years old. My mind was focused on partying, finally having my “independence”, and becoming a legal adult. Of course, as we grow we learn. So these are the thing I would tell my 18 year old self (and you guys)!

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