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What I’ve learned living on my own. 1st time EVER!

I moved out of my grandparents house at the age of 32. Not only was it my first time living on my own, but I also had a 10 year old. Oh add in I was also moving in with my boyfriend (now husband).

Back in 2018 when we moved in here, yes there was excitement and also a lot of anxiety of being away from home. Anyone who knew me knew that my grandfather was my safe space.

Now the story behind why we ended up here is for another day. But we made it work.

Some things I would do differently:

🦋 not painting

🦋 picking smaller furniture

🦋 not buying so much stuff( you don’t need it all)

🦋 learning how to organize better

Now we’ve been here for 7 years and we definitely need a different space. Are we ready to make the jump to a home? Probably not, but we will one day.

#first apartment #lemon8challenge #lemon8partner #lemon8home #AskLemon8

2025/6/7 Edited to

Moving out and living alone for the first time is a significant life transition, often filled with excitement and anxiety. Many individuals find that the reality of independence comes with unexpected challenges. Here are some insights into navigating this journey: 1. **Emotional Preparedness**: The emotions tied to leaving family, especially for those like me who had a safe space with grandparents, can be complex. It's essential to acknowledge these feelings and seek support from friends and partners. 2. **Practical Considerations**: Setting up your own space involves practical considerations such as budgeting, choosing furniture, and managing household chores. Opt for multi-functional furniture to maximize space and avoid clutter, an important lesson I wish I'd learned sooner! 3. **Organizational Skills**: Learning to organize effectively can drastically improve your living experience. Start with decluttering – only keep items that bring you joy or serve a distinct purpose. 4. **Building a New Home**: Creating a home environment that reflects personal style and comfort is important. Small details like decor and arrangement can make a big difference in how settled you feel. 5. **Future Planning**: As life progresses, so will your needs. Recognize when it’s time to evaluate your living situation, like considering a bigger space when your family grows. For those on similar journeys, remember that it’s okay to reassess and plan for the future gracefully. Ultimately, embracing growth, learning from experiences, and staying open to change can make such transitions fulfilling.

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