I know I say this a lot but I wouldn’t be doing what I love today if I had listened to everyone telling me I had no skills or experience to build furniture.

Before 5 years ago, I had never picked up a power tool. I didn’t even know how to hold a drill properly.

One day I decided I wanted to build a dining table and although I was scared, I just went for it.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve made a ton of mistakes but those mistakes just helped me learn and over time I just got better and better.

So don’t be scared of what people say, just dive right in and do the thing that makes you scared. You just might find it’s the best thing you’ve ever done for yourself.

2025/12/10 Edited to

... Read moreIn your 20's, it's common to hear doubts about your skills and abilities, especially when trying something new like building furniture. I remember someone telling me I wasn’t skilled enough to take on such a project. But those words didn’t stop me; instead, they fueled my determination. Starting out with no experience and not even knowing how to hold a drill properly can be intimidating. However, embracing the learning curve is key. Mistakes are inevitable but crucial—they teach you what works and what doesn’t. Every blunder became a stepping stone toward mastering power tools and woodworking techniques. Safety should always be your priority when handling tools, so take time to learn proper usage to avoid injuries. Begin with small projects to build confidence before tackling more complex pieces like a dining table. Watching tutorials, reading guides, and seeking advice from experienced woodworkers can accelerate your learning. Remember, the fear of failure often holds people back. But stepping outside your comfort zone and committing to the process will reveal new skills and passions you never knew you had. Building a dining table isn’t just about the final product—it’s about the growth and self-belief gained along the way. So if you’re feeling scared or unsure, take that first step. Your journey might inspire others to do the same, proving that with courage and persistence, you can achieve what once seemed impossible.

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