If i exist to suffer then shouldn't I stop existing?

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... Read moreMany people who face emotional pain or existential questions like "If I exist to suffer, then shouldn’t I stop existing?" often feel overwhelmed by the weight of their experiences. From personal journeys and conversations I've had, I realize that suffering is a deeply human condition but does not define the totality of our existence. It's important to remember that suffering can sometimes lead to growth, empathy, and resilience. For example, when I went through difficult times, I found that sharing my feelings with trusted friends or journaling helped me make sense of the pain and find new perspectives. Instead of viewing suffering as a reason to give up, it can become a signal that we need support, a new outlook, or a change in direction. Philosophers and psychologists often suggest that while pain is inevitable, meaning is something we can choose to create. Existential thinkers like Viktor Frankl highlight that even in suffering, life offers opportunities for purpose. By seeking out small joys, meaningful connections, or creative outlets, we reclaim a sense of existence beyond pain. If you’re wrestling with these thoughts, it may help to speak with mental health professionals who can provide guidance and practical tools. Remember that you're not alone—many have walked this path and found ways to move forward. Suffering does not diminish your worth or the possibility of happiness. Instead, it opens a door to understanding the complexities of being human and discovering your unique path to fulfillment.

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No amount of “your worth it” will change your opinion because I feel the same way but if you were meant to suffer then I say to myself that I deserve to suffer more than take the coward way out and end it…. Here’s some moral support and your sign to get boba tomorrow

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