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A dark, low-angle shot of people's legs and feet on a paved surface at night, with a blue speech bubble stating, "1. They expect you to honor their needs and preferences but don't listen to yours."
A blurry, dark image shows the backs of two people walking away at night, with a blue speech bubble stating, "2. They don't keep in touch with you unless they need something from you."
🚩Friendship red flags 🚩
Any other friendship red flags I forgot ? 2024 really thought me who was on my side and who wasn’t, a lot of times I was hurt by seeing people go from my life but you know what, losing fake friends is a WIN! 😮‍💨 • • • #friendfallingout #fakefriend #friendship #friends #friendships
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A person wearing a red sweater and a beige bag stands amidst autumn foliage. The image displays the title "RED VS GREEN FLAGS IN A FRIENDSHIP" and the Lemon8 handle @elleeeg_.
A person stands on a rocky shore looking out at the ocean under a clear blue sky. The image lists "RED FLAGS" in a friendship: flakey, selfish, no give and take, and no compromise.
Two people sit on a pebble beach, embracing and watching a sunset over the ocean. The image lists "GREEN FLAGS" in a friendship: selfless, feels like family, makes time for you, and does things you want to do.
Red Vs green flags in a friendship
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This image presents a numbered list of 20 dating red flags, including points like 'They don't make time for you' and 'Your mental health is worse in this relationship,' against a blurred background of a person in a car, with red flag icons.
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Stop expecting breadcrumbs when you deserve a FEAST 🍱🥘 Sometimes we want love so badly, we overlook Al the consistent red flag behavior. 🚩 But you’re not doomed to repeat these patterns! 👇🏽 1. They don't make time for you. 2. They don't want to meet your family. 3. They don't re
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A person fishing from a boat on a lake at sunset, with text '1. They put down their phone when you're talking to them'. The Lemon8 logo and @maryannes.photos are visible.
A person fishing from a boat on a lake at sunset, with text '2. They respect your boundaries and don't get mad about them'. The Lemon8 logo and @maryannes.photos are visible.
GREEN FLAGS in a Relationship
Top 6 dating green flags to look for: 1. They put down their phone when you’re talking to them. -This is bare minimum, but it’s shocking how few people do this! 2. They respect your boundaries and don’t get mad about them. -THIS IS HUGE. also should be a bare minimum but in today’s culture,
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Relationship Green flags 💚
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✨💚Green Flags In A Healthy Relationship💚✨
✨ Healthy relationships aren’t just about avoiding red flags—they’re about celebrating green ones too! 💚 Here are a few signs of a healthy, happy partnership: •They communicate openly and listen without judgment. •They’re consistent in showing love and effort. •They respect your boundaries an
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A book cover for "THE WRONG QUARTERBACK" by C.R. Jane, depicting a shirtless man, is displayed. Above it, text describes a plot point: "HE DR*GS HER BOYFRIEND AND MAKES IT LOOK LIKE HE'S CHEATING SO YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM."
He’s a 10 but… Red flags or Rose Petals edition
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A red chair and a lamp in a room with a city view at night, featuring two red flag emojis and the text 'My red flags in job postings'.
A job posting for a 'Growth Marketing Coordinator' requiring '2-3 years of experience' for an 'entry level' role, set against an airplane wing view.
A job posting snippet stating 'Disqualifiers: Candidates with multiple gaps in work & job hopping will not be eligible for the role,' against a city street background.
Job searching? These are my red flags… 🚩
Over the years I’ve seen a lot of things in job postings I don’t love, many of which have now become red flags for me. And usually I won’t even apply if I see any of these! For me, I want to apply to (& work for) companies that value me and don’t want to get the most bang for their buck.
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A couple kisses in the water at sunset, with the title "GREEN FLAGS FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP" overlaid. The image includes the Lemon8 logo and username.
Text boxes on a sunset-like background list green flags for a healthy relationship, such as paying attention, respecting others, empathy, and interest in hobbies. The Lemon8 logo is visible.
More text boxes on a sunset-like background detail green flags: being authentic, learning love languages, showing you off, and having clear ambitions. The Lemon8 logo is present.
Green flags to look for
in a relationship, you are both a team and work together to grow. Without understanding and communication a team could never work, you both are that team. These are a few green flags that helped me know that he is the one! comment the green flag that told you, you found your person!! #lemon8chal
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The image displays the title "13 red flags in job posts that mean you're about to be burnt tf out" in white text over a mirror selfie of a person in a grey hoodie and black pants.
The image highlights "Fast-paced environment" as a red flag, explaining it means "Everything is urgent (even when it isn't) & nothing is respected." A person is visible in a mirror selfie background.
The image identifies "Wear many hats" as a job post red flag, noting it implies they want "2-3 jobs done with only 1 paycheck." A person is visible in a mirror selfie background.
Red flags 🚩 in job posts
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Green Flags To Look For When Dating 🫶
It’s important to look for red flags, but sometimes we can get so caught up looking for bad that we miss the good. Here are some green flags that we should look for: 💚 They remember small things about you. They PAY ATTENTION to things you tell them. Maybe it’s your coffee order maybe it’s th
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The image displays the title "13 Red Flags That Always Hit Hardest In December" over a snowy path lined with trees adorned with festive lights.
The image shows the first red flag: "1. You feel disconnected from people you're supposed to be close to December makes distance louder than words." It is set against a snowy, lit path.
The image presents the second red flag: "2. They only show up when it's convenient for them Holiday season exposes who's actually dependable." The background is a snowy path with illuminated trees.
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Study red flags 🚩 (and how to fix them)!
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Red flags 🚩 in Friendships
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relationship green flags
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3 Red Flags & Green Flags In relationships🚩
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Green flags in a relationship you thought were red flags
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🟢 Green Flags in a Relationship 🟢
We talk a lot about red flags… but what about the green ones? 💚 These are the quiet signs of safety, love, and growth—the ones that make a relationship feel like home. ✨ Emotional safety ✨ Accountability ✨ Consistency ✨ Support through hard times ✨ Respect for boundaries ✨ Willingness to
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The image titled 'RED FLAGS' lists books with toxic relationships. It features covers for 'The Cruel Prince,' 'Gone Girl,' and 'The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue,' each with a descriptive trope.
The image titled 'GREEN FLAGS' showcases books with healthy relationships. It displays covers for 'Book Lovers,' 'Love & Other Words,' and 'Six of Crows,' each with a positive trope description.
📚 books as red flags, green flags & beige 🚩
Books can be red flags, green flags, or beige flags… and honestly, I’ll read them all. 🤷‍♀️ Which book trope do you think is a red flag but you love it anyway? Drop yours below! 👇📖✨ I love book tropes and these silly little trends. Please let me know if you have any other types of posts you’d l
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💚 7 Green Flags In A Relationship 💚
“Too often we talk about red flags 🚩… but let’s normalize celebrating the green flags 💚 that make love thrive. Here are 7 signs you’re in a healthy relationship. Which one resonates with you most? 👇” #GreenFlags #RelationshipGoals #HealthyLove #LoveAdvice #Lemon8
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10 Relationship 💚Green Flags
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Green Flags to Look for in a Relationship ✅👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏽🤍
We talk a lot about red flags, but what about green flags? 🤍 Here are 5 signs of a healthy relationship: 💞 1) They respect your boundaries and personal space. 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏽 2) They support your goals and cheer you on. 📣👩🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽 3) You can communicate openly without fear of judgment 4) They make you
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Green Flags in Friendships
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COMMUNICATION GREEN FLAGS 💚
Let’s chat about something super important today—communication in relationships. I’m diving into what I like to call "Communication Green Flags." These are signs that you're in a healthy, thriving partnership where both parties feel heard, valued, and loved. Let’s break down some key gr
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Green Flags vs. Red Flags in Relationships 🔑ℹ️⬇️
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relationship GREEN flags 💚💚💚
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