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READ 👉🏻In 1860 the average age for the onset of puberty in girls, was 16 years old. in 2010 it was 10. 

as the mom of 3 girls, this is a no-go for me. There are products I’ve allowed in our home this year that im not proud of. But ingredients matter. I can do better. There are always things we can’t control but choosing what we bring in our homes is a decision we can make to help. To do better.

hormone disrupting chemicals such as phthalates, parabens, and PFAS are in so many personal care products. our skin is the largest organ. 

early onset puberty is taking from our girls. it matters. it cuts childhood short. their brains arent in sync with what is happening physically. the health of our children matters. 

search early puberty, early estrogen exposure and the consequences that come with that. 

#wearethegatekeepers

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2024/7/26 Edited to

... Read moreIt's truly eye-opening to realize how much our environment can impact our children's development. As a mom, I remember those initial moments of noticing subtle changes in my girls, and like many parents, I probably didn't connect it to anything beyond 'just growing up.' But when you start digging into the science behind early puberty, especially concerning vulva development, it's clear there's more to the story. Normal puberty involves a predictable sequence, usually starting with breast buds (thelarche) around 8-13, followed by pubic hair growth (pubarche), and then menstruation (menarche). What's concerning is when these stages, particularly vulva development and pubic hair, begin much earlier than historical averages. The deep dive into 'why does ingredient safety matter so much?' became a personal mission. I learned that our skin, being our largest organ, absorbs so much of what we put on it. This means those seemingly harmless lotions, shampoos, and even cleaning products can introduce hormone-disrupting chemicals into their little bodies. Phthalates, often found in fragrances and plastics, parabens used as preservatives, and PFAS in non-stick coatings and waterproof items – these are silent invaders. They mimic our natural hormones, confusing the body's delicate systems and potentially accelerating growth and development, including vulva development. So, what can we realistically do? It's not about panic, but about conscious, informed choices. My journey started in our bathroom and kitchen. I began meticulously reading labels on everything from body wash to toothpaste. Look for products explicitly labeled 'phthalate-free,' 'paraben-free,' and avoid those with 'fragrance' listed as a generic term (it often hides phthalates). Switching to glass or stainless steel food containers instead of plastic, especially for heating food, was another big step. Even simple things like ensuring good ventilation when cleaning or opting for natural cleaning alternatives can reduce exposure. I’ve found incredible peace of mind in seeking out brands committed to transparency and using fewer, safer ingredients. It’s a process, not an overnight change, and it involves a lot of learning. But seeing the impact of these small shifts on my family’s overall well-being reinforces that 'ingredient safety' isn't just a buzzword; it's fundamental to protecting our children's childhoods and their long-term health. We have the power to be the gatekeepers of our homes, ensuring that what we bring in supports their natural, healthy development, allowing their brains and bodies to grow in sync, just as they're meant to.

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