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Sometimes non-retaliation is the best answer.

Today, someone spoke badly to us in the past, probably hurried to explain, but today choose to smile and come back to work.

Because growing up knowing that not everyone comes to understand us and not

Everything that requires power to respond.

Time is a precious thing. Use it on people who value us better.

What about you?..Have you ever chosen peace over defeat?..# Positive power # Encouragement every day # lemon 8 diary # Lemon 8 Howtoo

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