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Mirror theory...

One more day for the scared.

Like me. 😂

There are hundreds and thousands of things calling

Hello U, when will you do it?

And see other people working hard

And then look back at myself

Do you think because of money?

Because it doesn't beat people who don't like it?

Do you think carefully?

But today, the only correct idea

When I saw the Red Flag signal, I retreated.

There is no word to hesitate.

Because it will be followed by 12345...

Life is easy.

I've agreed. The way everyone does it.

- Talk carefully.

- Talk for cause and effect.

- Quiet.

- Make it night.

As a result, there was no peace of mind, no happiness, no feeling of winning.

But when I let it all go, some hurt, but it's over and it's over.

Start over.

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Mirror theory

Look at yourself at home.. so beautiful

Look in the mirror at the mall...So beautiful

Look in the mirror at the pump...(In the past, we deceived ourselves?)

Are we fat, black, old, with acne?

Look at the people ahead...Uh, that's jealous. No pimples.

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How to look.. reflect like that

In fact, walked out of the pump. Forget.. Who was that beautiful person?

Or we have to go to the clinic to be beautiful like that

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Go to the mall (light)

...The staff is so beautiful. This person is very smooth.

...The staff is so beautiful. There are a few acne. But you smile sweet. So cute. When the light comes down, you can hardly see your acne.

(Use the mission of what?: conjure)

(The lip color is also beautiful. This girl really has to be a little bit: conjure)

.......

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Why are only beautiful people?

.. but can't remember at all. Remember only our friends. No matter, people like people smiling. We also like being with you. When smiling a lot, it's so cute.

....If our friends get flirted, they wouldn't be surprised.. This good habits..

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When we like someone, any blame will or will not be overlooked.

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(Let me look in the mirror and see for myself)

Huh...Why in the app and the real one are we different? 🥹

Will I be disliked because he saw the real one?

But we also like handsome people

But people like beautiful people would not be strange

...We still like to look. 🥹

.....

......

......

(Look carefully at the passerby again)

- Some people aren't our type at all, but they have their own counterparts.

- Old, don't really look good. 🥲

- It's all straw eyes. It feels like we almost died of a fever. We're not sick.

(He would want our body when young if exchanged)

(Between very old and young but not beautiful according to beauty, we think people choose the latter: money can't be bought: think in mind)

"But seriously, I don't care about anyone. I only care about myself."

"Or really, other people think like us."

"Just care about yourself."

............Testing

"How many thoughts will we have if sitting with other people?"

- It's sunny, uh, the pores are clear, but he's very mannered.

Beaming.

- Compared to my friend. Oh, very detailed face.

- Handsome.. Handsome, different types. I don't know. Good habits are over.

All good habits are good.

- The sun in the shade. Oh, my pores. I barely saw them.

- The light in the mall, huh?..The light in the mall is set up for people to look handsome.

- It's really acne, it's not smooth, it's normal. You don't have to go to the clinic like that.

- Walk past someone else with a smooth face.

(Big yourself... 😂. But why not just? I don't feel that people with acne have to go that much either.)

(If handsome, but bad habits, only people)

(Handsome people are good-natured, even more handsome)

(The only handsome love is promax)

Tick Jed, so 🥹

But the third hero is really the green flag. 🥹

Glad to all the heroines

Glad for Mint, Shalida.

The older the more sensitive

It feels so complicated dating today.

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If we look at ourselves unattractive, priceless.

We will accidentally behave like that too.

People will think like that too.

Like a mirror, reflected and reflected

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(If wanting to be loved in the way of yourself)

(I like myself first)

(What to do? It's based on DNA, signature.)

Because it was pumped like this once. 😂

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We may not like ourselves.

But other people don't think like that

While we're not convinced

Other people can like us.

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Love yourself as yourself

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We may be someone's specification.

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But if it will be single

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Who knows how many days people will live?

Are you smiling? Make up? Have you eaten? Have you eaten what you want?

Have you played with dogs? Have you gone to make merit yet? Have you watched the drama with your mother? Have you done laundry yet? Have you seen the band with your friends?

....

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Please live a happy life until you close your eyes.

The rhythm of our lives is not equal.

Don't underestimate yourself. What to do? Let's go.

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(But don't make yourself anyone's person. It's not fun.)

😁

True

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