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Life Lost Mom Graduation! Self-Understanding Roadmap 10 Steps🌟

@ちゃんけー|ワーママのための幸せ習慣🌈◀ happy people did this ✨

The other day. Thankfully

Followers like this.

I received a DM!

When you receive a message like this,

I'm glad I sent it out 😌✨

Until three years ago, I was lost in my life!

Although I sympathize with the philosophy,

Why "I'm working all the way from now on

I can't imagine... "

While doing the work I felt like

struggling with housework and childcare.

"I know it's different," but,

I don't know where i'm headed.

Even if you open a job change site, there is too much information and you are frustrated...

Before I knew it, it had been 8 years...!

In my case,

I want to change, but I don t have time.

"I can't act..."

When I thought,

It wasn't clear what was going on.

It is... the "purpose" of life.

Car navigation system has to put the destination

You don't know the route!

Because I didn't know my purpose in life

i just couldn't move!

Understand the purpose of life,

A job that seems to be the happiest from the bottom of my heart

I was able to do it.

"Self-understanding" was the trigger!

In fact, I...

Life from a lost war mom

Until I met my vocation

Self-Understanding Roadmap

Here are the 10 steps 🎵

Let's go!!

[Life Lost Mom Graduation! Self-understanding Roadmap 10 STEP]

1. Work on self-understanding work

2. Create a vision board to clarify dreams / ideals

3. Find someone who fulfills your dreams / ideals (go to a bookstore and check the books you care about)

4. Check SNS, books, radio, events, courses, etc. of people who have fulfilled their dreams / ideals

5. Go and ask questions to people who are fulfilling their dreams / ideals

6. List what you can experience from your dreams / ideals

7. Try it out

8. Continue what you want to continue!

9. Let go of unnecessary things in what you are doing now

10.6-9 repeat

🌟 Olympics

I've done self-understanding once!

It doesn't end with saying "!

the steps in this roadmap

To go over and over again

It s always the best way to be yourself ✨

For reference...

I started working on self-understanding work

During childcare leave, which is taking care of 0-year-old and 2-year-old siblings at home,

I was working on my own using only books on weekends and so on

It took about 3-4 months...

5. For those who are making their dreams come true

Go and ask questions. "

About a year after returning from maternity leave,

For 4 months, every Wednesday from 19: 30

For women to start

I entered a career school!

With this road map

My own life has changed,

The clients too.

Big changes are happening ✨

Just!

Even if you understand yourself

I have to do something

The effects of self-understanding fade.

I realized that!

It is to set the foundation for your own happiness

That means!

Why is it important?

No matter how much you understand yourself,

If you don't have the power to believe in yourself,

Unable to accept the true self,

Because I can't move forward.

This self-understanding roadmap

Use it for yourself.

In order to fulfill the happiest future,

and happiness at the same time.

Let's make it well ♪

Next time,

Self-Understanding Roadmap STEP 1-5

I will tell you!

Besides that, it is for Wamama

During the delivery of the post to get a happy habit that can be in one minute!

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Did you know that happiness is contagious 💕?

When you are happy, your loved ones can be happy too 🕊️

Happy Habits

How to be happy

Lost in Life Self-understanding

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2025/8/10 Edited to

... Read moreしないことリストは、自己理解を深める中で特に効果的に働くツールの一つです。私自身、自己理解ロードマップを進める中で、やるべきことだけでなく「やらないこと」を明確にすることが心の余裕と行動の質を高める鍵だと実感しました。 例えば、無理に全てを完璧にこなそうとせず、家事や育児の中で自分の負担になる細かい作業や「人の目を気にしてしまう」思考をあえて辞めること。こうした「しないこと」をリストアップすることで、何に力を注ぐべきかがクリアになり、人生の目的に沿った行動がしやすくなります。 また、自分の夢や理想を叶えている人を探し、そのライフスタイルから学ぶ中で「やらないこと決め」も自然と見えてきます。育児や仕事の両立で疲れ切っていても、無駄なことを減らす意識で、自己信頼や自己肯定感が高まりました。 「しないことリスト」の例としては、・他人の評価を気にしすぎない・無理な約束はしない・疲れているときは休む・情報に振り回されすぎないなどが挙げられます。 これらは単に「やめる」ことではなく、自分の幸せの土台を整え、自己理解を活かすための土台作りです。何度も繰り返す自己理解ロードマップにこのリストを組み合わせることで、より実践的かつ効果的に働きます。 自己理解に時間がとれないワーママでも、ひとつひとつ無理なくステップを進められるので、ぜひ参考にしてみてください。あなたの人生迷子からの卒業を心から応援しています!

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