Read this if you struggle w/ self sabotage—

Maybe self-care feels foreign to you—like something that you can easily put on the back burner. But maybe, if you thought of self-care as an act of love and consideration for your inner child—it would be easier to make sense of why it is so important to implement in your life. You can be the loving adult that you need in your life. And that, is a beautiful experience. That is self love. 🤍

📖: The Real Glow Up ✨

A self-help guide to glowing from the inside out—to healing, to learning self-care, to understanding how to love yourself more fully. Because the real glow up is internal. 🌷

(On amzn) 🛒

#selfhelpbooks #innerchildhealing #selfhealingjourney #booktok #selfcarequotes

2025/3/6 Edited to

... Read moreSelf-sabotage often manifests as an internal struggle against our own needs, particularly when it comes to self-care. Many individuals find themselves caught in cycles of neglect, mistakenly believing that prioritizing their well-being is selfish. This mindset not only complicates personal care routines but also inhibits emotional growth. To combat self-sabotage, it’s essential to reframe your perception of self-care. Instead of viewing it as an indulgence, start seeing it as a necessary practice that nurtures your inner child—the part of you that craves love, attention, and support. The journey towards self-love can be as simple as creating a relaxing environment, practicing mindfulness, or engaging in activities that make you genuinely happy. Instead of pushing through discomfort or denying personal needs, begin to foster an atmosphere of self-compassion. Techniques such as journaling about your feelings and experiences, seeking support through therapy, or connecting with communities focused on healing can be incredibly beneficial. These practices provide validation and allow your inner child to feel cherished and safe. Embracing self-care as an act of love fosters resilience and paves the way for authentic personal development. Remember, the only way to truly glow from the inside out is to first take care of the self that deserves it.

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I'm fine at self care, it's helping others beyond my limit, or doing something randomly crazy with consequences that's the type of self sabotage I need to address ❤️

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