Getting married at 21!

My husband and I got married in May 2024, both of us being 21. Truthfully we had no idea what we were doing but we knew we were in love and wanted to spend our lives with each other. That’s all that mattered!

If you know, you know. Right?

So many people asked us if we were sure and always our answer was “ABSOLUTELY!” I’ve loved every second of spending my life with my absolute best friend and number 1 supporter. I can’t wait to see where life takes us. 🤍

#marriedlife #marriedyoung #lemon8challenge #Lemon8Diary #bride2024

2024/11/10 Edited to

... Read moreSo, you're wondering if 21 is too young to get married? I get it. When my husband and I decided to tie the knot in May 2024, we heard that question a lot. From friends, family, and even strangers, the opinions poured in. But honestly, for us, when you know, you truly know. There's no magic age that suddenly makes you "ready." It's about finding that person you want to build a life with, no matter what age you are. One of the biggest concerns we faced, and one that many young couples encounter, was about finances. Let me be real: Finances are HARD when you're starting out young. We weren't rolling in money, and we definitely had to learn to budget, penny-pinch, and prioritize. The advice I can give, echoing what I learned, is to SAVE SAVE SAVE!!! every chance you get. Even small amounts add up. We quickly realized the importance of open communication about money and setting joint financial goals. And remember, it's okay to ask for help or guidance from trusted mentors or family members when you need it. We're still learning, but facing these challenges together has actually made our bond stronger. Beyond money, another constant was the barrage of opinions. EVERYONE HAS AN 'OPINION' about young marriage. Some were supportive, some were skeptical, and some were outright negative. It can be overwhelming and make you second-guess yourselves. My advice? You have to tune out the noise and do what feels right for YOU and your partner. No one else lives your life or understands your unique connection. We learned to lean on each other and trust our instincts. Our love story is ours alone, and that realization brought so much peace. But let's talk about the best part – IT'S SO Fun!! Being married young means we get to grow up together, experience so many firsts as a team, and truly build our foundation from the ground up. Acting like kids with my husband is my favorite time, and that's the joy of being young and in love. We're still figuring things out, making mistakes, and having a blast along the way. Every day, I get to live life with my Best Friend. He's my confidant, my adventure partner, and my biggest cheerleader. We literally started our adult lives together, sharing dreams and navigating challenges side-by-side. For any young couple considering marriage, my experience tells me that if your heart feels right and you've found your person, don't let age be the sole deterrent. Focus on building a strong foundation of communication, trust, and shared values. Be prepared for challenges, especially financial ones, and be ready to stand firm against external opinions. Embrace the journey, the fun, and the incredible joy of growing together with your best friend. It’s an adventure I wouldn't trade for anything.

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yesss getting married at 22 + 23 and completely agree!

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yes just got married in October 21+31 best decision ever 🤍

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