My first book releases on July 15th

Having delved into the complexities of dating through both historical and data-driven lenses, the upcoming book 'Unchosen' sheds light on realities often overlooked in the dating world. From my own experience navigating dating apps, it's clear that understanding dating through data can reveal patterns behind common failures and successes. One striking insight is that unconditional love, often idealized, rarely governs dating dynamics. Instead, people behave as desirable or disposable based on social trends and personal behaviors influenced by culture, race, and media. For example, many underestimate how colorism and mainstream media narratives affect dating preferences and perceptions. This book also candidly discusses controversial but crucial topics such as the effects of third-wave feminism, the role of 'passport bros', and the subtleties of gold digger dynamics. What resonated with me personally was the raw acknowledgment of how delusional expectations and lack of effort from both sides can lead to repeated disappointments. Advice that encourages reflecting on personal lifestyle changes rather than just cosmetic dating tweaks is refreshing and necessary. Understanding the three most dangerous types of men and women, as the author categorizes, provides practical knowledge to navigate the dating pool more safely. Dating apps, often blamed for superficiality, are examined with authentic personal data revealing how they shape modern romantic interactions. This data-driven approach demystifies patterns and suggests ways men and women can actively win in the dating market by adjusting strategies and expectations. For anyone tired of failed dates and confusing signals, 'Unchosen' offers a brutally honest yet constructive roadmap to understand and improve in the modern dating scene, grounded in historical context and personal experience.