Life is full of roller coaster and there isn't any right answers to it. As we grow, we learned what suits us the most and there is no one size fits all. Afterall, life, human ,and nature can be both beautiful and imperfect at the same time. There are kind people but also nasty people. I just wa

Currently, I have been single for more than a month and I love it! No rebound, No talking stage, No dating, No situationship, purely just focus on me, myself, and I until meet the right person at the right time (idk when but ya). Let's talk about the benefits of being single: 1. Your mone

Hopes and expectations are stories that we created in our heads, and sometimes it might not be true. When hopes and expectations fails, it leads to disappointments. Even the simple ones like 'he/she asks me out maybe he/she interested', but actually turns out he/she just wants to 'ha

I am grateful for this platform to be able to write my own "blog" freely, and I don't expect anything from it. But sometimes, I would get random followers and DMs on IG, and I assumed is from here. I just wanna say a big thank you for your support. I am so sorry that I don’t reply t

How can the person you once thought you would marry slowly fade like a blurred shadow? How can words like forever, promises, and marriage suddenly mean nothing? Perhaps we truly tried. But maybe we realised our love was never deep enough. Maybe the words we once said were built on fami

Trying the method of listing all the good and bad things done from my ex, credit to Liz the wizard's Youtube. They say action speaks louder than words. I am just doing the past 4 years' relationship a review. Good thing that was done: 1. Shows affections when together 2. Brought fo

As you know, I use this space to journal things down. Honestly, this is my first break up, and I don't have an answer for everything. I am writing it all here because it helps to clear my mind. After a break up, you may seem happy on outside, but when the night comes, things go quiet, and y

His my ever first relationship. I've been with him since I am 20-21 years old. Turning 25 becomes a turning point where I asked myself ,can I spend the rest of my life with him? Can he be the father of my children? Is this serious enough to progress to something more serious? I realised his

Sometimes, it's the boring things that should get us going. Sometimes, it's the boring things that are beneficial to us. For me, I am studying Uni and learning driving ,and at the same time working. There are so many things I wanna learn and explore outside of these, yet so littl

Sharing my 2 cents/2 points about relationship advises, and if it works, it works 😊 First of all, I think communication is very important in a relationship. Sometimes, falling in love is easy, but staying in love is hard. Be honest and transparent with your other half. Tell all your ugly and unw