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“The trauma made you stronger”

I believe this statement is false. The trauma gave me anxiety, it made me hate life, it tore me apart, it gave me trust issues, it broke me. It will always be there, never forgotten, but it’ll get easier. You start to heal. That doesn’t mean you get stronger.

#safespace #lemon8challenge #letschat #trauma #healing

2024/10/29 Edited to

The statement "The trauma made you stronger" is often debated as many survivors feel differently. Trauma can lead to anxiety, relationship issues, and a distorted view of life. Recognizing trauma as part of one's story is crucial for healing. This process involves emotional work, seeking support, and embracing vulnerability. Healing is not linear; it encompasses setbacks and breakthroughs. Engaging with communities, such as those symbolized by hashtags like #safespace and #letschat, can provide additional support and understanding for those navigating these challenges. The journey of healing necessitates patience and empathy towards oneself, acknowledging that strength can sometimes be found in moments of fragility.

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I have mixed thoughts about sooo many things n I have almost no family left n it's hard n thts a huge trigger for me

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