Am I in the wrong?

Taking control of the WiFi to encourage a partner to go to bed reflects a deeper challenge many couples face: balancing leisure activities with mutual respect and rest. Turning off the WiFi, while it may feel harsh, stems from a need to prioritize personal well-being when communication doesn't work. Gaming is indeed a popular way for many to unwind, but it can sometimes inadvertently cause stress or discomfort to others in the household, especially when noise levels and time extend late into the night. It's important to recognize that both partners deserve to have their needs met—whether it's relaxation through gaming or getting enough sleep for work the next day. To foster harmony, couples might consider setting clear schedules or mutually agreed quiet hours that respect each other's routines. Furthermore, explaining the specific impacts—like difficulty falling asleep or waking feeling unrested—can help partners see the situation with empathy rather than frustration. Using the WiFi as a control tool can signal underlying communication gaps. Instead, initiating calm, honest conversations about limits before irritation builds can allow solutions like noise-canceling headphones, adjusting gaming times, or creating couples' quiet rituals. This approach supports both partners’ well-being without the resentment that sometimes follows unilateral actions. In summary, while turning off the WiFi might feel like standing up for oneself in the moment, addressing the root of the problem through communication and compromise can lead to more sustainable peace and understanding in the relationship.