How much did your wedding cost?

I feel like more and more people are starting to do courthouse weddings and elopements rather than traditional big weddings. I’m curious to know how much y’all have spent on your weddings… my dress was less than $200, my husband rented his suit, our officiant was free, and our photographer was $450!! Our parents split the bill for our dinner after.. so out of pocket my husband and I spent less than $1000 on our big day! It was a stress free day as we only invited immediate family. I loved our little small wedding and if I can go back in time, I would do it all over again. #courthousewedding #elopement #AskLemon8 #girlpov #lemon8challenge

2025/9/11 Edited to

... Read moreIn recent years, many couples are opting for courthouse weddings and elopements as a meaningful alternative to traditional large-scale ceremonies. These smaller ceremonies often focus on intimacy, simplicity, and budget-friendliness. For example, costs like the wedding dress, which can range from under $200, and renting a suit instead of purchasing can greatly reduce expenses. An important factor in keeping the budget low is the choice of officiant — many couples either use family members to officiate or find officiants who offer their services for free or a nominal fee. Additionally, photography, which is an essential part of preserving memories, can be attained professionally without the high prices traditionally associated with wedding photographers; some couples manage to find photographers charging around $450. Guest lists for courthouse weddings tend to be limited to immediate family, which not only reduces venue costs but also minimizes spending on food and decorations. Many couples share expenses with family members, for instance, parents splitting the dinner bills, further lightening the financial burden. Planning a courthouse wedding or elopement requires thoughtful consideration of what truly matters for your big day. Prioritize expenses that bring you joy, like capturing moments with photography, while cutting down on less impactful costs. Moreover, this approach leads to a stress-free wedding experience, allowing couples to be fully present. If you're considering a small wedding, research local courthouse policies, available officiant options, and photographers with packages suited to smaller events. Also, explore budgeting tools and connect with communities sharing their wedding experiences to gather practical tips. By doing so, you can create a beautiful, personal celebration that fits your financial goals and leaves lasting memories.

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About 30k for 55 guest!!!

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