The Long Days and the Short Years

Some stories don’t feel written as much as remembered. 🤍

💐Today’s Mother’s Day piece is one of the most personal reflections I’ve shared so far — about grief, motherhood, memory, hindsight, and the quiet realization that love leaves traces everywhere.

I wrote about:

• missing my mom deeply today

• the “long days and short years”

• motherhood changing shape over time

• and how imperfect love still builds something beautiful

And this image?

I created it because when I picture Heaven for my mom… I think of peaceful garden paths, glowing lanterns, flowers everywhere, and beauty beyond words. 🌿✨

If you’d like to read the full article, my Substack is completely free to subscribe to, and every new piece arrives gently in your inbox like a letter from the mountain.

The porch light is always on. 🤍

https://open.substack.com/pub/cynthiascribani/p/the-long-days-and-the-short-years?r=2ahba2&utm_medium=ios

4 days agoEdited to

... Read moreReflecting on the themes of grief and motherhood can be an emotionally profound journey that resonates deeply with many. The phrase “long days and short years” beautifully captures how moments of hardship and loss can feel endless, while life’s years seem to pass so quickly in retrospect. From personal experience, grief often feels like a quiet companion that shifts shape over time — some days are heavy and slow, others filled with gentle reminders of love and connection. Motherhood likewise evolves, changing its form and demands but always anchored by love. Even when imperfect, it creates a foundation for growth, resilience, and profound beauty in everyday moments. In sharing these reflections, there is power in realizing that love leaves traces everywhere — in memories, traditions, and quiet spaces like imagined garden paths or glowing lanterns symbolizing hope and peace. For anyone navigating loss or the complex feelings that come with motherhood, embracing this imperfection and continuing to honor love’s traces can provide comfort and meaning. It reminds us that while the days may feel long, the years hold the legacy of care, growth, and connection. Subscribing to thoughtful personal reflections like these can offer a gentle reminder that none of us journey alone, and that love’s glow is truly everlasting.

Related posts

i passed the ATI TEAS #7 in 3 days!!
I had three days to complete my admissions for my program and still managed to score an 88% with a 97th National Percentile on my first try! In my opinion, the most challenging sections were: Chemistry: Stoichiometry (only about 8 questions) and conversions (everywhere) Math: Median and me
lynnjai

lynnjai

41 likes

You Cannot Learn a Language in 30 Days
I see endless videos on YouTube titled “how I learned X in 7 days…” – I call B.S.!!! If you are just starting to learn a language, especially one very different than your native language, you will realize that vocabulary, grammar, sentence structure, even down to the way your mouth moves to pron
Anaïs D’Ottavio

Anaïs D’Ottavio

448 likes

years are short & the days are long
It’s true what they say, the years are way too short and time is always slipping out from under me. the hard days that are long and tiring and overstimulating.. why can’t they be short? Motherhood is holding onto moments that feel like magic and letting go of moments that bring you shame. It’s
thesedailyvids

thesedailyvids

1 like

A flat lay of several book covers including 'The Midnight Library', 'Project Hail Mary', 'Heatwave', 'Sharp Objects', and 'Piranesi', with the text 'BINGEABLE BOOKS' overlaid. The books are arranged on a knitted blanket.
The book cover for 'One's Company' by Ashley Hutson, rated 4 stars, is displayed on a knitted blanket. Text indicates it's 272 pages, literary fiction, mental health, and contemporary, with a summary.
The book cover for 'Project Hail Mary' by Andy Weir, rated 5 stars, is shown on a knitted blanket. Text highlights it's 478 pages, science fiction, thriller, and space travel, with a summary.
books for short attention span girlies 😜
Not only are these books short, but they’re so entertaining you won’t want to put them down! I have read all of these novels either within 24 hours or over a couple days, so i can personally attest to these being short, attention-grabbing reads! (And I’ve given all of them 4+ stars so u know the
molly

molly

386 likes

6 Short-Term Healthcare Programs w/ a High Salary💸
These are a few long-term healthcare careers that offer little education time and a lot of MONEY ! 🤑 Comment “🍋” for more related content. 💗 1. Dental Hygienist 🦷 | $87,530-$118,400 - The duties include cleaning teeth, inspecting mouths for signs of disease, and educating patients about pr
Mk 🩵

Mk 🩵

1397 likes

SHORT, MEDIUM & LONG TERM FINANCIAL GOALS 💰
Depending on your needs and wants, you may have short, medium, and long term financial goals. These goals have different time horizons and risk levels, and require different strategies to achieve them. Here are some ideas to add to your short, medium and long term goals: Short term goals (1-
Emma 🐝

Emma 🐝

724 likes

A baby's head is visible next to a parent under a white textured blanket, with text overlay "HANDLING OVERSTIMULATION As a single mom SWIPE," introducing tips for single mothers.
A baby's arm, dressed in a yellow and white sun-patterned onesie, rests on a parent's chest, illustrating the tip "GO OUTSIDE" for single moms to combat overstimulation.
A baby's arm in a yellow sun-patterned onesie rests on a parent's chest, accompanying the advice "DO AT LEAST 1 THING FOR YOURSELF" for single mothers to find personal time.
Days are long but the years are short
Being a single mom it’s difficult regardless if their dad is present or not. Personally I work from home which makes it so easy to get overwhelmed trying to work and taking care of a baby. Making a routing it’s so important yet so difficult when they’re times that you can’t just follow it and yo
Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

Lifestyle | Motherhood 🥥🤎

7 likes

Short but shockingly deep books
You know those books that somehow fit a whole existential crisis into less than 200 pages? The ones that you finish in a day but think about for YEARS? That’s what we’re talking about here. I used to think big, deep books had to be long and complicated…until I read these. They’re small in size b
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

45 likes

Natural hairstyles “Some long and short “
#beautyfinds #hairideas #naturalhair #longhair #jayahbailey #trinityparker
Msdiorbrown

Msdiorbrown

628 likes

Lower-Body Strength|For the Years Ahead
After a 30-minute lower-body strength workout, my glutes and thighs stayed sore for days. Instead of resisting it, I’ve learned to appreciate this soreness. It feels like my body acknowledging the effort. This kind of training isn’t about short-term results— it’s about protecting my quali
agelessmuse.mei

agelessmuse.mei

1 like

the days are long but the years are short
#newmom #6monthsold #babyhalfbirthday #aesthetic #babypartydecor
Noa’s mama

Noa’s mama

1 like

These are the days
Stop rushing- enjoy these days🥹 #routinewithtoddler #waking mommy up early to play #playtime #stayhomemommy #momneedssleep
trishanicole2829

trishanicole2829

8 likes

The years are short
I get so caught up in the long days sometimes where we are so exhausted and you just want everything to be still and quiet. But what I then realize is that the years are so short. One day my house won’t be messy all the time. One day I won’t hear the chaos and laughing down the hall. One day these
kailynmdigitalmama

kailynmdigitalmama

4 likes

Sometimes love doesn't need years, it just needs the right person. 🌈
My Robbie, In such a short amount of time, we built something real, something that feels like home. I used to think love took time to understand, but when you meet someone who matches your energy, respects your peace, and pours into you effortlessly, everything just flows. Thank you for showing m
D’Ara Denise

D’Ara Denise

791 likes

10 DAYS OF SHORT HAIRSTYLES 🩵
#shorthair #hairinspo #shorthairideas
KylaJae West

KylaJae West

165 likes

Long days can be rough…
But I try to remember that the years go so fast. I swear, I just had a baby, and now I have a two year old. Cherish the good times, feel the hard times and keep moving. #parentingtips #parent #momlife
Julie | Working Mama | ☀️

Julie | Working Mama | ☀️

0 likes

how i made a short film
so the colorado thing wasn’t planned at all, we were originally supposed to film in wisconsin. i was pretty much left with no other choice though and met up with a friend in colorado, who helped arrange all of this to happen and got me in contact with all these amazing and talented people. the f
lili <3

lili <3

667 likes

long-term vs short-term investing💸✨
Long-term investing typically involves holding onto investments for an extended period of time, often years. One key benefit of long term investing is the potential for higher returns compared to short-term investing. Short-term investing offers the potential for quick profits and investors can
₊˚⊹♡𐌋𐌉𐌍𐌃𐌔 ₊˚⊹♡

₊˚⊹♡𐌋𐌉𐌍𐌃𐌔 ₊˚⊹♡

18 likes

My Spring reset in 10days?✋😭⬆️ #spring
Hey everyone! 🌸 Just finished my 'Spring Reset Journey' in 10 days, and honestly, it was a mix of questionable skincare choices, rediscovering my closet like a treasure hunt, and proudly rocking those zero makeup days. 😅 Now, thinking about a Part 2 where I promise to be more productive (fi
Atlas

Atlas

45 likes

New Years week spread
My new years weekly spread on my Hobonichi weeks. #hobonichi #hobonichiweeeks #planner #weeklyspread #plannerideas
notcorona

notcorona

17 likes

Sad Girl Leg Day: Short & Manageable (30 Mins.)
This is my go-to routine when I’m feeling down or going through a tough time. On days when I don’t really want to hit the gym, but I know I need to, this workout helps me get it done without overwhelming myself. It’s simple, effective, and doesn’t take too long—just enough to lift my mood and keep
Sky | CPT

Sky | CPT

22 likes

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭…
One day, she’ll be out 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑙𝑜𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 the world, and I’ll be 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔 memories instead of making them 🌿 Some days feel exhausting. Some days feel endless. And yet, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭, not the perfect craft or the clean house, but the 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞, the moments we 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒅
jennifer_potpinka5

jennifer_potpinka5

0 likes

A flat lay shows a black notebook with "GOD GOALS GROWING & GLOWING," a Bible, AirPods, and a laptop, with text overlay "Virtual Church" and "7 Days after getting saved."
A digital screen displays a "7 Days After Getting Saved" plan, showing "Day 1 of 7" with devotional readings from Galatians, Ephesians, and Romans, marked as "On Track!".
A YouTube channel page for "Transformation Church" with 2.02M subscribers, featuring various video thumbnails including rebroadcasts, music, and short motivational clips.
"7 Days after getting saved"
🔔 I just joined a church online “and I’m in love, I’m obsessed“ (in my Rihanna Voice) 👉 Yes I am a very unserious adult This is the first time that I have actually felt apart of a religious based group virtually (&& for some context I am active duty in the Army so I’m always ttying to get
Lachelle Denise

Lachelle Denise

32 likes

how to sync your new years goals with your cycle
When it comes to setting New Year’s goals, aligning them with your natural rhythms can make a world of difference. By syncing your goals with your menstrual cycle, you can tap into your body’s changing energy levels and mental focus to stay motivated and avoid burnout. Your cycle isn’t just a physi
gabrielleassaf

gabrielleassaf

15 likes

The image features the text "21 DAYS PRAYER & FASTING" in yellow and white, with "Seeking God with all your heart" in yellow below it. This text is set against a dark, textured background, with white space above and below. A faint "Lemon8" watermark is visible in the bottom left corner.
21 DAYS OF FASTING & PRAYER: DAILY PRAYER POINTS
Daily Prayer Points Prayer Points Objective: For divine favor, a mighty move of God in your life and unprecedented breakthrough. Praise God for who He is, and thank God for all He has done and is doing in our life (Psalm 100:4, Ps 103:1-2, 1 Thess. 5:18) Ask God to forgive your sins, and clean
✨💕𝔽𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕟💕✨

✨💕𝔽𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕙𝕠𝕟💕✨

69 likes

Short workout for you to try!
Here’s a quick 40 minute workout for when you’re feeling tired but still want to get your workout in!! I hope you like it 🩷 I personally love these videos!! #workout #fitnessmotivation
Bell

Bell

44 likes

10 DAYS OF SHORT HAIRSTYLES✨
#shorthair #hairinspo #hairstyles #shorthairinspo
KylaJae West

KylaJae West

243 likes

first short glmv✨
"don't project your failed marriage on me." [The minji family.] making part two soon!! #femboys #gacha
🏳️‍⚧️꒱﹒ リひノ .  ꒰🏳️‍🌈꒱

🏳️‍⚧️꒱﹒ リひノ . ꒰🏳️‍🌈꒱

15 likes

37 years old - strong and beautiful.. FINALLY🫶
My journey hasn’t been the easiest, but it’s been the most to know that this is MY testimony! This post is so much more than my weight loss but these little steps I took made a difference for me physically. - Give yourself grace & spend time with Jesus before anything! - stretch those
its.me.jess

its.me.jess

39 likes

KISS Gel Fantasy Allure Ready-To-Wear Short Square
Experience salon-quality results at home with these durable, flexible, and ready-to-wear gel nails. They are waterproof, chip-proof, smudge-proof, and can last for up to 14 days with no damage to your natural nails. The kit includes 28 fake nails, pink gel nail glue, a cuticle stick, and a mini nai
vanessamarie31

vanessamarie31

16 likes

POV: the days are long, but years are short.
#lemon8dairy #embracevulnerability #unfiltered
emily aubertine

emily aubertine

2 likes

self care for busy days✨🤍
when life’s crazy (or even too slow!), fitting in little moments of self-care can make a huge difference. i know i have weeks where i feel like everything is happening at once, and others where i have the time but 0 motivation. here are 5 super simple things you can do daily to take care of yoursel
𝐬𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐡

𝐬𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐡

15 likes

short & sweet guide to digital content planning!✍️
hi friends! i got into digital planning a few years ago when i first got my ipad and apple pencil. i’ve never gone too crazy with my digital planning, but i do enjoy planning out my content digitally! the app i use is called good notes, there is a free version you can use. there are so many tem
cait

cait

28 likes

A manga cover for 'Loveless 1-2' by Yun Kouga, featuring a character with red hair and bandages, set against a bookshelf. Text overlay reads '30 Days of Manga Day #11'.
The back cover of 'Loveless 1-2' manga, showing a synopsis about Ritsuka and Soubi, with broken heart motifs and pricing information. It mentions bonus comics.
A manga panel showing Ritsuka Aoyagi, a character with black hair and cat ears, smiling with bandages on his face. Text bubbles say 'Good Morning. I'm Ritsuka Aoyagi'.
30 Days of Manga - Day #11
30 Days of Manga - Day #11 Book name: “Loveless” Story & Art: “Yun Kouga” Genre: Shounen/Mystery/Fantasy/??? Volumes: 13 books (119 chapters) Dates: July 2002 to July 2017 Status: In print (re-released by VizMedia as an omnibus) Anime Adaptation: Yes, episodes. Artbook: No. Trigge
kara.kimashita

kara.kimashita

23 likes

An App For People With Short Attention Spans!
📚BeFreed - Built for smart, ambitious students serious about continuous growth. Between juggling classes, chasing goals, and trying to stay sane, I rarely had the time (or mental energy) to get through dense, dry classics. BeFreed changed that - it condenses the best nonfiction into: → 30-
booklover😼

booklover😼

20 likes

7 Straight Days of Posting!
I’m doing it again! Kinda by accident, I clicked the button and didn’t realize it would start the same challenge again. I thought it would lead to other challenges to choose from but 🤷🏼‍♀️ haha it was fun the first time, here we go again! #Lemon8 #lemon8challenge #Lemon8Diary #postingonle
Sarah

Sarah

10 likes

Book cover for "Let The Sun Die" by Liz Bullard, featuring a woman's face above a dystopian cityscape with a dim sun and cracked earth. Text indicates it's a short story and a book release.
A text excerpt from "Let The Sun Die" describing the year 2095, Mara's containment suit, and her reflection showing pale skin and yearning eyes in a cave environment.
A text excerpt from "Let The Sun Die" detailing Mara's thoughts on scavenging for a cure for the dying sun and the dim, post-apocalyptic sky above ground.
Dystopian Short Stories | Kindle Unlimited
Mara discovers something that could save the world from a dying sun, but one question haunts her: will she tell everyone? Available now Kindle Unlimited | Audible #Dystopian #apocalyptic #shortstory
Liz Bullard Writes

Liz Bullard Writes

4 likes

The days are long…
This was the year that he found out Santa isn’t real, which then lead to conversations about the tooth fairy and other “growing up” conversation. Wasn’t it just yesterday I gave birth to him? It sure seems like that. The time has gone by so quickly. I never really noticed while I was going throu
Michelle J

Michelle J

1 like

A physical copy of the manga 'Call of the Night' Volume 1 by Kotoyama, displayed on a shelf with other manga. The image has overlaid text '30 Days of Manga Day #6'.
An illustration depicting a boy and a girl, presumably a vampire, reaching out to each other, with the text 'BOY MEETS VAMPIRE??' on an orange background.
An illustration of a boy sitting with his head down, appearing dejected or tired, with the word 'INSOMNIA' prominently displayed at the top.
30 Days of Manga - Day #6
30 Days of Manga - Day #6 Book name: “Call of the Night” Original Title: “Yofukashi no Uta” Story & Art: “Kotoyama” Genre: Shounen/Romance/Supernatural Volumes: 20 books (203 chapters) Dates: August 2019 to January 2024 Status: In print. Anime Adaptation: Yes, 13 episodes. Artboo
kara.kimashita

kara.kimashita

24 likes

How long should a normal period last?
Most girls bleed 3–7 days and both short or long can still be normal. Your body isn’t broken. Your cycle is just yours. How many days do you usually bleed? 👀 #GirlTalk #lemon8challenge # #period #health #interesting
Nikki🍋

Nikki🍋

51 likes

10 DAYS OF SHORT HAIRSTYLES🤎
#shorthair #hairinspo #hairideasforfall
KylaJae West

KylaJae West

556 likes

See more