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QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE ⁉️

Marriage is a HUGE commitment and I think it’s so important for both partners to be 100% on the same page in order to have a successful and happy marriage.

Here are some questions I absolutely think you should ask before getting married (aka don’t get married before asking these questions!)

1) where do you see us 1 year from now? 5 years? 10 years?

2) do you want kids? if so, how many? when do you want kids?

3) how are we going to handle conflict?

4) how are we going to manage our finances? who will contribute to what?

5) what are your financial goals and do we plan on purchasing a home?

6) where do we plan on living for the next 10 years? are you willing to relocate?

7) which family will we spend holidays with?

8) what are your views on religion? God? Will you attend church with together?

9) when things get hard, is couples therapy something you would consider?

WHAT OTHER QUESTIONS WOULD YOU ASK YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE?!

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2024/3/10 Edited to

Before marriage, it’s crucial to engage in meaningful conversations that lay the foundation for your relationship. Asking the right questions can reveal each partner's expectations and aspirations. Consider discussing your visions for the future. Questions like 'Where do you see us in one, five, or ten years?' empower both partners to share their dreams and establish shared goals. Similarly, talking about family is vital. Do you both want children? If so, how many, and what is your timeline for starting a family? These discussions clarify expectations and prevent future misunderstandings. Managing finances can become a major point of contention in a marriage. Ask about financial goals, budgeting habits, and who will handle specific financial responsibilities. It might also be beneficial to discuss long-term plans, such as buying a home, which could help in aligning financial strategies. Conflict resolution is another critical area to cover. Asking 'How are we going to handle conflict?' opens up a dialogue about communication styles and coping strategies, ensuring both partners know how to tackle disagreements together. Discuss your ideologies on holidays and family traditions as well. Whose family will you prioritize during holidays? This can help harmonize relationships with both sides of the family. Additionally, addressing beliefs around religion can be crucial, especially for those with strong convictions. Inquire if your partner is open to attending church together or how both of you view spirituality in your lives. Lastly, it’s important to determine if both of you see value in couples therapy during tough times. This openness can reveal depth in your partnership and create a safety net for the future.

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